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Fight with hubby *sigh* All because I said I thought he'd look good in a jacket. Go figure that one. The thing is though, that once we started fighting about that one little thing, then ALL the frustration came out about 100001 other little things, which made the little fight turn into one big full fledged, mud slinging, WAR. So then he threw out an ultimatum at me and I slung one right back at him. It was, "You have until the first of the year to do ______________ and if not, then I want a divorce." :( Now neither one of us wants a divorce and we both know that. I am just still angry, hurt, and frustrated about some things that got said to me. Why does marriage have to be so HARD sometimes? Why do husbands have to so difficult at times? |
Im sorry Aerrica:(. Im sure everything will work out! PS: How have you been, long time no talk! |
I'm doing OK. I got super busy for a couple of weeks. Olivia had surgery and then I had company, plus all the holiday stuff going on. I think I volunteered to help everywhere and spread myself a little too thin. Its Ok though. It all got done and everything worked out. :) |
I'm doing OK. I got super busy for a couple of weeks. Olivia had surgery and then I had company, plus all the holiday stuff going on. I think I volunteered to help everywhere and spread myself a little too thin. Its Ok though. It all got done and everything worked out. :) How are things with YOU???? |
Sometimes marriage is really hard.....sometimes it takes more work to focus on the positives....:( I hope you guys make up really soon. |
Thanks. I hope so too. Right now things just stink. :( |
I agree ... marriage is really hard... hubby is being a ass thiss morning... too.. men! |
i'm sorry you are having trouble :( no fun. men are so hard to live with LOL i can relate tho...you fight about something small, then alllllllll frustrations surface and a lot of crap gets said that really needs to be let go. i'm very familiar with that :( thankfully, the last fight dh and i had, was a good one for us. we have been a LOT better since then, we both learned a lot, and we both realized how much we want to work it out. so it was good. I hope things get better for you too!! how long have you been married? |
we fight like that daily its a nightmare! |
Marriage is wonderful but hard work. I have been where you are right now, I think we all have at one point so I can relate. I have been with my hubby for 9 years and I can tell you what has helped us...when an issue arises, talk about it right then and there. Dont let things go unsaid because it will come up in the next argument. I'm not sure how you tackle a problem but me, I was quick to get angry and talking was not how I got through it, I was hurtful and mean with my words, which of course lead to saying things that we didn't mean. Now I have learned to TALK not scream, and oh what a difference that has made. Its been so long since our last fight that I dont even remember it. Its all how we approach the problem. I'm in no way saying its your fault, just what helped me :-) |
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Pretty good, busy.. My lifes pulling me in all different directions. I FINALLY broke up with Josh, and its lonely sometimes, but for the most part I like it! Being able to talk to a million and one guys is great! |
Try this....don't say a word, just walk up behind him and give him a good, long hug. Don't say a word, just smile. |
We've been together 8 years and married 7 yrs. I'm pretty quick tempered too and I have a bad habit of using my words to hit below the belt. There is still a lot of hurt, anger, and frustration on both sides, but I did send him a text and tell him I said a lot of things I didn't mean because I was hurt and mad and that I was sorry for that. |
I'm sorry you're going through this. Sometimes I think we get so exhausted with the holidays that one little thing can stress you out. I'll be saying prayers for you. |
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