I am so sad right now I just got home from having my mammogram and I got a call that my Brother in law was found dead yesterday in his apartment. He just turned 57 and lives in Colorado. He died in his sleep they think on Friday. He was a lifelong alcoholic who had just gone 4 months sober. He was a kind and caring person but just couldn't get his life together. My husband's dad died a year ago and so now he is all that is left of his family. I feel so bad I talked to Dale, my BIL every week as his girlfriend left him 1 1/2 years ago after living together for 18 years. He really had nobody. Now I am trying to make the arrangements and I think we will have to fly out there. I am afraid to fly and I am afraid to leave Cali with my dtr. I am hoping we can handle a lot of things from here and fly in for one long day. Thanks for listening. |
oh sweetie im so so sorry for your loss... im sending hugs and kisses your way at this moment... i will say a prayer for your husband that he will be able to handle this... you take care ok..you and your family will be in my thoughts ...god bless |
I'm so sorry to hear about your BIL. Your family is in my prayers. |
I'm so sorry for your loss and Its so terrible to lose someone so suddenly. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. |
Hugs to you Patti. I'm sorry for the loss. I know how hard it is. My uncle (dads brother) became an alcoholic after his mentally unstable wife committed suicide and left him and 3 very young kids behind. 15 Years later it's like he's getting worse. He has no one that respects him other than my mom. He lives in Australia, so it's hard to be there for him. I undestand how you must be feeling, but just try your best to take care of yourself and your husband. God will be taking care of your BIL now, and he is at peace. |
I'm sorry to hear about your Brother in law. Sending prayers and hugs to you. |
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My condolences on your loss! What an awful thing to have to deal with ... I am hoping you can take care of all this so your husband can grieve properly .... How old is your daughter? If she is 18+ she should be able to handle it for a few days .... I am so sorry to hear all this ... Peace! Debbie |
I am sending prayers and hugs to you and your husband. I am so sorry for the loss of your brother-in-law. |
Oh Patti I am very sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!!! |
I am so sorry for the loss of you BIL. Your in my prayers.... |
Sending lots of warm thoughts and prayers . . . |
Patti, I am so very sorry..... sending love and hugs. I will hold you close to my heart and keep you in my mind and prayers. |
Oh Patti - I'm so sorry !! That's just awful to lose someone you're so close to. I'm really sorry and you have my condolences... |
How terrible. I am so sorry! My thoughts are with you and your family during this time.:( |
loss I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Wishing you all the best. |
I am so sorry for your loss, huggs... |
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, My mother pass away 3 years ago before she died I was in the mental hostipal and the day I got out I was sitting in my easy seat and she called and said she called 911 I was so high on the meds that I didn't know anything my hubby walked in and the phone was ringing it was my sil and she told me my mother was dead :cry: :cry: I hadn't seen her for 3 months and she dies oh Lord help me all the guilt is so heavy. In April of this year my sister died :cry: :cry: My mom was 58 my sister was 39. I'm so so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family. |
oh Patti I'm sorry! I hope things get better for your husband. Stay strong you 2, sending you a prayer |
Oh Patti I'm so so sorry. That's awful. :( Your family will be in my prayers. |
Sending hugs and prayers to help you and your family deal with this tragedy. God Bless you all and watch over you thru your grief. |
Patti- I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you are able to handle the arrangements and feel good about Cali, too. If I lived closer, I'd watch her for you!! |
I'm so sorry for the loss of your BIL and for all that you and your hubby must go through to make the arrangements from such a long distance. Stay strong, we are praying for you and your family. |
Patti...I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. And he died alone...that makes it even sadder. My heart goes out to you and yours and I'll remember you in prayer! Hugs to you! |
Sending hugs and prayers, Patti. |
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