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Usually also when there abusive to you then there abusive to kidss and animals ...Take care don't let hi, know whats going on same thing about the # phone do something with it I went through this with 2 husband now he passed away and I don't have to feel I always have to look back Take care Sending prayers your way:animal-pa |
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Just checking back in on your thread to see how you are doing. Thankful for the good news that you have contacted a Women's center and also have a good job interview on Friday! Sounds like you are finding yourself again and moving forward. Keeping you and yours in my prayers! |
I will send up some extra prayers that things work out with the interview. And glad to hear you found some therapy and you are in the processing of having a plan. Don't get weary things will turn around for you. Take care. :) |
Prayers and Hugs coming to you from Oklahoma!! Keep your eyes focused upward. |
God bless you and your son (and yorkie babies)! You've done the toughest part already...reaching out, speaking up! Kudos to you!! My mom put up with an abusive relationship for 20+ years (didn't do us girls any favors!) All we could do was watch. Let your son know what's going on though. Kids know when things aren't right. But boy oh boy...when the kid(s) stand up to "Dad"...look out! I'm not a health care professional but I've lived as the child of an abusive marriage...scary! Ideas: Housing for your Yorkies - any YT'ers near enough to "foster" for awhile? Housing for son - college dorm or roomie available in a cheap apt (college towns are great for those)? Housing for you - relatives, friends, co-workers, church family? Your unemployment check - open your own account at a different bank and have the check direct deposited...ASAP! Your personal safety - take personal protection classes then buy a gun (don't count on the "authorities" to protect you! they don't!!) Restraining order? ok, good to have for legal reasons - absolutely useless otherwise. My prayers too are with you and yours...stay strong and stay aware! |
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I dont know if anyone has mentioned this but I was watching the Today Show and I thought maybe this might be an option for you. Its a shelter for women and their animals of domestic violence. Im not sure if they have one in your area but they have 8 locations so far. Here is there website: American Humane: Protecting Children and Animals Since 1877 I am sooo sorry for all you are going through... You will be in my prayers. |
I am just now seeing this thread and wanted to say I am praying and pulling for you. Like someone else said, you have taken the first step, which is most difficult in this case. Please keep us updated, I will be thinking about you. Big hugs from me and my boys!! |
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I'm Not Alone I'm not sure who I left out, but I am so filled with thanks and gratitude that it's really hard to put into words. Quite often, in the face of adversity, you find that friends you thought were friends never really were. On a positive note, I have found that my YT family, people that really don't know me, are reaching out with blessings, prayers and love, something that has given me back that sparkle, that surety that helps me get through each day one at a time. You guys have given me great ideas to help implement my plan, and have shared stories that are only too similar to my own. It's easy to say, "You don't understand," especially when you feel alone and isolated, but somehow my heart knows that you all, in your own way, understand what I'm going through, and this also allows me to digest the fact that I'm not walking alone in this very difficult battle. May God bless you all, your families, and your lovely furbabies....Lisa, Lilly & Jesse |
I have no advice for you-but can see that you have received wonderful advice thus far. I am sending lots of prayers and hugs your way that you can get through this difficult time. I am pulling for you, your son, and your furbabies. Good luck on that interview!!! |
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