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ytsirk27 08-11-2006 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by vainchick5
It's hard to understand because we love our babies, but honestly I don't like going to other people's homes when they have animals. I really don't know how others keep their animals, so even though I'm an animal lover, I get grossed out pretty easily by how some people keep their pets. Nothing personal against them, but it's just me. I know me and most of my friends care for our babies like family but not everyone sees our babies as family. I've just learned to accept that and I have far too many good people in my life to alienate them because of their preferences. But I also don't alienate Coco because she's my family as well. It's a fine line.

:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: Thanks Nobella!!!!!!!!

ytsirk27 08-11-2006 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae
gotta say this, but if my own mom didnt like lexi, i would tell her to stay home.. sorry, this is my child...my only child... understand or not , its too dam bad.. those are my rules... but thankgod mom loves lexi.. its her granddaugher of course and thats exactly how she treats her... its so funny.
im my moms baby and lexi is mom... that goes for my whole entire family.
they know and my b/d knows that animals have such an impact on me that is unreal.... oh well just call me crazy or dont call me at all...

Thanks Gina :D :D

vainchick5 08-11-2006 10:35 AM
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:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: Thanks Nobella!!!!!!!!
I hope that helps a little. I know you are in a tough spot but you have to decide if this woman is important in your life or not. My family is important to me so if they love Coco but just don't want to sleep with her, I'm ok with that. But if a random friend doesn't want to come over because of Coco I would not be. I have a friend who loves coco but doesn't like Coco to lick her, so I try to be careful and teach Coco guest manners. Maybe you can let the babies play outside in the yard while you guys are inside. The men will be with them outside while they are bbq'ing right?

RLC12345678 08-11-2006 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae
gotta say this, but if my own mom didnt like lexi, i would tell her to stay home.. sorry, this is my child...my only child... understand or not , its too dam bad.. those are my rules... but thankgod mom loves lexi.. its her granddaugher of course and thats exactly how she treats her... its so funny.
im my moms baby and lexi is mom... that goes for my whole entire family.
they know and my b/d knows that animals have such an impact on me that is unreal.... oh well just call me crazy or dont call me at all...
I agree 100%. Invite them over, and if she doesn't want to come, then WHO CARES! That's less dishes you have to wash! Just let her hubby come and let him leave her at home! :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

Lexi Rae 08-11-2006 10:36 AM
maybe im like this cause i have no human children. but i must admits, im nutso and im fine with that.... seriously how can anyone not like animals, what were they born under a rock..?.. have a heaaaart , just cant imagine it.
and just by not liking animals, i dont like them.

ytsirk27 08-11-2006 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted by vainchick5
I hope that helps a little. I know you are in a tough spot but you have to decide if this woman is important in your life or not. My family is important to me so if they love Coco but just don't want to sleep with her, I'm ok with that. But if a random friend doesn't want to come over because of Coco I would not be. I have a friend who loves coco but doesn't like Coco to lick her, so I try to be careful and teach Coco guest manners. Maybe you can let the babies play outside in the yard while you guys are inside. The men will be with them outside while they are bbq'ing right?

To be honest. I really good careless if she came over or not. I dont like ppl..I dont trust them sand shes one of those that is pushy.(her business) and tries to be somebody shes not. I have founbd after I decided not to join her business she doesnt talk to me as much so pretty screw her....BUT im looking at it for my husband...him and Arron are pretty good friends and he dont use Jeff like Jeffs other friends do so im trying to make everybody happy. WE may just forgo the bbq......and he can go out and hang out out there so i dont have to deal with any of it!!! :rolleyes: :D

RLC12345678 08-11-2006 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae
maybe im like this cause i have no human children. but i must admits, im nutso and im fine with that.... seriously how can anyone not like animals, what were they born under a rock..?.. have a heaaaart , just cant imagine it.
and just by not liking animals, i dont like them.
Gina, I again agree with you 100%. I don't have any children either. My 2 yorkies are literally my kids and I treat them like they are. My hubby's parents are too fond of our dogs, but you know what, they live out of town and they will not under any circumstances see us unless they allow our dogs in their home and are nice to them. My hubby told them that. I mean, how can you NOT like animals? I'm VERY suspicious of people who don't like animals. HAVE A HEART!

RLC12345678 08-11-2006 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted by ytsirk27
To be honest. I really good careless if she came over or not. I dont like ppl..I dont trust them sand shes one of those that is pushy.(her business) and tries to be somebody shes not. I have founbd after I decided not to join her business she doesnt talk to me as much so pretty screw her....BUT im looking at it for my husband...him and Arron are pretty good friends and he dont use Jeff like Jeffs other friends do so im trying to make everybody happy. WE may just forgo the bbq......and he can go out and hang out out there so i dont have to deal with any of it!!! :rolleyes: :D
You are very considerate to think of your hubbys feelings. If I were you, I would plan to have the bbq and invite BOTH of them. Then she can choose whether she wants to come or not. THen the ball won't be in your court...it will be in hers. You know what I mean?

ytsirk27 08-11-2006 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted by RLC12345678
Gina, I again agree with you 100%. I don't have any children either. My 2 yorkies are literally my kids and I treat them like they are. My hubby's parents are too fond of our dogs, but you know what, they live out of town and they will not under any circumstances see us unless they allow our dogs in their home and are nice to them. My hubby told them that. I mean, how can you NOT like animals? I'm VERY suspicious of people who don't like animals. HAVE A HEART!

Yes I agree. I have 2 human children also and I am the same with them.. You dont want my kids over with me than screw ya...you dont get me either!!

ytsirk27 08-11-2006 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted by RLC12345678
You are very considerate to think of your hubbys feelings. If I were you, I would plan to have the bbq and invite BOTH of them. Then she can choose whether she wants to come or not. THen the ball won't be in your court...it will be in hers. You know what I mean?

Thats true.....my only worry is when she gets her shell be like "can you put them up" the whole time. I will probably strangle her!! :D

vainchick5 08-11-2006 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted by RLC12345678
You are very considerate to think of your hubbys feelings. If I were you, I would plan to have the bbq and invite BOTH of them. Then she can choose whether she wants to come or not. THen the ball won't be in your court...it will be in hers. You know what I mean?
Great idea Rebecca! Get in your hubby's good graces so he knows how much you care about his feelings and if they decide not to come, you won't look like the bad guy. :D And if she asks you to put them away, just say that you are sorry but you cannot do that, it is their home.

RLC12345678 08-11-2006 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted by ytsirk27
Thats true.....my only worry is when she gets her shell be like "can you put them up" the whole time. I will probably strangle her!! :D
oooooooo that would sure burn me up! I would have her over and just kill her with kindness. If she asks you to put them up, kindly tell her that they are part of your family and that you are not going to punish them like that..

Sorry you're having to deal with this. This really is a sticky situation.

ytsirk27 08-11-2006 10:45 AM
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Originally Posted by vainchick5
Great idea Rebecca! Get in your hubby's good graces so he knows how much you care about his feelings and if they decide not to come, you won't look like the bad guy. :D And if she asks you to put them away, just say that you are sorry but you cannot do that, it is their home.

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Lexi Rae 08-11-2006 10:46 AM
ya know what? ok , ,, i was talking outta my butt, not really , but
if its for your husband, they invite them, but only for him... ok...make him happy ....and if she says anything, then throw her out on her ass and slam the door in her face and say thats what i get for inviting you in the first place., only kidding... really invite them,, hope all goes well... good luck sweetie


im too much of a jokester... never know what im gonna say

ytsirk27 08-11-2006 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted by RLC12345678
oooooooo that would sure burn me up! I would have her over and just kill her with kindness. If she asks you to put them up, kindly tell her that they are part of your family and that you are not going to punish them like that..

Sorry you're having to deal with this. This really is a sticky situation.

Im willing to trade ya spots!!!:D :D :D


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