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Missy, sorry to hear you are having such a tough time. I think you did the right thing by coming on here and explaining your situation. I'm sure some might not be happy but if you eventually make things right with everyone then I'm not sure what else anyone can ask for. Good luck and I hope the new year bring good things for you! |
1 Attachment(s) Wow- Brave of you to come on here when you actually owe people. I have never not paid for something, nor not sent something that someone ordered from me. It is the principle of the point here-yes we are all friends on here, but for goodness sake-why would it take 6 months for a vest that you supposedly already had available ( I ordered & pd for in July)? Then when I tried to get my money refunded from paypal, it had been too many days...then I pm'd you, emailed & wrote on your website-no replies. I finally called you in Sept. & you assured me that you would send the vest out & that you had pm'd me-you had been busy & took a job taking care of an elderly person-I never got a pm & now know that you lied to me. Why? I cannot stand for people to be taking advantage of-I guess that I have been too naive & too trusting-Thank God it was only a under $20. purchase! I hope your family situation gets better, but to take $ from others is just wrong!Thanks to a Connie & her furbabies (Maddie & Libby) a surprise came for Jaxon! He looks so cute in his red vest w/paw prints-they felt bad for the way you treated customers-I did not go & complain to others.....or even reply when others asked about you not keeping your orders- This is what YT is about-not lying & stealing. I just saw that Patti is sending Jaxon something too- What a good feeling that brings -she & Connie are truly special people - Sorry this sounds harsh, but what if you were lied to & ripped off? How do you know I can afford to donate 20. to your family fund? |
i am so sorry for all that you are going through:( boy do i know the feeling. if you ever need to talk pm me and i will give you my cell phone number:) we dont have a house phone due to bills eather. Bev |
Missy - I know it seems as if the weight of the world is upon your shoulders right now. I'll be sending my prayers for you and your family Please work on fulfilling all your orders even it takes a really long time since refunding money doesn't appear to be an option. You have been trughtful and although tis has been a while, I'm sure you can make everything right again. |
Wow. I don't really know what to say. I'm sorry that you are going through such a tough time. I think everyone has felt the burden of the economy lately. I know I have and am so thankful that I have not had it as bad off as some others and so for that my heart truly goes out to you. As far as the unfilled orders...it was very big of you to come on here and truthfully address the situation. However, it shouldn't excuse the fact that people are due what they paid for and somehow it needs to be set right. Those who have are feeling the burden of economic hardship too. Unfortunately, this is not the first time this type of situation has come up...I remember several members here scamming others big time by not fulfilling orders made and being banned as a result. The only difference I see is they just disappeared altogether and never owned up to it. I hope that end the end a peaceful resolution is reached for all parties invovled. |
You've taken the first step in the right direction...now continue to take baby steps until all is well with the world. |
A lot of folks are experiencing hard times right now. I'm glad you came on to explain. Good luck to you. I hope everything turns out ok for you. |
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I know how you feel., Look I understand not long ago, my furance died in the middle of the night, heating coil died and given we had just spent what money we had for repairs on it. We had only $25. for the month. and it was the first of the month. Buying a new furance was a must it cost us $2500. to get a new one. I had to take a emergancy laon from school to pay for it. After all was said and done,we still had barely any money to buy food. So we applied for aid from the State. Sometimes you need to swallow your pride and do what must be done. But on the hand of those you owe money or things too, it's tough for everyone. period. Your working, not many are. Is there anyway you can get a second hand but not as fancy sewing machine? To use to make the things that were paid for? there's a way. But you do need to make it right. I hope you read this and know that though people are mad,that if you try to fix these it can come out okay. ty |
I'm sorry your life has taken a hard turn lately. Things are very tough for many right now and it's very sad. I'm glad you came back to tell people what happened, but I truly hope you make things right with your customers that had their money taken in by you, but did not get their item in return. Money should absolutely always be held seperately until the customer has received their items and are happy with the product and it definitely shouldn't be spent on other things until the item/s have been shipped out to the customer at the very least. It hurts all small business owners in general when these things happen because it breaks down customer trust. I don't mean to come off harsh, and I'm glad you came back to explain -- but if you did pay other (personal) bills with money that was from clients who never got their items, that is just very wrong and I hope that you are planning to reimburse them their money. YT is definitely full of friends and even feels like family to some, but when you take on the task of selling it is a different situation, imo. |
Sooo....is that bascially it then? :( Just another group of YTers scammed out of their money? :mad: :thumbdown I was hoping there would be some sort of resolution one way or the other, but apparently not. :( Sorry, but it reeeeeally just gets my goat when this kind of thing happens here on YT. (or anywhere for that matter really) |
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I think she said she doesnt even have internet so maybe she cant even get on here |
oh Missy - just saying what you said will have everyone understanding .. doing custom work IS expensive and your heart is in the right place. No one hates you - I wish I were in the position to help you out but I'm still climbing out of that place I was when my husband died and $$ is tight for me too....I did a few orders this year for Christmas and that helped alot both money wise and emotionally (thank you to those who let me make your cards) !! but I know how you feel - between supplies and postage it's very easy to get in over your head....sometimes life is so hard it makes you wonder if anything is worth it but it it is - at least thats what I keep telling myself.. your a SWEETIE !! Things will get better for you I just know it |
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