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MY Daughters Friend is over tonite and she stinks!!!!!! Ive had to open the bedroom window to stop my nose from burning and Im planning to wash ALL bedding the moment she leaves. How sad is it that a 9 year old can smell that horrible. |
as in needs a bath stinks?? |
That is such a shame! Her parents are not showing her proper hygiene, I feel its their fault, because grant it she should be bathing and keeping good care of herself but its her mothers job to teach her and show her. Imagine when she hits puberty how much worse its going to be:( |
ohhhhh.... This is so sad, poor little girl, just can't believe people! Glad she has your daughter as a friend! |
Oh gosh that is sad. What the hell is wrong with her parents..hygiene is a must for children. Might be indicative of some abuse or neglect at home. |
She smells in a very odd way. Dirt and sweat yes but theres another level to it I just dont know what it is. Its so odd. |
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Yeah...what she said. Do you know the parents? Been to their house? Seen their house? |
Ive never been in their house. The girls know each other from dance classes. I see the Mom 2 times a week for an hour each class. I know they arent the most clean but this is way more than normal. Im guessing they might not bath on weekends. She smells kinda like Pinesol floor cleaner maybe... |
Does it smell anything like this? "A strong smell that might resemble urine, or an unusual chemical smell like ether, ammonia or acetone." |
I don't want to scare you, but this could be serious. One reason she might smell like that is if her parents have a meth lab in their house. If you have any friends in law enforcement, social work or anything like that. You might ask them to "drop by" and see if the smell is the same. |
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Oy can you imagine if it were that. |
I'm praying it's not. |
Maybe they took clothest out of the hamper. My youngest daughter is a slob...she never smells or wears dirty clothes but I can see how some lazy kids might do it. |
I teach high school and I have actually had some kids with serious hygiene issues even at that age, so it is possible. |
I seriously doubt its a meth lab...I would say she is probably a bed-wetter and doesnt clean it off in the morning. I had a little girl in a kindergarten class that smelled of a hamster cage and I could barely get near her. It was from bed-wetting. |
I hope its not that, she has 4 younger siblings. Ive never seen any indication it would be meth, her Mom seems normal enough and is almost 50. But I guess anything could be possible. She kinda makes me think of pine floor cleaner. |
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They do have a number of pets. 5 dogs and 2 cats. |
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Shes also coughing up a storm. If she were mine I wouldnt have sent her here. And if I had known before 11:oo I would have sent her back home. |
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It is so sad that a child has to live in these conditions. Can you imagine what it will be like as she gets older. Other children may not be a considerate as your daughter. Children can be so cruel at times. I really feel sorry for her. |
aww poor kid probably hasn't been taught good hygiene. If she's spending the night, you might just show her where everything is in case she would like to take a shower before going to bed or before going home? |
Bless her heart.....again, it's not her fault! It breaks my heart for children without parental guidance. It probably would be a true Blessing & maybe something she will take with her forever if...............today, you make a pampering party for your daughter & her to camouflage what you are truly trying to do. Tell your daughter, you want her to take a shower & give her some of your pampering products (perfumed bath gel) lotion, wash her hair, etc. Then for her friend, as well. Maybe then help fix their hair, paint their fingernails, to make them both feel "special". This little girl may never have had this feeling. I think she will take this specialness home with her. ;) It's worth a shot!;) |
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That is so sad. :( I definetly agree with everyone else about the spa day. I think she\'d remember that forever...and maybe it would make her want to be clean. |
I feel so sad for her, but my bestfriend had an odor not as strong as this one but my mother was like a mother to her and she just told her to take a bath before going to sleep when she stayed the night. My mother is more direct with my friends than other mothers, but in a nice way.Bless her heart. |
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