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Yay I'm sooooo happy for you! Thank GOD |
Jessica, I am SOOO excited for you! Hearing the good news has just made my day!!!!!!!! Now you can concentrate on celebrating a new life. HOORAY!!!!!!!! |
Jess God I know what you were going though. I kinda went though the same thing myself. When I was 13 I was *date raped* I thought it was my fault so I didn't tell anyone. Well when the monthly didn't come you know I was really scared and I felt I could not tell any one. I faked having a monthly for three months . I finally when to my Step mom. and told her. She was really understanding and took me to the dr. They did a blood test and found that I was not PG Thank god. I didn't have a monthly because of the stress. As soon as I found out I was not PG it stared back up. I was lucky. I also had a misscareage at 20. honey I am so glad your parents are oing to be there for you. you are going to need them. If you are strong and I know you are :) you will do great. God bless you and I please. feel free to PM me if you need to talk My cell is Free nation wide so there is no prob with the long distance.:lovewings :hug60: |
I am SO happy for you. I am just elated! This is the best case senario! Congrats on the little addition! I can't tell you how happy I am that your parents are going to be there for you!! |
Congrats on getting over the biggest hump! It takes a lot to confront your parents about it.. I wish the best of luck in the months to come! |
I'm glad everything turned out OK when you told your parents :) |
This is wonderful news!! Im sure your parents didnt want a repeat of how they handled your sister's situation, they probably felt alot of guilt over time about it and didnt want to make that same mistake again. Good luck with the pregnancy and I wish you a painless labour hehehe... Dawn |
Ok 2day i dealt with the father but im so tired and exhausted from all of this that i will write what happened with him 2morrow! once again, thanks for all the support it honestly helped me get through this and toughen me up!! :) |
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he sounds like a loser .....srry to sound mean but you did say he wants you to abort it right? If I'm wrong I'm sorry, if I'm right tell him to shut up |
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Ok so here's the story on the father: Me and him were never in a relationship, we were just having sex. We were having sex for about 8 months and I guess we got to comfortable because nothing was happening. Now I ended up pregnant. He raps and is a producer. Him and his best friend started their own little company or whatever u call it. He has a lot going 4 him that's y i was so unsure about what 2 do with him. So I went to his house the other day to talk 2 him. It was the first time he's seeing me since he found out I'm pregnant. And it took me by complete surprise when he kept kissing my stomach and rubbing it. Then the next day he went to the clinic with me and they told me I may be having twins!! Which can't be 2 unexpected since I'm a twin, my mom's a twin, my grandma was a twin, and we have lots of other twins in the family. After he dropped me off at home he called me at 1:45AM and told me that he doesn't want me to get an abortion and that he's sorry for even mentioning it. And I was like "why the sudden change of mind" and he was like "man after seeing you and your belly it did something to me and then seeing the ultrasound i just feel so attached to them already and I really want to try and work this out. I mean were having twins baby" and I was like "well i wasn't going to get an abortion either way" lol. But yeah, I'm glad he decided to be in their lives and is beeing so caring now. Sorry for the long post. |
Things just work out sometimes. I have a beautiful 6 year old grandson, who was a surprise addition to our family. My son and his girlfriend had some tough times, but today they are married and have 2 other boys 2 and 1. These boys are the joy of my heart and I couldn't consider life without them. My son and Laura married when Gabe was 2 and are very much in love, have bought a new home and are the picture of a happy, healthy family. Sometimes we parents can even surprise our children when given the chance. Your parents will get so attached to this baby that it has already become a part of their life. They already love their grandbaby. Just be patient with them and give them some time to soak it all in. Good luck sweetie, everything will be okay! Take it from a Nana of 5 beautiful babies. |
I am so glad this are working out for you and the father. Maybe he just reacted to the initial shock and freaked out. Which I think anyone in this situtation would. BTW, Congratulations on twins!!!!!!! |
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Jessica, this is such great news!!!!!!!!! Your children will be so happy to have a father in their lives. Thank you so much for keeping us updated. There are so many people here on YT that care so much about you! Please continue to keep us updated as your pregnancy progresses. What an exciting time!!!!!!! |
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