Originally Posted by kalina82

i can honestly tell you that the music she heard at warped tour is OK. Most of it is rock music and i believe there were a couple emo bands there too. Nothing really promoting drugs, sex, and killing people, like the before mentioned eminem concert. I have to agree with her that would never let a child go see eminem, heck, i wouldn't even go. However, the bands at warped tour are ok, and its good music. nothing to worry about. its ok to be worried because that was your daughter's first big concert, and she did do something that was a bit reckless (crowd surfing and losing her way). Encourage her to tell you these things. I tell my mother lots of things, even what i did while i was away at college. She wasn't always thrilled to hear it, but she'd rather me tell her then not. besides its fun for me to see the look on her face LOL

so in the words of your daughter, chill out mom (or whatever they say these days LOL)

go easy on her. just remind her that you would prefer that she stay with whom ever she went with instead of going off by herself. there are lots of things that can happen to a young girl on her own, and its best to always stay with your friends when your out. that's a rule i stick by hardcore.