It's taken A LOT of fights, time and reassurance along the way of getting over my jealousy but it's calming down a lot. I even point out pretty girls, and asks what he thinks. but he's so used to how it was for the past year that he's still trying to train his own reactions to my comments. He used to get upset that I would ask if he thought a girl was pretty and if he'd do anything with her. But now I just say "oh she's pretty, what do you think?" and that's it. It does get tempting to ask the other questions out of pure curiousity but I don't. He's with me and that's all that matters.

I'm so lucky to have found my BF. I am truely crazy about him.

The way I found to get over it was to push it as far out my mind as possible and everytime a jealous thought would come into my head I would think " He loves me, he wouldn't do anything to hurt me." and then forget about it. Did I slip a few times, over course it's expected. But now I don't feel nearly as threatened as I did. Do I still look at other girls as competition? Oh Yeah. But In the long run, I know my mans coming home with me and not them. It's just fun to try to out do them and look better. he he he

LOL Sherry Lynn....HE passes that Test ! What a guy.

y0rkieL0ver..it IS normal to feel a little jealous but if it gets too much it will tear your relationship apart. When I used to feel that way I'd stop and think....either way if they're going to 'cheat'...me feeling jealous won't matter.

So I would just try to sit back and accept the things I wasn't too sure of....Anyone dealing with a jealous person will eventually just go ahead and do what they're accused.... of because they they figure hey - even if they DON't do it ...they'll be accused of it... so why not ?

Try to remember everyone needs their space and you cannot control someone elses actions. Just go with the flow and try to have faith that you have a good relationship because too much jealousy will ruin it.

I used to be when we were dating. Now that we're married, not so much anymore, but I do surprise myself sometimes. He thinks its cute! :p

Yes i used to be very very jealous to the point of starting a fight with any girl he talked to!!!!!
I was like this for 9 years (why he stayed with me i'll never know) the only person hurting all the time was me as you will well know it is a horrible feeling in the pit of your tummy to be jealous.
Eventually i finally got it thru my thick head that if he wants to be with someone else being jealous isn't gonna stop him! Now i think along the lines of if you wanna be with someone else then go it will be your loss!!!
By the way we have been together 15 years and married for 3 of those and have 2 kids :D