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05-17-2006, 08:49 AM | #1 |
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| Ready to pull my hair out!!! Well I got a little off my chest yesterday on Kristys, "Let's all complain in this thread" thread. Well this morning not five minutes after walking in the door from dropping the kids, I get a phone call. My daughter was in the office with 4 other girls and they need me to go down there, they didn't say why and I didn't ask, I already knew. So there I go, and sure enough these 4 girl tried to jump my daughter. They started pushing her and Des had to defend herself so she just kept swinging. Well one girl got it right on the nose,,,, well lets just say, I hope it's not broken! This all started over a tiff my daughter had with another girl who is younger and goes to another school who happens to hate Des for what ever reason. She had these girl go after Des who really don't even know her or have nothing against my daughter. We're lucky this happened at school and not on the street somewhere or catch her alone. I drop all 3 of my kids off school and pick them up and now I am worried sick that someone else will start something with my Des because of this little brat. Des is well liked at school. She's not one of those snotty popular kids. She is liked because she is so motherly. She will take these kids who are made fun of under her wing. And is kind to new kids who seem like they are having a tough time. This all started because my youngest daughter got into a tiff with her friend (who happens to be this other girls older sister) over something so stupid. The trouble maker tried to get the 2 little ones fired up by telling her sister to "slap that girl if she gives you lip" Since then my youngest daughter and her friend are over it and talking again. Des told another girl what had happened and things got carried away and and grew different (for the worse) every time the story was passed to another person. Well they suspended the other girls and Des was let back in school. But now I am so worried. I know she'll be ok and she has alot of friends but I hate the thought that someone will try something again. I've tried talking to this girls parents but this little girl is making it sound that it was Des who started this. And they think Des is the trouble maker. I don't know what else to do.
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05-17-2006, 08:57 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member | Whack 'em....oh I forgot you can't do that. Unfortunately, I have NO advice. We went through something similar a few years ago. One ringleader with a bunch of ringlets. It was awful and I hated...yes, hated those children. Finally, thankfully, it passed...probably on to another victim. I wouldn't be above contacting an attorney and having a "nice" little letter written to the girl's parents. Sometimes just a letter gets their attention. I'm sorry...wish I could help you.
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05-17-2006, 09:08 AM | #3 |
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| Ask for a meeting at the school with all the girls, and their parents. Tell them this is their chance to let it all out, and be done with it. Best of luck to you.
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05-17-2006, 09:24 AM | #4 | |
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As for the girl who is behind this,,, she goes to a different school. And I've already tried talking to her parents and we got nowhere.
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05-18-2006, 09:16 AM | #5 |
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| Ok so I got another phone call. It was the mother of the girl who's nose got broke. They were very upset and wanted to file charges against Des. I was understand, polite and didn't lose my temper. I met with her at the donut shop with her and her husband and the girl. We talked it out and came to the understanding that her daughter along with the other 3 girls started it and Des was only defending herself. The girl admitted to everything. So we then went to to the trouble makers house to go talk to her mother to hopefully put an end to it all. I now had proof of her trouble maker daughter was totally at fault. She finally came to realize that her daughter was the lier and that if there were any more problems in the matter the police would be called. So I honestly hope we put an end to this!
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05-18-2006, 09:19 AM | #6 |
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| Goode Now let's hope it's over. I bet in a few years they all laugh at it, because they will end up being best friends
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