ever feel like a piece of meat? this is one thing that ALWAYS annoys me! ok, im not gonna lie here, but since it gets hot down here i tend to wear shorts and its also not my fault i have a nice latin butt :rolleyes: but thats not the point! whenever me, my mom, and my sister go out all these gross men stare and you up and down and i sometimes i cant help but feel like slapping those guys! :mad: :thumbdown :mad: but to absolute worst is those Daddy Yankee wannabe men who start making comments or whistle at you :angry: my mom ask taught me to ignore it and just dont comment, but sometimes its just like, GET A LIFE! sorry, but had to vent :mad: |
I know !! i hate that !!!i always Go EWWWW at them ! |
just goes to show you men are the same all over the world:mad: cos i get that and it really bugs me too. i got so fed up with men (i use that term losely) looking at my boobs and saying stuff i bought a t shirt which said ***koff im fussy lol should of seen there faces then lol:D funny when i wear it no one says a thing lol:D |
Well, at least 80 year old doesn't hit on you! Espically when i have my dog, it's so disgusting! Ugh! Men! :mad: :thumbdown |
sashajade, i like that shirt! and 80 year olds havent hit on me yet, but they go crazy with my (older) sister! :mad: its disgusting! |
I hate that soooooooooooo much I always say "ew!" and give them that "wtf are you THINKING, I'm 16" look sometimes I even say anything but I'm like that in GENERAL not just with creepy old men |
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I always say s**t back to guys like that, I have a big mouth though. |
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I have a 16 yr old daughter and she has a very nice figure, but I have taught her to cover herself up, you can wear things that still keep you cool, but you have to leave something to the imagination! Men are visual, and if you go letting it all hang out, there going to disrespect you. In my opinion if a girl is walking around half naked, there doing it for attention and I dont feel sorry for anyone who gets gawked at. I'm not saying you dress provocative cause I dont know you and I have never seen you, but just respect yourself and your body and so will others! |
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LOL, I vaguely remember the feeling... |
I am sorry, but I don't care if men are visual or not. Why do we make excuses for poor upbringing on their part!!!!!!! I think more parents should teach their sons to respect women in general. But, I am also not saying it is entirely appropriate for girls to let it all hang-out...but shorts in the summer are by no means scandalous. I think it is so sad that we as women have to watch every little thing we do as to not raise a man's hormone level! Why don't they watch how they act in public!!! Sorry for the venting, but here in Houston with the heat it is hard not to wear tank tops and whatnot. But the stares are ridiculous...why can't I wear what I want without being stared at? |
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:thumbup: I totally agree with your post. I don't think it's right to dress scandalous to certain places. Clubs and parties, yes, but going to the mall...no. But even if someone does want to dress like a whore when their going to the grocery store, they should be able to wear what they want w/o getting hollered at. At my sisters school girls cannot wear spaghetti strapped tops because it "causes a distraction". I'm sorry, but parents need to teach their kids that they go to school to learn, to not focus on an exposed shoulder! Why should the girls have to cover up their SHOULDERS, just because some guys can't focus? It's not their fault. This rule I think is over the line. |
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We as parents have to teach are children, male and female to respect others as we would want to be respected! I feel it's not right for men to act like pigs but on the other hand it's not right for young girls to act 10 years older then they really are. Then you cant even go to a store and buy a pair of shorts without them being so short, your arse cheeks are hanging out, then the young girls around here buy the tank tops 2 sizes to small to make there breast look bigger, then today we took my children and my neice and nephew to the beach and I was ashamed to be there, I seen women and teens wearing white tank tops with no bra into the water!!! UMmm hello??? you could see everything they have. Or this one was wearing a bikini that the top was 2 sizes to small and she mise well have worn nothing at all. So IMO thats giving the men something to gawk about, what? the men are suppose to walk around with there eyes shut? I mean come on, there only human, when I see a hot guy without his shirt on and he has a nice chest, hell ya I'm gonna look, cause I'm only human. We cant go blaming it on the men when the women give them something to stare at. and as for going to the store in sweats and a ball cap, well alot of men find that very sexy, when I wear a baseball hat, my husband cant keep his hands to himself, it's something about a woman in a hat, just like when a woman drives a big truck, it drives the men wild! In no means am I arguing with any of you, I'm just voicing my opinion and what I have experienced in life. |
I remember in 7th and 8th grade, walking home from school, in my catholic school uniform (!) and men (not teenagers) would whistle and yell at me! at 12 and 13 years of age!! Can you believe that! I was a very naive and innocent child, and this was very disturbing to me. I didn't like that kind of attention. I didn't start wearing revealing clothes until I was a lot older, just because I hated that attention. |
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I agree. Beauty today is pushed as how slutty and revealing you can dress. Young girls today look like prostitutes. I am sorry to use these words, but that is what I see. |
Girls This is not something new, I was that sexy 16 yrs old too.... Boys, Men look! period...This is human nature. Even tho I agree some girls today dress provacative, but hey I remember wearing short shorts and halter tops too. Just don't over do it and ignore them. This is part of being young and in shape. Guys will always be around to whistle at girls. |
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Men WILL always look - but I think men should draw the line at a child vs teens - Most girls 14 and up already know what's up ...but 12 year olds do not ....and they shouldn't have to deal with that at that age. In my opinion any man whistling and gawking at very young kids has a problem I've dealt with looks & stares all my life .....& still do. I'll say this in al honesty ...I'll be depressed when they STOP gawking :D :D :D :D |
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Ok i'm gonna tell ya all something since we don't see eachother on here i have to explain. I am a 36 DDD and let me tell you i hate stupid men who look at my chest and not my face! it's so funny cause i am very outspoken and confrontational i always call them on it like umm hello are you staring at my boobs? they get so embarresed. Men are pigs sex is all they think about. No one in my family has any boobs small b cups at most i don't know where my bowling balls came from but they are ridiculously huge i hate them sometimes. But you all have to admit when we're in a jam it's nice that men are pigs ex.. getting out of a ticket getting free drinks all sorts of things. |
by no means, i dont wear provacative clothing! i mean, the shorts im talking about are the ones that are in style now, and its not like you can see my butt cheek or anything! i maybe 12, but trust me, i know what men are all about. my mom has taught me all these things. but still! i dont mind when its a boy around my age group, but these older men!!!!!!! :mad: now thats just nasty! |
ladies, i think you should know this important fact: On average, men think about sex every 6 seconds :rolleyes: |
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girls at 8 years old know what's up. it's wrong for men to do it no matter WHAT the age but with television now adays, 8 year olds KNOW what's up I mean look at how much younger kids mature now adays starting their cycle at around age 10 and kids loose their virginity much younger too I'm always around kids of the 10-13 age and when you watch them you can tell they know REMEMBER THIS it's really very true, even for a 2 year old "Everyone, no matter what their age, feels around 22 in their heart" I see how those 10 year olds act. They don't realize how young they are! |
If we really want this to stop It starts with personal responsiblity - I agree that shorts can be cool without being too short or too tight. In all honesty, loose fitting clothing is cooler than tight clothes. I see no need for tank tops or spaghetti straps. As young ladies and mothers, we set the standards. Those men were once some mother's little boy. The young girls that are getting ogled are still some mother's daughter. We must be their examples, their mentors and their guardian. Proper dress should not be governed by styles but decency. Behaviour should not be modeled from television programs but the Bible. And it must be taught at home. |
Older men that look at young, underaged girls are disgusting!:mad: |
Ok it is really gross being 47 and having 20 somethings hit on me....I say ummmmm Ok, I am married and even if I was not married you are the age of my children !!!!! and they say .......sooooo? YUKKKKKKKKKK |
Those men are basically pigs!!! |
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