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Gosh, I wish I had a good suggestion but unfortunately all I have is a hug:bighug: |
Wow, I'm not sure what to say or tell you but if you part with her, perhaps she'd make a good candidate for police work. She sounds very very smart. I'm not kidding with having her work as a police dog. maybe you can contact someone who can put you in that direction. She just may need that kind of stimulation. Elaine |
Can you contact a german shepard rescue to take her? I would hate for her to be put down. Maybe they could find somebody who could take time and train her/rehabilitate her (and I don't mean that negatively towards you/please don't take it that way). I also wonder about those collars that shock if the dog goes outside of its area. What a hard situation. |
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Sending you one big a$$ hug right now. |
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I just sent him an email:D |
Wow Maureen, you sure do have your hands full. I have no advice to offer that hasn't already been mentioned...a country home, with plenty of room to roam...a job, either police work or something like that...give the dog a purpose. But I have to give you credit...you've tried, there is no doubt in my mind that you'll find the answer to this perplexing problem. I too am sending you a much needed "HUG". Good luck to you both!!! |
You are extremely patient. I hope some of the suggestions above help. |
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Sounds like this is a very intelligent dog that really needs someone who can give 100% of their time. In fact this dog needs a job...this kind of breed as well as several others will act this way when they are bored. So many end up in shelters or worse put down because people unlike you have given up on them. I think you are amazing sticking it out this long! Don't feel bad about what you have done at all, but maybe use your energy in finding something useful for this dog to do. Not sure how dogs are recruited for police work...search and rescue, or even narcotic work but I would give it try. Good luck!:animal37 |
:eek: :eek: :eek: Wow, I just read your story and omg no wonder you are so upset! It seems like you are going throu a lot of frustration. Ah but how sweet it is that she didnt want to leave you alone at petsmart and wouldnt let anyone to touch her :) I would also do the same thing you did, take her home. Maureen, it seems like she needs some behaviorist, I know you sent the email to Ceasar Milan I just really really hope he answers you back. Sending you a big big hug :hug: Wow and I thought I had frustrating 2 weeks when I was babysitting Maxi's cousin, she wasnt trying to destroy things thou but was always challenging me and it felt like 24/7 regular job and I thought I was going crazy. But after reading your post wow is all I can say. Maybe she needs more than those regular runs? I know I take Maxi for long long walks, run with him and still when we come home he is still very very active and want to play. I dont know what else to suggest I hope everything works out;) |
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My goodness. Everyone is right!! You, my dear, are a saint!! And even after all of what you've been through - to be able to still show sooo much compassion for the big houdini! It truly warms my heart. I agree with all advice. She needs a lot of specific things in her environment for her to be happy. You know that she's not happy as she's destroying things. That is not the sign of a happy (or balanced, as Cesar would put it) dog. You are at a turning point. You've made the first and hardest step (I know, I've done it) in deciding that a change is in order. Now it's simply sorting through the options that are best for her. God Bless You!! |
My heart goes out to you and your Shepard. My dtr had a Huskie Malmute mix that was the same way. We called her Reggie Houdini, she always ate her way out of where ever you put her when she was home alone. The vet told her it was separation anxiety. She was fine when someone was home with her, but hated being Home Alone You've received alot of good advice, hope all works out for both of you. I was hooked on German Shepards before I got hooked on Yorkies. :) Good Luck! |
You must be a very strong and dedicated person. I would not have been able to go thru all of that for that long. If you have not read the book Marley and Me, I suggest you read it. Their dog was exactly the same way. If I were you I would find a rescue to take her and let them know she needs to be out on a ranch or farm or have some serious training. You do not have to live like that. Good luck in whatever you decide. |
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Your post read like the story "Marley & Me", you may not have time to read the book (they are making the movie now). You have your own Marley story. I'm just so impressed with your resolve. But that dog needs a job! |
Hugs to you!!!! Your poor nerves. I had german shepards for most of my life. both of mine were strays that we picked up running around. Shanney and Heidi would get into things but never what you have put up with. I'm agreeing with the other posters that reccomended police work. That is one smart dog and persistant. Hope you can find a solution |
:eek: :eek: You put up with that for SIX Years??? OMG...I don't think I would have lasted a month with a dog like that. I'm sure you know how strongly I feel about rehoming dogs and how I hate to see dogs rehomed. But there is no way in h*ll I would keep that dog! |
your posted reminded me of "marley and me" as well :rolleyes: Sounds like you give her a lot of exercise with the dog park and your son running with her. But its still not enough for her. She needs to be pushed more to make her work harder. Try getting her a back pack and slowly put more and more weight in it until you get to a point where she comes back in from her run and is tired. Or you can try finding some sort of cart for her to pull, same idea as the back pack. I think the back pack would be the easiest to try first. If i were in your situation and have been dealing with her for 6 years then i wouldn't be able to give her up at her age. she is probably 7 or 8 years old now and probably doesn't have very many years left. You are all she knows and to rehome her now might be devastating for her. try the backpack thing, hopefully it will work. just remember to gradually build up the weight so she doesn't hurt herself. good luck |
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Well....sorry to say But, I would have to have called the rescue by now......she just needs to be somewhere she can run with other dogs OUTSIDE! No offense, you have the patience of JOBE...... |
Bless your Heart you have done so much! Well Maureen you and I have talked about Cassey for many Months. I know what you have been though at least in that time. I know between you and I we have came up with Many Many *Jobs* for her. The others here have had some Great Advice for you. Not all but Most we have talked about. I really think it is Best for Cassey and for your Yorkies Safety to let her go. I Really hate that I really do but God bless your sweet heart you have Tried Everything.:justahug: And as for the Search and rescue or Police dog work.. she is to old.. the start training them Way young.. and the retire at about Cassey's age. She may do well as a Therapy dog though :confused: .. You know I am here for you hun.. I wish I was closer to help you more ((((((((HUGS))))) |
Wow! What a dog!! My only advice would be to try and rehome her to a farm. That way she could run where ever she wanted. Almost sounds like she as a dogs form of ADHA (Attention Defeict(sp) Hyperactivity Disorder) Good luck with whatever you decide. It will be the right decision.:) |
I don't remember specifically how it came about, but my sister was able to rehome her shepherd to the police. The dog wasn't a pup, she was a few years old. She was very protective, not necessarily agressive. She had a baby and the shepherd was very good with him. Her husband was stationed in Alaska and she couldn't take care of dog and newborn by herself so she rehomed. Might be worth a try, at least they may be able to suggest something. Good luck! |
It sounds to me that she has separation anxiety. If she is to much for you, then she should be in a home that is more equipped for her. Please don't take that as a slam. There are people that had a better "understanding" for this type of dog. It is hard to re-home, for all, but sometimes it is the best thing to do. Good luck!! |
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But - at this stage - maybe finding a home where she'll always have someone with her all the time is a good idea - after all this it seems to be what you need to do before you don't have a house left or worse - she runs in the street and gets hit - GOOD LUCK ! |
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I would just like to be able to give her ALL my love like I do my Yorkies but it is turning into "conditional" love, And thats not fair to her:( |
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