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And secondly, drop it and move forward. What you're clinging to is an imaginary scenario. It would never be like you imagine. That is why it isn't now. Drop it. Leave it alone. He shouldn't b talking to you like that either when he is with another woman, how disrespectful. |
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I'll add, he's been out of state 8 years, he's wishy washy with a gal he's with, don't do it to yourself, the waiting, the pining, it isn't going to happen... At best a future with him is friends with benefits and that is it. If that's all you want, all you expect, that would be one thing but it seems obvious that you want more, commitment, permanence, growing old together... That isn't going to happen with him. Move on! Your efforts have a better chance of success elsewhere. :cool: Most young guys today are pigs, some of them change with age, most of them don't. You can't be the one to change them. Be honest with the one you're with, don't get used and don't be a user. Synergy! :D |
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My thought is really that there *is* a reason (or reasons) that you're apart even though you both kind of want to be together. Something is stopping either you, or him, or both. That reason is likely very important, and smarter than you both....bc it's coming from your gut(s), not your head. Pay major attention to those things that don't come from your head. Our instincts can be very, *very* smart. I don't think he is the "love of your life" bc I truly think that's yet to come for you - BIG TIME :love:!!! Save |
Um, I'm hoping it's not this guy you wrote about last year? http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/off...me-either.html Seems like he's still trying to string you along if it is. If it's a different guy, you gotta start attracting a different kind of guy honey! ETA: I see it's a different guy, but I stand by my statement. Love yourself first and your true love will come. No one can truly love you if you don't first love yourself. I am reading some self esteem issues in your posts. For example, why would you go to an online public forum for relationship advice? |
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There is an oldish poem, I can,t remember the author; but it goes something like this, People come into your life for a reason and for a time; some for a short time and some for a long time. some are friends for a season, And some for a lifetime. Some we love with a deep abiding passion, And some for a weekend. Value each, and let go when it is time. None here or elsewhere can make your decisions for you. Therapists can help clear a muddied thought process and in that way help you to make a clear choice. Letting go is a choice as is acting on your feelings. Consider carefully with intelligence married to your heart. I wish you well as you move through your life. |
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"People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime..." |
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