Originally Posted by lovespandp (Post 3875130)

Well thankfully they weren't there yet.. So that was good! If it wasnt for them we would have left, it was hard to go back, but it was harder just to leave them BC of Sean.. They were innocent in this and we didnt want it to affect our time with the boys...

Originally Posted by tjdmom (Post 3875127)

All right.. gonna play devils advocate here.. I have allergies and feel so fortunate to still be able to have yorkies but not everyone is so lucky. It really depends on what you are actually allergic too and yorkies still have dander. It is miserable to have to suffer with allergies and I'm highly allergic to cats and have to say that I would be upset if someone brought a cat to my house especially on my birthday. When we go to my inlaws we always ask if we can bring a dog or dogs and would never just bring them without asking first and they always say yes and they have 2 small dogs that get along great with ours. When we have get togethers at our house, we invite their puppies. I do think your inlaws were a bit extreme but I once had one of my cousins and her husband and kids come and spend a week at my house and without asking (and we did not have a dog at that time) they brought their small dog who insisted on sneaking upstairs and pooping in my bedroom and we were not happy with that but never said anything either. I just think that some people are not as in love with our dogs as we are and really that is their loss but maybe it's just a good idea to leave pnut at home for now....

Originally Posted by LDandPasquale (Post 3875372)

This comes down to a right way of saying something....and a wrong way. They obviously picked the wrong way. If Lovespandp (i'm sorry i dont know your name) was told in a nice way to remove her dog from the house because they were allergic, in a calm manor, I'm sure she would have. But when you yell in an UNCLASSY language its just plain RUDE!! If she's yelling nasty things when people are in the house...imagine what she's saying when it's just her and her fiance having an argument? And whats worse is that when people know they were wrong and cant even say I'm sorry!!

Lovespandp, you never took the high road in this situation. Feel proud for being the CLASSY one!

Originally Posted by jmdt (Post 3875395)

Poor little Peanut!!! :( Give him a big hug from us. We love him!!!:ghug:

They sound like jerks!! What's not to love????

Originally Posted by LDandPasquale (Post 3875904)

Woops...i meant to say "you took the high road" ....I hate when i forget to proof read!! :D

Originally Posted by Nancy1999 (Post 3875929)

I'm confused, is the new girlfriend causing the problem since he never told you he was allergic before? I mean I can understand someone being allergic and asking you not to bring your dog, but the way he spoke to you showed no respect what-so-ever. I choose not to be around people like that, since its family that's so hard; we often have to make exceptions for family. I think your hubby should have a heart to heart with his brother and his brother owes you an apology. So sorry you and Peanut were treated that way. Just in case you don’t want to take the high road, send you BIL this picture of Peanut! :D

Originally Posted by Nancy1999 (Post 3875929)

I'm confused, is the new girlfriend causing the problem since he never told you he was allergic before? I mean I can understand someone being allergic and asking you not to bring your dog, but the way he spoke to you showed no respect what-so-ever. I choose not to be around people like that, since its family that's so hard; we often have to make exceptions for family. I think your hubby should have a heart to heart with his brother and his brother owes you an apology. So sorry you and Peanut were treated that way. Just in case you don’t want to take the high road, send you BIL this picture of Peanut! :D

Originally Posted by lovespandp (Post 3875944)

I dont think so- like I said Pnut has been there before and it was never an issue!
LMAO Oh man I want to text him that pic!!! Haha

Originally Posted by Nancy1999 (Post 3875947)

Oh dear, and I'll be the one tempting you to do it! Seriously, I hope you guys can get over this, family is so important, but he needs to learn how to talk to you. They say, we teach people how they may treat us, and this guy needs some lessons.

Originally Posted by DvlshAngel985 (Post 3875935)

:thumbup:

I completely understand what you're going through. It happened to Kaji and me. We ended up staying because it was Christmas, but Kaji spent the entire evening being shifted from lap to lap (me and my 2 brothers). Kaji was miserable because he wanted to stretch his legs inside the house by he couldn't. Worst part, the lady that didn't want me to bring my "whiny little thing" in the house gave him a Christmas hug. What a hypocrite!!!! (I had asked permission to bring him inside before going too. I got the ok but she apparently changed her mind and failed to tell me)