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ytsirk27 07-11-2006 07:09 AM
So Friggin Mad!!
 
:mad: I run a daycare and I dont know why but this little girl tore my walpaper off almost the whole way up. She has NEVER done this before..I am soo friggin mad right now I could beat her (I wont of course). I want to redo this anyway but its the friggin point!!!! :mad: :mad: :mad:

JeanieK 07-11-2006 07:11 AM
Oh Man I'd be mad too. How old is the little girl.

Look at it this way, it just gives you the incentive to redecorate sooner. Maybe the kids can help you tear it all off.

ytsirk27 07-11-2006 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted by JeanieK
Oh Man I'd be mad too. How old is the little girl.

Look at it this way, it just gives you the incentive to redecorate sooner. Maybe the kids can help you tear it all off.
shes 18 months but I have had her since she was 6 months and has NEVER messed with it. I am really trying not to be mad but gosh dang. I dont have the extra money right yet to redo it all and so now its a big tear eye sore. Its not even in the corner its right there in the middle of the wall!:( :(

JeanieK 07-11-2006 07:19 AM
This is probably not much consolation, but my dogs tore mine off in several spots, and then the scratched a hole in another wall.

Zoey's Momma 07-11-2006 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted by ytsirk27
shes 18 months but I have had her since she was 6 months and has NEVER messed with it. I am really trying not to be mad but gosh dang. I dont have the extra money right yet to redo it all and so now its a big tear eye sore. Its not even in the corner its right there in the middle of the wall!:( :(

I say discuss it with her parents. :thumbup:

ytsirk27 07-11-2006 07:38 AM
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Originally Posted by Zoey's Momma
I say discuss it with her parents. :thumbup:
well i would but all i will hear is "sorry". :(

Zoey's Momma 07-11-2006 07:40 AM
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Originally Posted by ytsirk27
well i would but all i will hear is "sorry". :(
Excuse my french but..sorry my a$$! They should be offering money to you to help replace the wallpaper! If my daughter tore the wallpaper off of your wall, I'd give you money to replace it! How rude they are! :mad: :thumbdown

txshopper73 07-11-2006 07:40 AM
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Originally Posted by ytsirk27
shes 18 months but I have had her since she was 6 months and has NEVER messed with it. I am really trying not to be mad but gosh dang. I dont have the extra money right yet to redo it all and so now its a big tear eye sore. Its not even in the corner its right there in the middle of the wall!:( :(
AWWW! She's just a baby! AND, getting close to the "terrible twos"...actually my kids started that around 18 months of age.

Just means you get to start on your project sooner!:D

Lola LaRue 07-11-2006 07:42 AM
As a former nanny, I realize that children can be destructive. If you were watching the child more closely, maybe she wouldn't of pulled the paper off. I don't mean to criticize, but sometimes you have to have a childproof environment. This sometimes means taking away things that they may break or destroy. I also had children misbehave. However, I never had the urge to hurt them. Maybe you should find a new profession.

ytsirk27 07-11-2006 07:42 AM
LOL.....im not putting wall paper back up. Im re sheet rocking and painting. I was really mad at the time but im calmer now!!

GeorgiesMomma 07-11-2006 07:43 AM
She must have known you didn't like the wallpaper anyways;) Sorry I know it's not a great way to start your morning off.

ytsirk27 07-11-2006 07:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Lola LaRue
As a former nanny, I realize that children can be destructive. If you were watching the child more closely, maybe she wouldn't of pulled the paper off. I don't mean to criticize, but sometimes you have to have a childproof environment. This sometimes means taking away things that they may break or destroy. I also had children misbehave. However, I never had the urge to hurt them. Maybe you should find a new profession.

I am sorry but I have been in dc for 3 years and I was really upset at the time so please dont judge me and say I need to find a new profeesion. I also want to say its hard to put up a wall papered WALL so it wont get tore. I would NEVER hurt a child EVER. so please dont sit there and tell me what I need to do. Sorry im not perfect like you and should never get mad.. :mad: also please dont repy bitchy when you have no clue!!

Zoey's Momma 07-11-2006 07:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Lola LaRue
As a former nanny, I realize that children can be destructive. If you were watching the child more closely, maybe she wouldn't of pulled the paper off. I don't mean to criticize, but sometimes you have to have a childproof environment. This sometimes means taking away things that they may break or destroy. I also had children misbehave. However, I never had the urge to hurt them. Maybe you should find a new profession.

That's harsh to say to her. Everyone isn't perfect. To say she should find another profession is rude and unconsiderate. If you're watching over 7 kids at once, it's hard to watch them all if you're by yourself.

ytsirk27 07-11-2006 07:50 AM
I would like to state that I watch them very closely and she ripped when i was in the room so again... dont judge me and be bitchy..again sorry im not perfect!!

erinmarie 07-11-2006 07:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Lola LaRue
As a former nanny, I realize that children can be destructive. If you were watching the child more closely, maybe she wouldn't of pulled the paper off. I don't mean to criticize, but sometimes you have to have a childproof environment. This sometimes means taking away things that they may break or destroy. I also had children misbehave. However, I never had the urge to hurt them. Maybe you should find a new profession.
Wow, you said exactly what I was thinking. But being new I figured I'd get my head bitten off if I said it. Anyway, it would take a few minutes for an 18 month old to pull off wall paper...what were you doing? I've done daycare and you can not let them out of your site at that age. (like a yorkie puppy). If the parents are paying you to watch her I doubt they will feel like they should pay for the wall paper, as it shows you were not watching her. And your reaction is pretty harsh. I think Lola is right, you may need a new career. I noticed on your post about Mason tearing up your room you just laughed it off and thought he was being cute. Maybe you should do yorkie daycare!:)

Nikko's_human 07-11-2006 07:56 AM
You wouldn't be human if you didn't get upset over something like that. Kids can be a handful and no matter how well you watch them, they still manage to sneak in a few "dirty deeds." I'm glad you are feeling better about things and don't allow other people to annoy you. Often times the people that are the first to judge you are the ones who would react the exact same way you did, sometimes even worse!!

ytsirk27 07-11-2006 07:57 AM
you know what....I guess everybody just does there job perfectly.I guess i must just be a loser that doesnt do hers. For somebody soo friggin bad i sure have a long waiting list to get in here so please keep your judgements to yourself and as for my reply guess im not the fake nicey nice person that will sit here and basically listen to the crap thats been thrown at me.. I actually tell ya how it is. I came on to tell you all what happened and theres some on here that has totally taken it out of context so whatever they want to be judgemental and pissy and bitchy they can go ahead hopefully theyll come back to reality and realizxe there are not perfect either!!

Zoey's Momma 07-11-2006 07:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Nikko's_human
You wouldn't be human if you didn't get upset over something like that. Kids can be a handful and no matter how well you watch them, they still manage to sneak in a few "dirty deeds." I'm glad you are feeling better about things and don't allow other people to annoy you. Often times the people that are the first to judge you are the ones who would react the exact same way you did, sometimes even worse!!

I could've said it better myself! :bravo: :thumbup:

ytsirk27 07-11-2006 07:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Nikko's_human
You wouldn't be human if you didn't get upset over something like that. Kids can be a handful and no matter how well you watch them, they still manage to sneak in a few "dirty deeds." I'm glad you are feeling better about things and don't allow other people to annoy you. Often times the people that are the first to judge you are the ones who would react the exact same way you did, sometimes even worse!!
:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: my gosh theres actaully some mere little mortals like me. Welcome to the supreme being world website

candybaby 07-11-2006 08:01 AM
"WOW", everyone really has their own opinion on YT. I have two kids and it only takes seconds for a child to do something, just like for a yorkie to. You can go to the bathroom come out an they put flour all over the kitchen. So, I don't think it was an issue of her watching her closly enough. The only thing I'm concerned about is how upset she got, but then that is understandable. If my child did something like that I would be mad too, but no enough to feel like beating them:eek: .

Sophie'smom 07-11-2006 08:03 AM
I think some of you are being way to hard on her. I babysit for a 2yr old and sometimes things happen while you are looking at them. I have been telling him no no no no and moving towards him and him do it anyway. It doesn't take long to rip wallpaper either. I am sure she was just frustrated at the time but calmed down.

Sorry this happened to you but as you know sometimes they are so fast and there is just nothing you can do but deal. Trust me I know I have been there.:)

candybaby 07-11-2006 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted by ytsirk27
you know what....I guess everybody just does there job perfectly.I guess i must just be a loser that doesnt do hers. For somebody soo friggin bad i sure have a long waiting list to get in here so please keep your judgements to yourself and as for my reply guess im not the fake nicey nice person that will sit here and basically listen to the crap thats been thrown at me.. I actually tell ya how it is. I came on to tell you all what happened and theres some on here that has totally taken it out of context so whatever they want to be judgemental and pissy and bitchy they can go ahead hopefully theyll come back to reality and realizxe there are not perfect either!!
I agree!!!
I feel the same way sometimes when I post replies some people are so perfect and just think they know it all and judge like h*ll .:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

chachi 07-11-2006 08:09 AM
Accidents happen with children and it doesnt take long. I am sure she was just venting about it

oceanair27 07-11-2006 08:10 AM
My daughter tore some of my bathroom wallpaper off too a couple of years ago,so I can really relate. It is very frustrating. We had to wait awhile to fix it too because of finances. But I do have to say if I were in your shoes,I wouln't ask the parents for help to fix it financially or otherwise,becouse the little girl was in your care when this happened,and I would think that makes you responsible. Your the babysitter. I would just chalk it up as an expensive lesson learned. I too used to babysit and while I was changing a diaper and feeding a newborn,another child found some house paint from our remodeling and decided to paint the babybed and all over the walls in the kids room where I thought they were watching barney.I got most of it off,but did wind up repainting.that room.lol.:) I didnt say anything to her parents becouse I didnt want to look like I wasint doing my job right Ps. This was not meant to sound rude at all. I hope you dont take it that way. Good luck in whatever you decide with this situation. I hope all goes well.

ytsirk27 07-11-2006 08:10 AM
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Originally Posted by candybaby
"WOW", everyone really has their own opinion on YT. I have two kids and it only takes seconds for a child to do something, just like for a yorkie to. You can go to the bathroom come out an they put flour all over the kitchen. So, I don't think it was an issue of her watching her closly enough. The only thing I'm concerned about is how upset she got, but then that is understandable. If my child did something like that I would be mad too, but no enough to feel like beating them:eek: .
That was the wrong thing to say but i am sure almost every parent or whatever atleast one time has said "i could have beat her" but actually doesnt. It was dumb for me to say so for that I apologize but for being mad No i dont. I have found that some things and people on here have no trouble typing bitchy things but if they were in your face they would be sooo much different so i am going to take my own advice and ignore. I appreciate the ones that understand my view and answered with respect. The other ones can go somewhere else and be a BI^&* because obviously thats what brings them joy in their world of perfection!! I would NEVER EVER beat a child..EVER.
I have two children of my own and I love kids.

ytsirk27 07-11-2006 08:12 AM
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Originally Posted by oceanair27
My daughter tore some of my bathroom wallpaper off too a couple of years ago,so I can really relate. It is very frustrating. We had to wait awhile to fix it too because of finances. But I do have to say if I were in your shoes,I wouln't ask the parents for help to fix it financially or otherwise,becouse the little girl was in your care when this happened,and I would think that makes you responsible. Your the babysitter. I would just chalk it up as an expensive lesson learned. I too used to babysit and while I was changing a diaper and feeding a newborn,another child found some house paint from our remodeling and decided to paint the babybed and all over the walls in the kids room where I thought they were watching barney.I got most of it off,but did wind up repainting.that room.lol.:) I didnt say anything to her parents becouse I didnt want to look like I wasint doing my job right Ps. This was not meant to sound rude at all. I hope you dont take it that way. Good luck in whatever you decide with this situation. I hope all goes well.
i never expect a parent to pay for anything that happens. ever... I didnt take it wrong. Thank You! I however do tell the parent just because i would want to know if mine had done something like that. Not for payment just to let the parent know!

candybaby 07-11-2006 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted by ytsirk27
That was the wrong thing to say but i am sure almost every parent or whatever atleast one time has said "i could have beat her" but actually doesnt. It was dumb for me to say so for that I apologize but for being mad No i dont. I have found that some things and people on here have no trouble typing bitchy things but if they were in your face they would be sooo much different so i am going to take my own advice and ignore. I appreciate the ones that understand my view and answered with respect. The other ones can go somewhere else and be a BI^&* because obviously thats what brings them joy in their world of perfection!! I would NEVER EVER beat a child..EVER.
I have two children of my own and I love kids.
I hear ya, I'm going to contridict what I said in my last post. I have gotten mad and have wanted to beat my kids, but its just a figure of speech I would never do it eitheir. Don't worry I think we all get jumped on in YT for one reason or another. We are all very opionated, but I don't think nothing is wrong with how you reacted. Like another YT member said, "I don't think your human if you don't get upset".:)

Zoey's Momma 07-11-2006 08:22 AM
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Originally Posted by candybaby
I hear ya, I'm going to contridict what I said in my last post. I have gotten mad and have wanted to beat my kids, but its just a figure of speech I would never do it eitheir. Don't worry I think we all get jumped on in YT for one reason or another. We are all very opionated, but I don't think nothing is wrong with how you reacted. Like another YT member said, "I don't think your human if you don't get upset".:)

:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

ytsirk27 07-11-2006 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted by candybaby
I hear ya, I'm going to contridict what I said in my last post. I have gotten mad and have wanted to beat my kids, but its just a figure of speech I would never do it eitheir. Don't worry I think we all get jumped on in YT for one reason or another. We are all very opionated, but I don't think nothing is wrong with how you reacted. Like another YT member said, "I don't think your human if you don't get upset".:)
Thank you. I admit there are some thing that I say that come out either wrong or i am just being to hard that day but if I go back and read it I will usually apologize. Theres some stuff that i have read that I will not apologize for and I dont have to very often but like you said...everybody has gotten jumped on. What i have realized though that alot of the " newbies or newer ones" are the ones being super judgemental....

Lorraine 07-11-2006 08:29 AM
A daycare operator and a parent are kind of two different responsibilities in a sense. As a daycare operator or nanny you are caring for someone else's kid. You are quite lucky that the baby never ate the wallpaper and got ill or choked. Yes this can happen under a parents care, but trust me, it will not play out the same way if something goes wrong while in daycare or under a nannies care as it would under the parents care.
A daycare is even more imperitive to have enough staff per child to keep an absolute eagle eye on each kid especially for those little toddlers.
An 18 months old wouldn't have a clue it is doing something wrong. Can't blame the baby or the parents that aren't there.


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