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I hope things start falling into place for you and your guy! Hugs to you! |
have you had an internship? Or have you tried to find one for the summer? While I realize internships don't always pay the best, a summer internship may turn into a well paying job with that company or another company |
I's sorry you're going thru such a hard time.... I have a little help to offer - if you really have to sell your things - try Craigslist - then you don't have to worry about shipping and can get what you ask for most of the time. After my husband died 6 months ago :(...I had to sell everything I could just to survive .... I pretty much sold everything I listed - I kept my nice furniture etc - but sold anything I could put a price tag on - I HAD to downsize for an apartment - but I downsized SO much that there was a few things I wish I DIDN'T sell - so pick and choose carefully - GOOD LUCK !! |
Thanks for all the suggestions, hugs, and support. I still don't know what i'm going to do, it would be sooooo much easier if I didn't have a darn car payment every month! I drove around in the country for 30 mins tonight just crying about the situation. I don't know that it really helped me any, but it made me feel a bit better... gosh I miss him sooo much. |
Driving around in the country is very theraputic! I do it all the time when I need to get away and think. |
My hubby Kevin and I had a "long distance relationship" before we got married. We have now been married for 30 years. Just thought I'd tell you this to give you hope:) Hang in there, I know it's hard, but this too shall pass. Sheilagh |
I'm sorry:( I hope things work out for you and you raise enough money to move to Idaho. Long distance relationships are hard, but if it's meant to be it will def. work out for the best. I hope you can get a job in no time |
Im sorry. But i have been in your shoes, I was in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years, so I know exactually where you are coming from. All my advice is if you think its worth it, it will work out. Long distance relationships can work then there will be a time that you will be able to move when its right for the both of you. Good luck. If you ever want to talk about it you can PM me. |
any updates??? Hope things are looking up. |
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I'm planning on maybe visiting again in the fall, then maybe move there in January.. but I really don't know. |
LDR are hard to maintain. And then if you move there and it does not work out (heaven forbid), you are stuck. See if he will move to be by you, then you are not taking such a risk. I know it is hard to be away from the one you care about. I really wish you the best. |
Hang in there. What is meant to be, is meant to be. I was in a LDR and I am now married to the man of my LDR. Mine was so far it isn't funny. I was from Malaysia and he from Canada so talk about the distance. It was hard and even after I moved here, there are still lots of hurdle to clear and I miss my parents back home very much...Sometimes I wished I have married nearer but in circumstances like this, I believe what is meant to be, is meant to be. To add to it, I have met him while I was in university 8 years ago and we have been attracted to each other but our relationship didn't start back then simply because I was still in school and who would ever imagine moving so far. I know I didn't back then. |
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