Originally Posted by Cadens_mommy_22 (Post 1692941)

so, after reading these responses, i've come to the conclusion that i'm just a 13 year old girl who is incapable of handling any situation, and making wrong choices when faced with a problem that calls for a rash decision, with a mom and dad who do not correctly know how to parent . we learn somethin new everyday, dont we ? well that was fun .

anyone know how to close a thread ?

Originally Posted by janelles (Post 1693030)

You should realize that a lot of us here, are Mom's and Grandma's, and when we see something like this, our natural instincts click in, and we try to protect that child.
Anyone who stalks or tries to entice a child into a car is dangerous, and this is what we are trying our best to point out to you.
We are all very worried and concerned for your welfare. Hope you will notify the police.
Janelles

Originally Posted by Proud Mommy (Post 1693032)

This is definitely a 13 year old comment:rolleyes:

Originally Posted by trisha94 (Post 1693055)

she meant that it sounded childish. Any ways instead of fighting lets get back to the matter. Is he still circling you? What did the police say?

Originally Posted by Proud Mommy (Post 1693077)

You are exactly right... That is what I meant. She started another thread telling everyone she is deleting her account:rolleyes:

So at least this thread will remind all the young members to PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, be safe when you are on your own or without adult supervision.:( It is too scarry out there nowadays:(

Originally Posted by Proud Mommy (Post 1693032)

This is definitely a 13 year old comment:rolleyes:

Originally Posted by MyFairLacy (Post 1693178)

Kelli, you had to have known that in posting this thread that all of us would immediately be concerned for your safety. I'm not sure why you got so defensive over everyone's comments. No one was being rude...only telling you that you needed to get help now. Children are kidnapped, raped, and killed every day...so what you described was VERY SERIOUS and needed to be reported right away. That man following you could be very dangerous. So, again, I'm not sure what you were expecting everyone to say when you started this thread, but the comments you got are what was to be expected. And again...only concern for your safety.

Most members here are adults, and many have children...many have daughters YOUR AGE...so again, they were only concerned for your safety

Originally Posted by parker (Post 1693289)

Thank you for posting this, I was pretty much trying to say the same thing and someone told me to have some compassion...trust me I don't know who posted that but I DO, and IT WASN'T meant as a rude comment. But now that, that thread has disappeared I don't know who to email...so w/e. I am very sorry that you are going through this and I didn't mean to be "non compassionate" And as I said before I hope that you don't delete your account and this nasty man is caught!!! :hug:

Originally Posted by Nikki+2 (Post 1693363)

LOL, that was me. I wasn't saying you, personally should have compassion. You said the reaction she got was better than being ignored and I said an even better reaction would have been to show kindness and compassion. I just meant the whole thread in general- sorry if it looked like I was singling you out.

Originally Posted by parker (Post 1693415)

Gotcha :) I meant well by my words thats all!

Originally Posted by Cadens_mommy_22 (Post 1692789)

today, at about 11:45, me and my friend (she's 14 and im 13)were walking to burgerking together (about 10 minutea away by foot) . we live in quite a small neighborhood . we usually go there with our friends on the weekends, so we (or my parents) didnt think too much of it . So, we were about half-way there when we were about to come onto the corner of the block we were walking on . This guy started slowing down next to us (we were on the left-side sidewalk, so he wasnt right beside us) . We didnt worry about it cause we thought he was turning . But no, he stopped completely . We were shocked and didnt know quite wat was going on . We couldnt move, we were so frightened . he rolled down his window and waved us to come in . we immediately looked straight forward wide-eyed and were talking to eachother through our teeth (we were still quite shaken up) . we looked back, and he was pulling up a camera and had it out the window and aimed it at us . we started runnniinnnggg as fast as we could towards where we were already going . i was screaming and in tears . we ran behind a bank and were frantically looking around making surehe wasnt following us. when we cought our breath, we started walking towards BK again . i was still stumbling cause i was so scared .
Then when we got there, we were looking around, almost paranoid, and scared of everyone (the man who stopped by us was old, and looked innocent) . halfway through eating, she said 'Kelli, stay callm ... the guy is sitting at the table in the back.' sure enough, i tried to stay calm, looked towards the back subtly, and he was sitting there ... staring at us . i turned around calmly, and started BAWLING . i was frantic again . i called my daddy to pick us up cause im scared of walking on the streets again so soon(please dont call me wierd for that) . So, we walked out front of BK, and sat on the curb (we were facing the shopping center) . We looked inside burgerking to see what he was doing, AND HE WASNT THERE !! we were crying cause he could have been anywhere . he got in his car and was just circling around the center . my daddy came to get us and we told him the story. we got back to my house and ran inside to make sure he wasnt watching us . she's sitting right here next to me looking out the window . and every so often, he drives by .

WE ARE TERRIFIED :( :( :( :thumbdown :mad: :(