Guys.. Suck, well most of them.. well atleast mine :mad: Im soo frieken tired of all the bullcrap that I have to go through. Life def is a roller coaster you def go up, and it takes a while to go up, but as soon as you think it can't get any better, you fall, and you crash and when you do it hits hard!! Well Josh told me today that he isn't moving down here, and I told him that Im not having a long distance relationship for 5 frieken years! I just got this new job and Im not moving to another agency any time soon! It frieken sucks bc I have wasted like 3 years of my life with him.. I feell miserable, sad, angry, ppissed, and every other emotion that you can feel... we were soo close, and theres a few things that I never should have done but I HAVE to let it go, if he doens't want to move here then it will never ever work. He doesn't care about my feelings, he lies about the littlest things, things that really don't matter.. so what bigger things does he lie about? Its a bunch of crap and I don't know what to doo..... sorry for complaining. :( |
I wish there was something I could say, but I agree with you. Guys (ok... most) suck. Long distance relationships rarely work out. I know there are some that do. But I look at it this way, If they are having a hard time comprimising now... it will only get worse. And as for lying.. One lie is one too many for me. To tell me a lie is to look me in the face and tell me they think I am stupid enough to believe it. And once they lie one time, it gets easier all the time. There is someone special who is just right for you out there. Just take your time and he will come when you least expect it. Sonya |
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I know, im miserable now and he blames everything on me and half of its not my fault.. o well. I know theres someone out there, this is going to be hard, but im willing to leave him. If theres probs now like u said there will DEF be some there in the future. |
Well, I would agree that lieing is one thing I won't tolerate. If you can't trust someone then you might as well forget it or else resolve yourself to a life of misery. At least that's my opinion. Maybe he is just a little young right now and needs to do some growing up? Anyways, sorry you are going thru this. I can remember being where you are at and it doesn't feel good at all. :( |
Oh, hunny, I am so sorry you are having problems with Josh. I don't know anything else to say, but keep you chin up and before you know it, you'll find someone to make you 10x happier! |
He def needs to mature, the thing i hate the most is that he "stuck"in his town he doens't want to leave, which is fine for me.. bc im not going to be in that situation another girl can. |
Kels, you know I'm your friend and I love you to bits... but I've got to say this and please, please understand I'm not being a b*tch when I say this... Quote:
I wish I could say that I hope you work it out but I'm worried that the same thing will happen again in another couple of years and you'd be more torn up than you are this time. Again, I'm not being a b*tch and you know you can always talk to me, (as your late night/early morning texts have proved! lol). |
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yes, they have def been proven! I know thats what everyone tells me, but im just that "dumb girl" that has to have her life laid out in front of her and come crashing down b4 I can see it. My biggest problem was getting a bank account and cc with him, and a DA** ring. Why didn't I ever listen to my parents?? I was soo nieve (sp) that I just HAD HAD HAD to do it since I was soo in love. :( :thumbdown |
I'm so sorry you are going through this. Obviously Josh doesn't realize what a great catch you are. This has to be really hard for you. :( |
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He doesn't, he takes everything for granit... :( :mad: :thumbdown |
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but I wish I would have realized it earlier.. instead of almost 3 years later. O well.. I have learned lessons from it, and I do thank him for that. |
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At least look at it this way... you're still young, still in your teens... better to have wasted 3 years now rather than later on... and besides, it's not been a complete waste of time... no one finds their true love first time round and sometimes not even the second or third time. |
Yes, i know. Im just crying/laughing he just told me "atleast I know what love is" omg.. I still have time to meet someone, hopefully..lol |
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