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patty58 11-15-2007 07:27 PM
I don't get REALLY angry very often (zoloft helps:D ) but when I do I cry...and then that makes me madder:confused: I have also been known to clean loudly too. Hubby and kids have just learned to stay out of the way until it passes.

mizzwanned 11-15-2007 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted by MeganS (Post 1523166)
I do the same thing as you, actually lol. But seriously, what you just described sounds exactly like me.

When I'm REALLY angry I just go outside and walk. I dont come back until I've calmed down enough that I can think and speak rationally. It all kind of depends on what works for you. If you like to write, I'd suggest you write it down. Just let out all of your frustrations on the paper, and don't censor yourself or anything - just let it happen. Some people like to listen to reall loud music (others like to listen to really soft, relaxing music).

I think you should experiment with it, and whichever one works best for you you should focus on. :) Good luck!

Thnx Megan! I also like to listen to music, like i like to blast it, not the one that will make me sad or even more angry but like clubbing music. It helps a lot but today i couldn't do that cause it was too late at night and i live in a building. I used to write in a journal when i was younger, like in middle school but i stopped doing that cause my family used to find them. lol

mizzwanned 11-15-2007 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted by SladesMommy (Post 1523185)
I'm not the best one to give advice, as my anger often feels out of control too. Its been like that since I was younger though. My parents taught me never, ever, ever lay a hand on anyone else... if they didnt there would probably be alot of ppl wth black eyes and bruises.

Generally I yell or curse, throw stuff (like shoes that won't hurt). Very, very rarely I will get so angry that I can just not control it, like last wk when I kicked the wall and almost broke my toe. Even at my angriest I would never hurt a person. I do need to get the anger under control before I have kids though. Maybe someone can offer a good suggestion for us both.
Thnx i feel like mine can get out of control too, like to me atleast cause of the shaking, etc. I never hit anyone, or anything like guys do 'cause im a girl i guess, and i don't like my furbabies to see me angry. If they see me crying they jump all over me and lick me. lol I throw stuff too! Like little things though, nothing that can break. I throw like my deodorant or something like that, is that normal? I need suggestions too...does anger management work?

For My Coby 11-15-2007 08:09 PM
I'm one of those wimps that tears up when I get mad, and then I get madder.

Actually, I don't get mad often, I'm usually - annoyingly to those around me - looking at the bright side.

But years ago, I discovered something that helped, and the family counseling agency where I worked actually used the idea. You know how you want to BREAK something (but don't want to break your stuff)? If you take a plastic ice cube tray and slam it on the counter, it sounds satisfyingly like breaking glass. When you feel better, a quick paper towel clean up, and you're a new person!! ;)

mizzwanned 11-15-2007 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Nikki+2 (Post 1523186)
Really, REALLY angry? Scream and cry, same as you.:rolleyes: Luckily it doesn't happen too often. I've gotten a lot more mellow with age. Hope everything is okay. Sending an emergency hug just in case.:hug:
Thnx girl:) Everything is fine, i just had a moment i guess

mizzwanned 11-15-2007 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted by BamaFan121s (Post 1523187)
Scream, gripe and cuss real loud.:rolleyes: Guess I'm no help, huh?
LMAO! Sounds like me except i cry instead of curse, oh wait no i curse while i cry

mizzwanned 11-15-2007 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted by bdbmamaw (Post 1523211)
I clean house! Really loudly!!!! Pots hit the counter with greater force. Cabinet doors close a little louder. Sometimes I get tickled about how stupid I am acting that I actually start laughing. I don't throw things, I just use a little more force to clean. Hubby just stays out of the way and then enjoys a really clean house afterwards.... :D
That sounds like my mom! She will slam cabinets and pots, i cringe and leave the room when shes mad lol

Tiggerwit 11-15-2007 08:24 PM
I yell and rant and rave usually it's usually aimed at the kids not cleaning up or coming home to find poop in the laundry room/kitchen and the kids have sat there with it all day and say things like huh I never saw any....... I do the house cleaning thing too if i'm more upset about something then mad

If you feel that you are out of control so to speak or over the top it might be worth talking to someone about it.

I think writing in a journal is a good idea, or maybe working out might help you not get so angry as easily. Just ideas, it's different for every person.

mizzwanned 11-15-2007 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted by chloeandj (Post 1523235)
It's been a long time since i've been really angry. I'm pretty laid back and it takes a lot to get me angry.

But when i have been really mad, like when my child's teacher has said something totally unacceptable to my child...i cry. i hate that! I go to really tell her off and i get tears. SO annoying:rolleyes:
awww:(

Txgurl06 11-15-2007 08:28 PM
When im mad I cry! Seriously sometimes im not sad or scared but pissed so i cry and shake! I feel like crying helps me i dunno why!

but its okay to cry!

OH AND IM NOT A SISSY! :mad: :cool:

HAHAHA!

Rae Rae 11-15-2007 08:28 PM
If I'm really upset I'll cry. Sometimes I'll make a drink, I've gone for drives before (not when I had a drink though) or just go to sleep. I think what you do is normal, I could be wrong but I think Anger Management is for when you can't control your anger and it takes a toll on others.

mizzwanned 11-15-2007 08:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Nikki+2 (Post 1523247)
Okay, you officially qualify as too good!:p I only say that because I'm so jealous.;)
I know! I wish i could have the determination to work out when im mad but i don't even feel like doing anything. I just bury my head in my pillow!

mizzwanned 11-15-2007 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Mardelin (Post 1523250)
I went to anger management classes....I was out of control....throwing things, breaking things...off on a tirade, yelling and saying things I later regret....what I do now is just walk outside.......quit talking for awhile until I can get myself under control, sometime.....I won't speak to the person I'm angry at for a couple of days....once I'm under control, I'll sit down and talk it out.
yup that sounds a little like me except i don't break things. But i do do, say things i regret later depending on who im mad at. If it's my bf i do things i might regret later, if it's like my mom or family member i just sit alone somewhere and prob. pout and let time pass cause they are family and i know they always mean well. But if it's my bf im mad at oh gosh i get out of control:( I think i might need to go to those classes cause they sound like they worked!

mizzwanned 11-15-2007 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Proud Mommy (Post 1523256)
Ok... You sound like your still young so don't worry:D Your patients will grow with age:D I was a little scrapper when I was young and now I reach for the closest bag of chocolate (i dont recommend this because you rear end will also grow with age:D ) and cry:D For now your doing a good job handling it :D
lol Your post made me laugh! I guess i dont have to worry about the choc. cause when im mad or sad i lose my appetite completely and feel sickly. Sometimes my stomach starts to hurt and i feel like throwing up. I don't even like to see food when im sad. But when im happy im all for it, i love it:D

Doodlebug 11-15-2007 08:41 PM
I usually go for a drive so I can think about what I am upset about and why. I usually calm down pretty quickly and go back home.


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