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Hello dear, sweet friends. I cannot tell you how much you all mean to me for being so loving and supportive. I am not home very much, but whenever I am, I go on here to see if there's any new ones. One day I hope to thank each and every one of you individually.

I just answered Denise's PM and asked her to do an update as I've got to get back to mom's. I will say one thing...we have gotten mom into a different oncologist...one that is loving and caring and we will no longer have to deal with the arrogent, rude man again! I truly don't know how that mean man can sleep at night!

Denise will give you the rest of the update. Hugs to each and every one of you!

HERE THE UPDATE CONNIE LEFT ME:

Hi Denise,

We finally got mom home from the hospital today and she's so weak we had to get Darrel to help get her into the house. I talked to the surgeon yesterday that put her porta cath in. I told him how arrogent and rude the oncologist is and that we have enough to deal with than to be treated like crap by that buttface. He said he would call and talk to him. Then Mom worried that he would be meaner now because I had said something. Since then, we decided we don't want him and screw it. We will be taking her to another oncologist one week from Friday. I don't know, Denise. Judy and I are exhausted. I came home last night and slept for the first time in days and I got up this morn and feel worse since I got sleep. I did much better with no sleep. I'm just dragging butt today.

The hospital is the most pathetic excuse for a hospital I've ever seen. Judy and I were going to take mom home today whether we had discharge papers or not. They've started this deal where you don't see your own doc in the hospitla, but a hospitalist...a guy whose sposed to take care of the patients in hospital. Mom was there from 7:00 Monday morn til this morn at 10 and never once did he come see her. He tried to blame it on the nurses, but it comes down to he just isn't doing his job. Poor mom has been thru so much and Judy and I don't know which end is up any more. We really don't know how we are going to manage. Right now 2 of us need to be there and she's alone now, so I better get back there. They still don't know where all this cancer is coming from. Judy and I are sick at the thought of her having chemo.

Love ya...see ya later. You can pass this info on if you want. I don't have time to write to everyone and just update the thread if you want!

Connie

LETS ALL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR HER MOM AND TO GIVE HER AND HER SISTER JUDY STRENGTH!!!!

i will continue to pray for your mom connie!!! i am sooo sorry you are so drained....your doing a great job....

Prayers going up that the Lord will strengthen all of you...may you find physical and inner strength that you did not even know you possessed...may each day begin with new hope and a new resolve that this day is going to be better than the one before...may each sunrise be a new reason to rejoice at what the Lord is doing in your lives and your Mom's life. I pray that the new oncologist hits this thing head on and gets you all some answers and a plan of action...we are believing for a cure!!! God Bless You ALL!!!

Just wanted to stop in and say that your mom is still in my prayers. From the pic, your mother looks so happy and very full of life. She looks like she has a strong heart, and that she can pull through this. I hope the best for her. I will continue to pray for her.

thanks, Poor girl, did i miss a post about her mom being in the hospital?

Continuing my prayers for your Mom and for strength for you and your sister.

CONNIE - CHECKING IN WITH YOU Sweetie ....How are you and how is Mom ?? You should have received cards by now and I really hope they cheer her up.....You are in my thoughts daily friend and please take care of yourself ok ?? I'm SO GLAD you found a better doctor and hope for good news in your next update.

Any news on Connies Mom? Hope things are looking up .

We are still praying for your mom and you and your family! Hugs!

I am so sorry I love u
 

Connie I have drained all the prayers that I can out of me and will continue to because ur mom is so well worth it. i KNOW AS UR friend how much u r going threw and I so wish u would be the last person to have to go threw such pain, and ur mom. Ur poor precious mom. I am so sorry my dear ,for you are such a wonderful kind soul that doesn't diserve this misery. Ur poor mother another kind soul that I only wish I could save with my own bare hands. I wish I could do the imposible, but I guess at this :( time I will leave it to the experts that have more knowledge and experience. I do promise you one thing....I will never give up hope for your mother. For I know her strength will pull her through this and ur support, but one thing you should not doubt is that ever night I pray the lord for ur beautiful mother to get well soon. Please know that u and her are and always will be in my heart and in my prayers, always...And when she does get better I know it's because of the love that u and ur family have brought to her for her survival. I love u and ur family....Best wishes to all and give dear mom a big hug and kiss from me. Hugs to you aswell ,your dear, kind friend....YUMI

Hi Connie,

Checking in on this Sunday morning.

Prayers your way.....(strength and courage)

Connie, I am so sorry your mom wasn't recieving the care she so desperately needs. Finding a Dr. who is truely more concerned about his patients and their families, not about the $$ is getting harder and harder. I hope the new facility shows her the compassion that the field of medicine is supposed to. I will keep praying for her and for you and your family to have the strength to help your mom thru this. So many of us have had to deal with this same situation and it is a very difficult one. Just remember to take care of yourself, keep up your strength, and keep the faith strong. (((HUGS))) to all.
Sandy

UPDATE....UPDATE....UPDATE

I got a pm from Connie today and she said her mom is getting weeker by the day, and even weeker by the hour. They are having to give her pain meds every 2 hours because she is in so much pain. Connie said they got alot of the cards and she has really enjoyed them. Connie sends her thanks to everyone who sent cards and for all those great friends here that are prayer for her mom and family. She said is was to get to 50 below last night>>>>>Wow...now thats cold. Thanks everyone!!