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I will never survive this heartbreak I cant even talk about it but my 10 year old male yorkie elvis died last week of kidney failure and I just want to die as well. he was my everything |
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sending hope and prayers that you will have peace soon. I really do know how you feel. my heart breaks for you reading your post. |
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Don't talk about Elvis' death if your not ready to, but do tell us about what he was like and do you have any pictures you could post? Sometimes just writing it out helps John and right now things seem so bleak but soon you will realize that Elvis left you with a wonderful story about your lives together...share it with us...Prayers are being said for You and Elvis...we all know your pain. |
I am so very, very sorry for your loss of Elvis. I know you love him tremendously and he left his paw prints on your heart. Grieve now and remember it does get better. It just takes time. You can journal or talk to people. Myself included. I know what its like to lose a precious furbaby. I'm praying very hard for you, John. My heart goes out to you. |
I am so very sad about the loss of your precious Elvis. Many of us have also lost a pet, and understand and feel your pain to some extent. Grieving the loss of your little buddy is much the same as losing a child, which is one of the hardest things to ever endure. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and hope you will be comforted and in time will again smile as you remember your special Elvis. |
I am very sorry for your loss of Elvis. Praying for your comfort and peace. He must have been a very special boy. Picture him at the Rainbow Bridge being greeted by all of the other pups, and watching over you. I hope in time you will be able to share with us your favorite memories of Elvis. |
Sending prayers for your heart to heal. I like many here have lost precious little yorkies and other pets and it is one of the hardest things to endure. My DH and I were talking tonight, that we hope ours have many more years with us, 1 is 5 and the other almost 2 but we lost a 7 year old a couple years ago. I know right now it feels like your heart is torn into but try to think of all the wonderful times you had with little Elvis. He would not want you unhappy. God bless. |
I am so sorry for your loss, You will get through it. I know rite now it doesn't feel like it but you will. I agree that you could tell us all about him, we would LOVE to hear about your sweet boys life. You know Elvis would not want you to be so sad. Dogs are very intuitive to our feelings & are very sad when we are sad. You need to try to remember the Happy with him so he can rest now Talking about the funny & happy times with him will help ease your pain & come to terms with your loss. I know this is probably the furthest thing from your mind rite now but whenever I have lost a dear pet, I find that adding a new little family member & bringing some happy back into the house, it really helps . You can't look at it like you are trying to replace him as we know that can never be done & you would not want to replace him but there are so many that NEED a loving home & it helps your heart to heal as well. I know many here on YT have done this and say it helps greatly. I would LOVE to hear all about him. I will be Praying for your heart to heal quickly. |
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John I am heartbroken for you. I can't imagine the grief you are feeling right now. I am praying you can feel some comfort soon in the memories you have of Elvis. ((hugs)) |
John, I don't visit this forum often, because it is very painful and brings back bad memories. However, something drew me here today. As I read your message, I could feel your pain. Please hang in there. I am sending prayers your way. |
John, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of you dear, Elvis. We recently lost our Angel, and reading your post brought back a lot of painful memories, but also a huge amount of funny and loving memories. Each of us has to grieve in on own way and I am very glad that you came into the forum. There are a lot of caring people here who are willing to help you get through this. Like the others have said, please share your pics and stories of your sweetie. It may help you to share. Sending you lots of little kisses from Annie. Katheleen |
I am very sorry for your loss may elvis rip. prayers to you for healing. |
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John, I am so sorry for the loss of your Elvis. I hope you will stick around here and tell us about him. I think you will find that everyone here will "get" just how amazing and special he was to you because we have all been there. |
John - I am so very sorry for your loss of precious Elvis. It's clear you loved him so much! What a lucky pup he was, and what a beautiful life you must've given him...never forget how much love you gave to him. You blessed his life, and vice versa. It's so devastating to lose a pet, I know, I've been there. To lose that innocent, unconditional and giving love is unimaginable. These sweetest creatures in life always leave us too soon, way too soon. The pain won't disappear, John, but I promise you it will get better each day....it will. Don't give up on believing that. Your grief honors your precious Elvis, without a doubt - but don't forget that Elvis loved you SO much and would want you to live a life of love, not pain. Keep putting one foot in front of the other for now, my friend. We are here for you and support you :love:. |
I'm So sorry for your loss of sweet Elvis. I've been there, had a little one taken far too soon. The pain is overwhelming. There are many here who can relate to your pain and would be honored to talk to you and help you through your grief. I am praying for you right now. (((HUGS))) |
John, I am so very sorry about Elvis. I lost my Sammy to kidney failure too. I understand how brokenhearted you are. So do the pet parents here at Yorkie Talk. This is a wonderful place to talk about Elvis and share your memories with us. Cry as much as you need to. You have to grieve for your beloved Elvis. We are all here for you. Sending prayers for you to help heal your broken heart. Rest in Peace, Elvis. |
I am so sorry...I wish you only the best and a speedy healing to your broken heart |
John I just wanted to say I am so sorry about the loss of your sweet Elvis. Words cannot describe the special bond we have with these sweet souls who give their love to us so unconditionally. I honestly feel that the world would be a better place if more people loved and bonded with their dogs. So many people feel alienated these days but the love of a dog could heal this loneliness. You and Elvis shared this special kind of love so that the loss of it causes you heart to ache even more, but you were lucky to have shared such a bond, to have as your companion & best friend Elvis. My deepest condolences. Elvis waits for you. I haven't left at all Haven’t Left At All I saw you gently weeping as you looked through photographs You paused for just a moment at one that made you laugh. But as you turned more pages the tears began to flow You whispered that you missed me but I want you to know; I softly licked those stinging tears that down your cheeks did fall I want to help you understand I haven’t left at all. On those days that you are overcome with sorrow, pain and grief I rest my head upon your leg to offer some relief. When you take our walking path I’ve seen you turn around Because I know you surely heard my paws upon the ground. At night while you are sleeping I snuggle at your side You stroke my fur as you touch that place where I used to lie. You said it’s just your heart playing tricks upon your mind But rest assured I’m really there, my spirit’s left behind. I know your heart is hurting; it’s like an open sore You think my life has ended and you won’t see me anymore. But for those of us bound tight by love, death is not the curtain call; It’s really the eternal beginning that waits for us all So as you live your life I patiently await For us to be together when you pass through Heaven’s gate. |
I'm sorry John. I lost my beloved Minnie to a seizure caused by failing kidneys, and those first few days were just the worst nightmare imaginable for me since I love Minnie so much. I couldn't sleep a wink for almost two days after I buried her. I just want let you know you're not alone in being completely devastated losing someone who means so much to you, and I think most of us on this forum have felt the same when it happened. For me the first thing that dropped my stress level to something manageable was reading Beachdog's blog about Paris the Blind Wonder Dog and seeing that there were other people with the same kind of extremely close bond I had with Minnie. RIP Dear Elvis :( |
I am so sorry....:rbyorkie: |
I feel exactly the same.. I want to die. I lost my lovely beautiful best friend ever Tootsie. I feel guilty as hell. She was intelligent she talked to me. We went everywhere together, she attended meetings at my office and travelled with me. We had long walks, and she was very energetic. I was moving house to have a garden for her. I forgot to give her the tick control. She got a fever and developed anemia. Only to find she was bitten. I tried everything blood transfusion intra venous saline and glucose. She got better for a day and then just as we were going to give her her antibiotic she collapsed in pain. I don't know what to do. I feel like I lost a limb or an arm. I walk around crying non stop, and don't have a purpose to live.It has been 3 days now and I am not getting better, I cannot go to work or meet or speak to anyone. I am devastated. She was a healthy 11 years old, I know she was growing older but I wished she died peacefully of old age. I have no one to blame but myself. I was busy and did not notice ... I cannot live with this I need her to forgive me. what do I do? I don't know what to do everything reminds me of her. Everything. |
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Dear Mahmouha It has been one week today for me and I still get fits of crying. Don't blame yourself we all forget things and who knows the anemia may not be tick related. We need to both forgive ourselves and think of all the pleasure we brought to our little ones. Its day to day for me and unfortunately we have to let time pass. I am 56 years old and this is the worst pain I have ever had. I will keep checking on you just stay busy |
I am so sorry for your loss John! Each and everyone of us dread the day as we all love our babies so much. |
Thank you John. And sorry for not being more supportive instead of being so selfish and egocentric. You do not know how you and this board are helping me, I needed to share my feelings. Stay strong... Hope to know that soon the pain will gone and the memories will bring a bright smile on you face. |
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very very sorry for your loss. please do not blame yourself....ur tootsie is not blaming you one bit...id bet my life on it. she wants you to remember her at her best and the good times and the bond you shared. may she rip and i am sending many prayers that you forgive yourself and start to heal a bit. many hugs to you. |
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