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I am so proud of myself ~!!! Those of you who know me..Know I have Yucky mean husband When he met me 5 years ago I had a short pixie cut , which I LOVED and thought I looked cute. ( he supposedly fell in love with me this way) Well after we were married and the verbal abuse started, he started calling me bad names...Saying I was a lesbian etc...with my hair so short. I have a gay son. So it was just another way to hurt me :( I stopped cutting it. And it was half way down my back Well.....last night I didn't want to take a shower i sat last night dreading it again I was so sick of washing my long hair Dealing with it at my age...waiting for it to dry just bummed me out. So I cut it all off !!!!!!! I did it..YAY... Now my Jen and Amanda are taking me for a makeover. And he can call me all the names he wants. I dont care ..lol:D |
Good for you! I have been thinking of you and wondering how you are doing |
Good for you for doing something that you want. I am sure it will make you feel much better, enjoy your makeover!! |
Well you know we are going to need pictures...................RIGHT? |
:(:(:( I hope you know that really IS verbal abuse. There is nothing at all wrong with having a gay son and I hope he doesn't take it out on him too - but can I ask you something ? WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM ? I'm sorry - I don't even know him and I want to slap him. you may want to think of your future and whether you want to live this way or get out and BE HAPPY.....and good for you cutting your hair :thumbup:- no one should have to worry about such an insignifcant thing in their marriage. There's so many BIG things to live thru day to day |
How awesome! You are going to feel so good with a makeover. I'm needing one myself! |
Congrats.....you must feel s liberated enjoy your makeover |
yes pics! Good for you! Pooey to your mean hubby! He needs to take a chill pill! :) |
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I am hanging in there. Praying that he gets a job that has INS.or Praying that the job Jen told me about with INS still opens up. Then I am filing FAST before he loses that job, and the blackmail is back on. I CAN DO THIS ~!!!!! How are you doing hun? |
Well I am proud of you too...Yay for liberation!!!! Although I cut my hair too and now hate it!:( |
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My son at over 350 lbs would hurt him...and not just slap him Its a long story why I'm still here. Just trying to stay strong and get out. I put 100,000 down on my house. He wont work, has heart cond. and will run to the hospital so I lose all equity thru hospital bills..BLACKMAIL , is it ..in a nutshell I'm 50 years old and disabled and cant start over again with no money. Now thats a short post..on a long story..lol |
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Good for You!! We would love to see pictures after your make over. I'm sorry that you are dealing with this with your husband. I hope that you do what is best for you and everything works out. |
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PLEASE WATCH WHAT YOU SAY HERE - he can one day use it against you. |
:bravo:Debbi.....good for you. I am proud that you are thinking of your own self pride. I was married to a domineering and controlling man for 10 years and I know how it feels. I have a 34 year old daughter that is gay and she is the sweetest, most thoughtful and most wonderful daughter ever. Your husband is a big jerk. I can't wait to see pictures of the new you. |
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