Kathryn, no words can express how sorry i am that this has happened to such a wonderful lady. All we can all do is pray that a miracle occurs and you guys will be back on that cruise in October. Sending plenty of hugs your way.

I'm so sorry. I read this thread to my husband. No one expects things like this to happen. Your aunt is such a good person and it seems like she was more of a best friend or even a sister to you than an aunt.
Don't worry about staying strong infront of us here at YT. Say whatever you want and we will be here for you. I know what you mean about drama in families, my family is VERY dramatic, esspecially my in-laws.
Just know that we will always be thinking of you and we're here for you no matter what happens.


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I just now read this, Im so sorry this happened.I'm keeping her and all of you in my prayers.

We are all saying prayers but how can god let this happen? to someone who was doing such a wonderfull thing for two people who wanted a baby.

"It rains on the just and the unjust."
 

I don't think we're trying to find blame in this situation. I know it's natural to want to blame someone. We can't blame god or karma for everything that happens in life. Unfortunately we don't receive immunity for the selfless acts of courage we make. Life unfortunately simply isn't fair. We can only live our lives with our beliefs in current happiness or the possibility of being rewarded in the after life.

I think her aunt knew in her heart that she was giving a wonderful gift to this family. I can tell that she loves her children and wanted this other couple to have the opportunity at this love. To give this gift, she has made so many sacrifices. Personally I am pro-life so I really look up to this woman for her decision to have the baby. I feel like she should be rewarded for this. It sounds like she already has gotten the joy out of knowing that she is helping a family who has always wanted a child. I just wish that she could see the couple with the baby.

Remember this... "It rains on the just and the unjust."

This lady did a wonderful thing by giving that baby the chance at life and has in turn affected two more lives of people that she never even knew. No matter what happens all of her children will live on in her legacy that she has lived her life for others and is a very caring person. She has done a very honorable and nobel thing.

I really hope that she pulls through. I honestly hope that no one blames god, the baby, or anyone else for what has happened. It is no one's fault but is one of those things that just happen. What we need to do is support a friend who is going through alot right now and pray for her aunt's recovery. Please don't lose hope Kathryn.

Any update this morning????
 

I am so sorry for what has happened.......

Can the docs not give her medication to dissolve the clots? Don't give up.....she can have a kidney transplant.....and other organs can sometimes repair themselves....

Prayer works......hang in there.....

Still praying for your aunt, you, and your family.

I'm with Kitty, I'm still sending hugs and love your way. One of the prayers I sent was answered..... I asked for strength for you and your family. The 10 hours of sleep gave you strength. Praise the Lord for answering prayers.

I am continuing to pray for you, your family, the baby, the doctors and most of all for your precious Aunt.

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Thankyou you have made me think, I like the saying "It rains on the just and unjust" I will remember that.

Thank you. That quote has got me through times like this as well. When something terrible happened to a couple that we felt were wonderful, good people. I hope that the quote helps Kathryn as well. I just wonder how those kids are taking it. It must be so difficult. We're all still thinking of your family here at YT

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That was the most touching post ever! I called the new mom and read it to her and it had her in tears!! She asked me to email it to her for Baby Austin's Baby Book. I am great friends with the Adoptive family.. This whole process has been amazing! We really got to know them really well... Austin is lucky to have such amazing parents! He will be very loved!

As for Cameron... I am not cautiously optimistic..... I am so afraid to get my hopes up right now because the doctors are still not giving her a good report as far as her chances....

But they backed off her sedation today so they could do some assessments... And I got in to see her before they upped the meds.... I talked to her and she knew I was there!:eek: I was floored! I told her how much I loved her, how much she scared me, and how badly I wanted her to come home with me! She started reaching for the Tube in her throat and I pushes her hand back down... her eyes were closed and she was still very dopey! I told her that I knew it was uncomfortable and that I knew she wanted it out... but that it needed to be there, that she needs to relax and not fight the treatments they are giving her... that they are saving her life.. and she nodded yes and agreed... so I just held her hand a while and told her about the family and everyone who had come to see her... and she made faces... lol I also took the opportunity to tell her how much I love her! and told her the things I was afraid I was not going to get to tell her.... Then I leaned in and told her that I would have to get going in a minute... and she really started shaking her head back and forth... saying no... and I reassured her that I was going to be close by, that they only let me be in her room for short periods of time... But that I'd be back soon... and more no head shaking... I just kept telling her I would come back... and then I said that I promised.. and she shook yes... I kissed her shoulder and as I pulled away she lifted both arms! 6 inches above her body! (this is huge by the way!) to give me a hug!!!! She could not hold them there for more than a few seconds... I put them down and I hugged her, she bent her neck and hugged me with her head and then opened her eyes.... for only a few moments... I doubt that she saw much... then I kissed her cheek and told her I would see her soon.....

The minute I left the ICU and entered the hallway I lost it! I cried for a good 40 mins.... Happy? Scared? Unsure? Terrified? Excited? Hopeful? All at once I was not even sure why I was crying... I just was...

I think it was because I really thought I was never going to get another chance to talk to her and tell her how much I love her! And I got to today... and she knew... And she did not want me leaving! It was all a bit much!!!

Thank you everyone for everything!! There is a long road ahead for her if she makes it.... All I can do is pray that she does... and you all have been wonderful in helping me do that... Thank you so much.

Kathryn it sounds like maybe she is beating the odds. Each hour is another hour she has survived and fought for life. I will continue to pray for her complete recovery and it sounds like she really needs you there!! Keep strong!

I'm in tears right now. I am going to keep you and your family and especially your aunt in my prayers. I pray for a full recovery.

Kathryn, it sounds like you mean the world to her. The time you can spend with her may be what is keeping her fighting. That is awesome that she was able to do what she did in her condition and as sedated as she is. She is really trying hard. I don't know how you were able to control your emotions while you were with her. You are a very strong lady. I'll keep prayers coming for Cameron, her family, your family, Austin's family and for you, since you seem to be the one that she is connecting with. God Bless you all.

Kathryn, it sounds like the prayers of the many people here at YT are being answered. Thank you for sharing the GREAT news.

Your entire family will remain in my thoughts and prayers.