Home from Vegas and PI$$ED!!!
 

So, we made it home today from Vegas. Lost money, but bought lots of clothes and a new Coach purse. N-E-WAY, I called my hubby 2 days ago and told him we were on the way. I told him my house better be clean because I didn't want to come home to a dirty house. I cleaned it right before I left.

So, I get home...mind you, we drove 1600 miles one way...3200 round trip without using the air conditioner...parents didn't want to burn up the engine. :mad: But I walk in and the house was picked up but was still a mess...floors hadn't been done, laundry to do, kitchen to clean...etc. I was FURIOUS!!!!! :mad: I asked him to please vaccum the floors and he tells me, "Your vaccum won't work." I check it out and DUH!!! It was clogged. I had it fixed in less than 5 minutes!!!

On top of that, I left Chester and Rebel home with my husband. They ate one of my plants, hadn't had a bath so they stunk. They had eye boogies all over their face, poopie stuck to their butt hair and MATS in their hair!!!! I COULDN'T BELIEVE THAT HE DID THIS!!! :eek: I take care of my babies better than I take care of myself!!! I had told him repeatedly to PLEASE brush my dogs and to take care of them!!!!! He told me that he would!!!!!

I just wanted to pack an overnite bag and stay at a hotel. I don't understand him AT ALL!!!!

Then, he/we bought his friend and his wife a 1 year anniversary gift. The witch sent a thank you note addressed to...MY HUSBAND!!! My name was no where on the envelope OR the card!!!! :mad: HOW TACKY IS THAT!!!! My dumb husband should have thrown it away. He knew that I would have been MAD!!!! I told him that "THE BIT** CAN KISS MY ASS!!!!"

It's times like these that I just want to give up. Just take my kids and dogs and GO AWAY. Talking to him does no good.

Thanks for letting me vent. I was SO looking forward to coming home...absence makes the heart grow fonder...YEAH, RIGHT!!!!

take a deep breath and know that husbands are stupid they are dorks they cant help it. Its just part of life mine has ways of ticking me off i didnt even know possible. Sleep on it maybe it will be better tomorrow. Sorry he sucks

Thanks, dear! I think I'm going outside for a smoke break! :rolleyes:

Oh Kim! I'm so sorry you came home to all of that! When we got back from vacation after 12 days, our son had let Lexy get all matted. I was so mad because I work on that hair everyday. His excuse was she snaps and bites at the comb! Well...duh! She has to learn that this is happening everyday. So now of course I'm the bad guy who does this to her and hubby and son just love on her! We mothers are a sorry lot, huh?

OMG, you should hear my fiance...... he is under the ussumption that just because i am on vacation, i can clean the house EVERY DAY.... he leaves dishes out, he gets a new glass EVERY time he gets a drink, he doesnt even clean up after HIS cat GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR........ IM ON VACATION AND I HAVE TO CLEAN THE HOUSE LITERALLY EVERY DAY

i am so sorry and hope you have a better week :)

Im so sorry you came back from your vacation to a messy house and your little one dirty and matted. I agreed take a breather and remember some husbands dont see things our way. Leave the house a mess and make him help you clean it up tomorrow after you have rested. Better yet, supervise while he cleans.

I've pretty much gotten the messes cleaned up. But he WILL be ironing his own clothes this week!!!

husbands can take us for granted sometimes, but take your smoke break,calm down,then address him. me and my hubby rarely argue but when we do booy is it bad. i know it can get sooo frustrating when you have trust in your hubby and then he lets you down. but i think you should talk to him about it and let him know how you feel,once you've calmed down. i think with you being this angry, the outcome won't be a good one. i hope you guys can work it out. ;)

First of all...WELCOME BACK!!! Sorry you came home to all that, but hope you had fun on your get-away! Some husbands are just impossible and I can sympathize with you there! The person who sent the thank you note addressed only to your husband...shame on her! Guess you need not worry about ever buying them another gift! Hope things look better tomorrow after a good nights sleep...that is...IF you can sleep. When I am upset like that, it always turns into a sleepless night! I hope things get better for you! Best wishes!

oy! I would be pissed too if I saw that thank you note without my name on it.

Welcome back from your vacation!!! Sorry you had to come home to that mess. I know it gets frustrating but I guess it only shows how much everything wouldn't be so right without you there. :) I hope you feel better.

You need a big hug right now. At least you can count on that part from your little furbabies! :p After you get relaxed a bit, take some acetamenophen or something so you can relax enough to sleep. OK? ;)

So sorry for the mess you came home too. yha men are like the worst ones to try and tell to keep the house clean, I stay at home with my son at this moment (but I babysit) and he acts like well you dont work so why dont you clean everyday I said what is the purpose when you get home from work it dont even look like I have cleaned (which I clean everyday) .. OH and when it comes to the dogs he is always telling me that I love on them more than I do him..(true but I try and he just moves to the other sofa so stuff him.) And almost every night he sleeps in the guest room cause he says the dogs take up half of the bed not even so If anything they are sleeping on me.. so men just dont understand any thing but Sports and there buddys !!!!! I say someone is sleeping out back in the dog house tonight. ;) And another thing just be glad you came back to a home. I would never leave mine alone for 2 weeks with the house much less my furbabies and our son... It would be a dump and I would go stay at a hotel with the kids and furbabies and tell him that I will be back tomorrow and the house better be clean... They dont realize how hard it is to keep a clean home and take care of the kids(& furkids) and really do under estimate there wifes.
so again I am sorry for what you had to come home to, like everyone else said take a vent and sleep on it.. And make him help you clean tomorrow. But its nice to have you back on yt.
Ps- Koda has gotten so big...

my husband and i are the same way. he's an army recruiter and works long hours and i have 2 kids 1 and 4 and boy are they a handful, its hard to keep track of them much less the house so oon weekends when i make my husband help me clean he gets mad and asks why he has to help if he works and all i do is stay home and watch tv. but what he doesnt realize is that durring the week when he's working he comes home to a spotless home and dinner waiting on the table. i wonder who cleans and has dinner ready when he comes home. apparently not me. all i do is watch tv all day. men suck!!! but what can we say nothing cause nothing gets into that thick head of theirs. Im sure you'll feel better tomorrow.

oh by the way this is totally off subject but seh0422 what part of san antonio are you from

well we live right off of the highway loop 1604 between seaworld and sixflags, I love the area so my hubby says its the northwest side.

oh cool my mother lives off of 1604 and new guillbeau. you live right down the street from eachother. im from san antonio my husband is stationed here in houston. i think you are the first person from san antonio that i've seen on yt. i thinks thats pretty cool.

Welcome home!! It is times like you just described when I have to remind myself of the good things he does! Mostly he is a wonderful father and a great dentist. He also cooks better than me...so the rest I guess I have to forgive, but i sure know how you feel!!! :mad:

wanna trade? :cool:

I have one of those husbands too. Why can't they just do as we say? :rolleyes: The world would be a much better place. :p

Because then we would have noting to yell at them about. My hubby laughs at me when I get mad at him. Also like you said (It would be a much better place.) You know they have to make everything difficult. lol They will turn sweeping the floor into a 30 min job just so you will get mad and finish it. :rolleyes: ahhhh MEN!!!!!!!!!!

I just went through this like 2 weeks ago after falling down my stairsand hurting my ankel, I bitc*** and and bitc*** at the husband and kids. And they cleaned and did the laundry while I sat and pointed my finger telling them what to do. Believe me they DO NOT want to piss mom off. I am a stay home mom and take good care of my family but if I am hurt or sick or even away on a little vacation,,,,, they better do their share on helping out around here. and if they don't, mom stops being the "cool mom" and don't give them money for pizza after school or let their friends come and hang out. And the husband does not get breakfast in the morning. or lunch either. He can go buy something for breakfast and lunch too! And lets see how they get dressed and there is no clean close. Our men can drive us crazy, but deep down we do love them even thou we are raging mad at them. Good luck and hope you get a good nights sleep and I hope for his sake, things are better tomarrow

:eek: :eek: Oh WOW - What Timing on this post :eek: - I LEAVE IN FIVE days....have an ill husband and this is my first trip EVER away from the girls. He isn't immoblized but ....I'm DREAMING of stuff like this happening !! In his case I understand that he can't do things for them or the house - but man.... I'm a nervous wreck.

Men can really be so dense sometimes can't they ? On the upside - Think of him spending so much time playing with them he just didn't have time to keep up with everything ? Maybe he didn't NOTICE all this stuff ? They really don't see what we see I think.

Oh lord....I am really dreading leaving my girls

Think twice before marrying this guy!

omg we're gonna miss you!!!!!!!!!! we're leaving for the beach this saturday for a whooole week!!!!!! :eek: at least we get to bring tucker. and i'll be able to check in once or twice. but then on the monday after that i leave for girls camp (church camp) and i'll be gone for 5 days with nothing to do with yorkies at all OMG!!!!!! at least between all that i get to go to a YT meetup!!

sorry you had to come home to that!! we can't expect much from men!

I have to tell you this story. The other day I told my husband I had to go and get some frontline for the critters. (yorkie, lab and kitty) I wasn't dressed so he said he would go. I told him exactly what to get for each one. Get this! He comes home with frontline for a dog weighing 85 to 125 pounds. I said what is that? (not for cat! :confused: not for yorkie :confused: not for lab, he weighs probably 60 pds. He said there is more in the package I will just split it up. I said this can't go on cats. And how do you know how much to put on Bella. He said it can't be that hard. I said never mind I won't send you again and I went the next day and got the right stuff. Do you believe these men? :mad:

Welcome back! I am sorry you had to come back to that but things will get better.

Welcome home! I'm glad you had a great trip! I'm sorry about you hubby. Go kiss your fur babies and you'll feel much better. :D

I"m sorry if this comes off as rude, but here I go...

DON'T CLEAN UP AFTER YOUR MEN! Let them clean up their own hair out of the sink from shaving. Live in squalor for a little while until they realize all that you have done for them in the past. You can put up with it for little while and they'll learn that the house doesn't clean itself.

I would NEVER clean up after any man.

I think we need to start a forum for spousal support. I'm going through a rough patch with my husband as well. I don't have the same complaints as some he's between jobs right now, has been between jobs, so i work he does clean and do laundry, not as well as i might, but at least it's something. My biggest complaint is i get mad at him and try to calmly explain to him why i'm upset and he stands there and ignores me (acts like he's listening) and then walks away or says what he thinks will make me forget about the problem and go away. I wish he would talk to me so we could compromise instead of saying he'll fix it and then doing the same thing over and over again uggghhhh. lately it seems like i'm constantly annoying him, i know i'm annoying and irrating, but i thought he loved me as i was now i being to think he's getting sick of me to like everyone else and that makes me sad. I'm gonna quit now cause you guys don't wanna listen to my pity party.

I'll always have logan he doesn't think i'm annoying he thinks i'm fun.