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Dating... Why is it so hard? I am too upfront to play the games! I am not "settling" for anyone; I want someone awesome. I think I found someone awesome, but he is playing games with me. I have to admit that the games keep things interesting and keeps me on the edge of my seat wondering what's happening next, but aren't we wasting precious time? You only live once! |
because men are stupid and dont always know what they want..thats why :D |
im married so I envy you sometimes, i think dating would be fun, but then again i am secure and stable lol its always greener on the other side |
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:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: Either that or they want there cake and eat it too!!! |
This is what I found from both personal experience and what I've seen with friends. Men still live like prehistoric times!!! Honestly, they are like the cavemen! They feel like they have to hunt for the right woman to make it worth it. Is that what you mean by playing games? |
I can't help you with the dating game I haven't dated in 22 years my hubby wouldn't like it. I tryed to help my daughter but she wouldn't hear of it, now she is getting married in Oct to a guy that has nothing but 2 children from his frist and second wife my daugher will never have anyhing unless she does it on her own she is 20 years old. Please don't give up he may be right around the coner. Best wishes. |
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Kristy - if you think you found someone awesome - go for it - if it's not meant to be...you'll know it soon enough. Life is short but by no means does that mean you can't have fun....if it's not this guy...then it could be the next guy. IF you don't want to settle - Keep tasting the deserts till you find one you can't live without ! |
Because women generally know what we want. It's men that are usually undecided...wanting to keep their "options open". When you stop playing their games is when they "normally" start coming around. So my advice to this person you found..."SH** OR GET OFF OF THE POT!" |
Is this like a complete the sentence game? Dating.............SUCKS! That's my 2 cents but I'm old and bitter :) |
i hate dating too,,, never really did it though,,, i always got really lucky. when i did go out, i usually found someone that lasted years... thank god i found a nice guy., well so far so good.... you cant look for it either, when you least expect it, boom there he is.... if this guy treats you nice kristy , keep him, but if you feel he is giving you a run , drop him... real fast... good luck to you... |
Honestly that's just how juvenile guys are. If I were you, I would have an honest conversation with him and tell him that you're not interested in playing his games and unless he WANTS to be with you game-free, that you are moving on. That's what I would do personally. I ran into that problem as well, and I think it's just dating younger guys is really what gets you in the game playing. When I met my b/f, who's 6 years older than me, so he's in his early 30's, the first thing he told was NO GAMES. He said, no waiting 4 days for the other person to call, or waiting for one person to say something or invite the person somewhere. He was like, both of us are great people and can date whomever we want but we choose to be together so let's not play with that, cause if games get involved, I don't want to be part of it. I couldn't have said it better myself, I was always the one having those talks with other guys, so I loved that he was just like me. When you meet the right person, games won't be an issue. Good luck! |
I agree with Nobella....date someone older!!!!!!! I am in my 20s and married, but one of my friends is dating and she will not date anyone under 30. She says that if you just go on 1 date with an older guy, you will never go back to those juvenille guys! Get you a sugar daddy that will lavish you with gifts and treat you like a Princess! :p |
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perhaps all my b/f were younger than me,,,ooopps , yes i rob the cradle.. no really just a year or too younger... my b/f is 1 yr younger... when i first met him , i told him no games or take a walk. 1 game your gone i told him.. he hasnt played a single game yet.... |
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