stephluvsangel6 | 02-15-2007 12:32 PM | well we all went and she didnt say anything bad unlike usual. she was just loud and obnoxious as usual. but then we went to go eat after we dropped her off and im in a good mood, but everywhere was packed its ridiculous aorund here, but anyway so we went home and then my husband and all his little truck club buddies (and no i dont like the idea of a truck club of this kind will explain but i let hubby have a littel freedom) and so they decide they all want to meet so i said well since you guys meet at the car wash take your truck and i will take my tahoe through the wash and since you will be there you can help me wash it so he said ok, so i got there before him and i went through this littel drive thru wash that takes about 10 mins and then he was there when we came out, so i parked and all his littel friends were like ohhh and ahhhh and touching and im like hellooooo i just washed it and so they backed up and i had my radio on and this other guys decided he wanted to listen to his cd and so he just goes in my car and puts it on i was like its his and i was like oh no but i stayed quiet cause my hubby has been working with me on my attitude and so i just stepped back and zipped my mouth, so anyway i start wiping it down because its wet and my husband was no help, he just was there talking to his friends and so i kept wiping it down and wiping it down and i said ok im leaving and then my twin boy pooped so he said ok well im going to go to then see you guys later and so i pulled out and then he was behind me so i pulled out to go and got down the street and i looked back and he wasnt anywhere to be found so i figured he took another way home and so i went home and then said i had to run to my moms so i did and he still want there so i called and he said oh im at the store, so i was sarcastically saying yeah yeah you are buying beer, and he blew up saying to quit giving me an attitude and i was like what and he hung up so i was like oh no you didnt but i shut up and went home, and then he was got home and he was lik who are you talking to cause i was pretending i was on the phone and i said oh cingular and he said why what happened and i said oh nothing im canceling your phone if you cant talk to me then you dont need a phone. he was livid so i said ok thats enough im leaving him alone and he went outside and knocked things over so i said uhhh if i dont go out there he will tear everything up, so i did and i picked the stuff up it was one chair so i threw it in the trash and just walked away and he came back in side behind me and he accidently smashed my fingers in the door and i freaked and so i turned around cause i thought he was coming after me but he was opening the door up soo then i got mad and said oh im being nice and you are trying to hit me or what cause you know better, and he was like no and so i was like uhh and he walked out and i called him a loser and that we always see his back and that was it, i mean uhhh i try with him nicely i have changed my whole demeanor with him i dont blow up i dont yell and i dont hit anymore but he just doesnt respond and i dont know what the next step will be but some thing drastic needs to be done i mean if im nice and hes still mean im going to go crazy. he needs help but he wont listen to me. and as long as people like his sister and mom etc encourage it and say ohh lets go to the bar when she knows hes married then he will not change, he calls me his mom cause i try to help him. |