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I am so proud of myself ~!!! Those of you who know me..Know I have Yucky mean husband When he met me 5 years ago I had a short pixie cut , which I LOVED and thought I looked cute. ( he supposedly fell in love with me this way) Well after we were married and the verbal abuse started, he started calling me bad names...Saying I was a lesbian etc...with my hair so short. I have a gay son. So it was just another way to hurt me :( I stopped cutting it. And it was half way down my back Well.....last night I didn't want to take a shower i sat last night dreading it again I was so sick of washing my long hair Dealing with it at my age...waiting for it to dry just bummed me out. So I cut it all off !!!!!!! I did it..YAY... Now my Jen and Amanda are taking me for a makeover. And he can call me all the names he wants. I dont care ..lol:D |
Good for you! I have been thinking of you and wondering how you are doing |
Good for you for doing something that you want. I am sure it will make you feel much better, enjoy your makeover!! |
Well you know we are going to need pictures...................RIGHT? |
:(:(:( I hope you know that really IS verbal abuse. There is nothing at all wrong with having a gay son and I hope he doesn't take it out on him too - but can I ask you something ? WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM ? I'm sorry - I don't even know him and I want to slap him. you may want to think of your future and whether you want to live this way or get out and BE HAPPY.....and good for you cutting your hair :thumbup:- no one should have to worry about such an insignifcant thing in their marriage. There's so many BIG things to live thru day to day |
How awesome! You are going to feel so good with a makeover. I'm needing one myself! |
Congrats.....you must feel s liberated enjoy your makeover |
yes pics! Good for you! Pooey to your mean hubby! He needs to take a chill pill! :) |
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I am hanging in there. Praying that he gets a job that has INS.or Praying that the job Jen told me about with INS still opens up. Then I am filing FAST before he loses that job, and the blackmail is back on. I CAN DO THIS ~!!!!! How are you doing hun? |
Well I am proud of you too...Yay for liberation!!!! Although I cut my hair too and now hate it!:( |
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My son at over 350 lbs would hurt him...and not just slap him Its a long story why I'm still here. Just trying to stay strong and get out. I put 100,000 down on my house. He wont work, has heart cond. and will run to the hospital so I lose all equity thru hospital bills..BLACKMAIL , is it ..in a nutshell I'm 50 years old and disabled and cant start over again with no money. Now thats a short post..on a long story..lol |
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Good for You!! We would love to see pictures after your make over. I'm sorry that you are dealing with this with your husband. I hope that you do what is best for you and everything works out. |
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PLEASE WATCH WHAT YOU SAY HERE - he can one day use it against you. |
:bravo:Debbi.....good for you. I am proud that you are thinking of your own self pride. I was married to a domineering and controlling man for 10 years and I know how it feels. I have a 34 year old daughter that is gay and she is the sweetest, most thoughtful and most wonderful daughter ever. Your husband is a big jerk. I can't wait to see pictures of the new you. |
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Debbi, my heart goes out to you.. It would be terrible to live at 50 with such verbal abuse.. stay strong and get out when you can..Men will only act and behave like this if they think they can get away with it.. I always tell my hubby.. I would never remarry again.. nor would I ever want to live with some one again.. like you have your house and I have mine.. I have seen so much of people with a good relationship or some one they truly loved,. to end up like you.. I too have been thinking about you. just did not want to ask how it was going.. Yup good thing I am not around him.. I would give him a peace of my mind for I just think men who pick on women have their own issues and by doing so it makes them feel bigger and better.. (in their minds)... anne |
Debbi, I said this before, but it deserves saying again.. YOU GO GIRL! You don't know how bad I wanna come there and snatch his big ole @ss and drop it in BUM F*** EGYPT! I hate ABUSERS! Emotional, physical, mental.. they are all the same. Just SAD MISERABLE SICK human beings. He doesn't deserve you and I am SO PROUD of you for doing what is in YOUR heart! I can't wait to see your new do! |
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I feel the same way about my son He's a nurse, like Jen He's 30 and has been with his partner for 10 years now. I also love him like my own son. They have the house...horses..dogs..everything a couple wishes for. But kids...and he loves kids.. :( They are good people , which is what matters most. And I hate when Yucky husband calls him names :( I know one thing..I feel good even tho it looks dorky right now. And I dont have a headache |
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So let him use it..lol I didnt mention his name tho I should put it out there to warn other women. I wont..lol thanks gals for the warning (((hugs))) |
I dont know you personally, but I am da n proud of you girl. Stand up for yourself, and remember, you are special. |
dont let any excuses get in the way of a better life, been there done that, sell the house from under him, is it your house of both of yours, take your equity or share and leave, life is to short to live like this, i took it for 27 years finally left and have never been happier...its worth it. then see who is suffering, |
YOU GO GIRL! :bravo: Good luck to you and I hope you get what you deserve (everything!!) hehe :p Karma will come back and get his yucky ***! |
Sounds like he needs an unfortunate tractor accident... |
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:thumbup: Yay! Good for you! I'm glad you have your short hair again and you're going to get a makeover! Can't wait to see pictures! |
Can't wait to your pictures...good for you that you did something you wanted to do!!! :thumbup::thumbup: Wish you well with everything. |
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Your beautiful no matter if you have long hair down past your butt or if your bald...I'm so proud of you for doing what YOU want!! Now did you post before and after photos???? I hope you have fun with your make over you deserve it! Hugs :rose40: Lee |
Good for you!!! |
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Isn't that awful that you can't even say what you feel on an open forum without the fear of it being used againt you in court. I never knew that. What's this world and people coming to? Lee |
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