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Off Topic: My fiance passed away I got an email from Yorkie Talk wanting to know why I haven't been on the forum lately and that they missed me posting. I know most on here do get these reminding us they miss us when we don't post for a while. It's great that they care. As many of you know, my mother passed in late September and now on the our 11th birthday on December 3, my fiance passed away when he fell 40 feet from a building. I thought I posted this here letting you all know but I guess I didn't. My emotions have been running high ever since that day so I haven't felt much like posting. We also share a 7 year old daughter too. They are so young that it hasn't affected them yet. They just know that their Daddy is not coming home from work anymore and that we will see him again when we join him in heaven when the time arrives for us to go. I know it will hit them more when they get older and I hate the thought of having to relive that nightmare again when the questions start coming later when they are older. He was only 54 and I miss him so much and love him so much as he was my soul mate. The feeling is so much more painful than when I lost my mother. I will never get over this nor will I ever forget it. When we had a tropical storm on November 12 and we lost power for two days, I was scared when he was not here at night because he had to go out in the storm for an important reason I won't go into but the point is he called me and I told him I am so scared and I want him home to protect me and he said he would always be here to protect me and keep me safe and now he is gone just like that. He won't be here to make me feel safe when we have blackouts during storms anymore. I posted this on this part of the forum because I know more people read it and wanted you all to know why I haven't been on here much since September. My whole life has been turned around. I never realized how hard it is to raise two young children on my own until now. I don't know how I am going to do it without God's help. Please pray and or think of us in your prayers and thoughts. Much appreciate it from me and our two young children. |
I am so sorry. I cannot express the heartbreak I feel for you reading this post. I can't even imagine the pain that you are experiencing and how scary the future must seem for you. I pray that you will have the strength to hold on through this trial in your life and that one day you will be able to speak and think of your finacee without so much pain attached, but rather with the happy memories in mind. My sincere condolances and love. :love: |
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. May your fiance rest in peace..:heart to |
I am so sorry for your loss...you and your children will be in my prayers. |
My heart breaks for you, I am so sorry. You and your family will be in my prayers. |
I am terribly sorry for your loss. Special prayers for you during these most challenging times. |
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs. |
I dont know what to say. I will keep you and your kids in my prayers. Things happen in a blink of an eye and we never realize how different things could be until they actually happen. I know you keep going because you have to, because you have kids. If you ever , ever need to talk about anything please PM me and I will call you or I can forward my number to you. (((hugs))) Gen |
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Hugs |
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you and your daughters are going through. :( |
I can not even imagine what you are going thru. Please accept my deepest condolences. Hugs. |
I know what you mean about your husband helping you to feel "safe". I truly believe that he is still protecting you and your children. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to understand how devastated you must be. |
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your children in my prayers. God bless and comfort you. |
I am so sorry for your loss and the loss of your children's father. These are dark days and I will pray for you. As with any loss, there is noone that can carry your pain...but, we can journey beside you and be there for you when it looks dark. Praying that joy will return and new memories can join the beautiful memories of your time together. Please post when you need us--and know you're not alone. With prayers---Kristen |
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and deep sympathy.... |
I lost my husband of 20 years, MY soulmate, at the end of July. I was happy before we met, but after I met him, I was complete. I didn't know before then that I wasn't "whole". Now that he's gone, there's a hole in my being that didn't exist before - his loss is very close to unbearable. So I know how you feel, how great the loss is. And you have young children, too. You have to keep strong for them, even when you want to fall in a boneless, empty heap on the floor. I hope you have family, friends - some sort of support system. You'll need them. I hope you have lots of pictures of all of you together. Maybe putting them in order, in a scrapbook for the kids later on, reliving the happy times will help you through this. The Holidays are the worst, and your loss is fresh. I hope you can find peace soon. Hold your children close ... they are a part of him. |
I am so sorry hugs to you & your children |
:cry::cry::cry::cry: I'm not very good with words, so I'll just wish you strength so you can carry on. My deepest condolences. |
I am so, so sorry... big hugs to you... I wish there were words to make the pain go away... |
I am sorry about your loss. |
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine how it must be for you and your children. I do hope you have close friends and family around you. You have us here if you ever need to talk. Sometimes its easier to talk to people you don't really know. Take care my thoughts are with you. x x x |
:( That is absolutely horrible and heartbreaking. I am SO SO sorry, I can't even imagine your pain. I don't know what to say except please accept my condolences. You and yours are in my prayers and thoughts. |
:cry: I am so sorry for your loss. |
I know there aren't any words that will help to ease your pain. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I just hope that knowing there are so many people here who care will help to bring some comfort. I will keep you and your children in my prayers. |
I am sorry for your loss. |
I am so very sorry. I will keep you and your children in my prayers. |
It is so hard to lose those we love. I'm so sorry.... I'm posting a video of a song that has brought me some comfort... hope it helps you to! |
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. |
OMG! This is just too sad....you poor dear, of course I'll pray for you and your children. Sending prayers, hugs and love ... Kathy |
Oh my, I am SO SORRY for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you must be in. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. With heartfelt sympathy, |
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