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lovespandp 09-30-2009 09:13 AM
:rolleyes: I moved in with my boyfriend like after a month of seeing him :rolleyes: I know not the BEST IDEA but I just knew it was right, and we have been with eachother for 3 years as well as living together.

You and your bf have already been together for 4 years..So I dont see why it wouldnt work out. I would think living with your bf is easier than a roomate... but thats just me. I am not the best person for advice bc I just go with the flow :D I would say go for it and see what happens.

PANAMA69 10-01-2009 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted by JeanieK (Post 2820510)
That is a tough one. If you break up, you either lose your room mate, or have to live with someone that you can't stand and cannot get on with your life.

Pray about it.
I agree with you 100%:thumbup:

yorkiejunkie 10-01-2009 01:26 PM
In reading this thread, You seem sensible, and the advise all seems very sound!
Noone has mentioned the laundry, vacuuming... etc... get those things ironed out too (oh, and the ironing ;)) It isn't just the finances that change, it IS the balance of a relationship! Step cautiously! The things that are "ok" or "sweet" now, may not be so sweet once you are stuck in a place you can't afford to get out of...
I have "shacked-up" twice... once it ended in marriage... and divorce :eek: and this time it is 15 years, and it is still MOSTLY wonderful! :p
Good luck... (you can always count on your YT buddies to have a world of advice) :D
Follow your heart, but listen to your HEAD!!!!!

mizzwanned 10-01-2009 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted by lovespandp (Post 2821381)
:rolleyes: I moved in with my boyfriend like after a month of seeing him :rolleyes: I know not the BEST IDEA but I just knew it was right, and we have been with eachother for 3 years as well as living together.

You and your bf have already been together for 4 years..So I dont see why it wouldnt work out. I would think living with your bf is easier than a roomate... but thats just me. I am not the best person for advice bc I just go with the flow :D I would say go for it and see what happens.
Thanks! As of right now i'm leaning towards living by myself but if that happens i feel like i would barely see my bf because right now we only live 10 blocks away from each other so its super easy to just up and go to each others houses-but if i were to move i already know which neighborhood i would move to-astoria,Qnz and i live in upper west side manhattan right now-so if i did do that its not like he can easily go to queens and we will both be busy with work. i feel like our relationship will suffer cause of that. I just dont know what to do- i guess it will all work out when it does happen, we will have to talk about everything. I dont know if im ready to move in with a guy yet- i never have oficially done that

mizzwanned 10-01-2009 04:33 PM
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Originally Posted by PANAMA69 (Post 2822954)
I agree with you 100%:thumbup:
You're right i will pray about it. Thats the best i can do..and Greta i looove your avator! When i just think about having my own place so that my dogs can run around free and i can get another yorkie- i just get SOOO excited! But the financial aspect of it doesnt excite me so much haha

mizzwanned 10-01-2009 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted by yorkiejunkie (Post 2822975)
In reading this thread, You seem sensible, and the advise all seems very sound!
Noone has mentioned the laundry, vacuuming... etc... get those things ironed out too (oh, and the ironing ;)) It isn't just the finances that change, it IS the balance of a relationship! Step cautiously! The things that are "ok" or "sweet" now, may not be so sweet once you are stuck in a place you can't afford to get out of...
I have "shacked-up" twice... once it ended in marriage... and divorce :eek: and this time it is 15 years, and it is still MOSTLY wonderful! :p
Good luck... (you can always count on your YT buddies to have a world of advice) :D
Follow your heart, but listen to your HEAD!!!!!

Thanks so much!!! What worries me the most is being able to afford it-which i will make sure i save enough before moving in-and 2 balancing school and work because i will be returning to school for interior design which i heard is very hard! And the other thing that worries me is balancing the relationship if we do move in together-but then again if we dont live together it will be harder. But the cleaning and all that-thats a breeze-he can take care of that! LOL im jk! I like cleaning when its my own place so its no problem and he is the cook usually but i am going to teach myself to cook- all those things i know will work out cause once im in my own place i will want to do them

manolos mom 10-01-2009 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted by mizzwanned (Post 2821124)
Well I can say we're not even thinking marriage right now lol We've talked about it and both say we would marry one another but for me i don't even want to think about it until i have my career and a steady income and him too. But we both agree that if and when we do get married we will spend as little money as possible on a wedding cause it's a waste of money imo-just for 1 day so eloping is an option:p Or maybe just a small private wedding with family and close friends- but i'd rather spend a lot of money on a house than 1 day on a wedding which is mostly a party for guests. And im kinda old fashoned too-in some ways;)
Very Very Wise

kwaymon 10-01-2009 10:12 PM
I like the advice of keeping finances seperate. Also, discussing who will pay for what and basically any and every detail you can think of in advance I'm sure will be a BIG help. I also agree with the advice of living in a place that you can afford with or without a roomate. I've been married for close to 12 years. Got married at 19. At that young it was def. hard to stay together (still is! LOL!) but you can do it. Not everyone is a statistic! And being prepared and having detailed discussions in advance is what will get you through. Good Luck!


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