Originally Posted by puppylove123

ladies, i think you should know this important fact:

On average, men think about sex every 6 seconds :rolleyes:

Originally Posted by GeorgiesMomma

When my oldest niece was about your age she was riding her bike down the street. A guy about my age (there is 10 years difference) was driving by and slowed down to look at her his car swerved off the road and he hit a tree. Thankfully he wasn't hurt but my niece called me in tears. I just told her it would be okay and that he shouldn't have been staring anyways. I felt bad to say that and although she looks older for her age she still did not look old enough for a 22 year old guy. What I hate the most is when guys whistle or say "Hey" like I am going to stop what I am doing and run over to talk to them......get a life!

Originally Posted by Annabelles_mom

I agree. Beauty today is pushed as how slutty and revealing you can dress. Young girls today look like prostitutes. I am sorry to use these words, but that is what I see.

Originally Posted by vainchick5

While I do agree that men can be hormonal pigs at times, I think sometimes you need to take responsibility for yourself (not directed at anyone just a general statement). I think if a girl dresses in a provocative manner, then she will be treated like a working girl. I'm sorry but I go out and look at these 12+ year old girls wearing shorts with a 1 inch inseam and a shirt 3 sizes to small to accentuate her breasts. Then they complain about the attention they get.
If your shorts are too close to your cooch, even if your butt cheeks aren't hanging out, they are bound to get attention. If your shirt is so small that it could fit on your puppy, you are bound to get attention.
I have a great figure (worked hard to get there) but I think it's sexier to dress somewhat more conservatively and leave something to the imagination. If I dress and act like a slut, I will be treated as one (not saying anyone is just making a general statement). These young girls these days look older than I am and they are only 13.


It's summarized best by comedia Bill Mahr:
"Prostitutes are complaining that business is slow because so many young girls are dressing like them, that men don't know who's ass is realllllly for sale"

Originally Posted by vainchick5

While I do agree that men can be hormonal pigs at times, I think sometimes you need to take responsibility for yourself (not directed at anyone just a general statement). I think if a girl dresses in a provocative manner, then she will be treated like a working girl. I'm sorry but I go out and look at these 12+ year old girls wearing shorts with a 1 inch inseam and a shirt 3 sizes to small to accentuate her breasts. Then they complain about the attention they get.
If your shorts are too close to your cooch, even if your butt cheeks aren't hanging out, they are bound to get attention. If your shirt is so small that it could fit on your puppy, you are bound to get attention.
I have a great figure (worked hard to get there) but I think it's sexier to dress somewhat more conservatively and leave something to the imagination. If I dress and act like a slut, I will be treated as one (not saying anyone is just making a general statement). These young girls these days look older than I am and they are only 13.


It's summarized best by comedia Bill Mahr:
"Prostitutes are complaining that business is slow because so many young girls are dressing like them, that men don't know who's ass is realllllly for sale"

Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles

I dont feel this can all be blamed on the men!! are you telling me that you never looked or whistled at a good looking guy??

and to puppylove123, if your only 12, how on earth do you know this?? On average, men think about sex every 6 seconds ?

I wish these kids now days would just focus on school and learning and stop worrying about boys and looking good, it's not going to get you anywhere in life!!
I over and over emphasize to my kids that you have to put your schooling in front of everything!!

Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles

My 16 yr old has a boyfriend and I'm ok with it, but they have rules and they have never went out on a date with just the 2 of them, if they go somehwew, we all go, movies, dinner, etc... this may be a little harsh, but I'm not ready to be a grandma yet!! I know what it's like raising a child in my teens, I'm 31 and she's 16, do the math lol
and this is a wholeeeeeeeeeeeee new topic LOL

Originally Posted by Zoey's Momma