Tashi got ran over four days ago advice ?
 

My Dad let her out to wee when he got home for work we had ordered food we saw her when we went to get it in the road still warm bleeding in the head and dead her once cheerful eyes glazed over the dog that I loved that helped me with social anxiety and my post traumatic stress syndome anorexia and was outside with me when I was throwing up because of bulimia the dog that sat outside my door while I slept and stayed behind me every step I took... Her life is gone I held her body in the road I was so upset I still am yesterday I cried sitting in the living room because everywhere I looked I remembered what she did she was only 8 months old. She was just getting fully potty trained I was expecting her to live a full life and still be alive near my thirties I wanted to take her with me when I moved out but her life was cut so short she's buried in our back yard every night I go out and cry at her grave I say I'm so sorry Tashi I love you and I tell her goodnight I had a dream about her the night after she died I had a dream mom woke me up and Tashi walked into my room and hopped up on my bed and I petted her an then I remembered she died and I started cryin cause she fall owed my mom out and my mom. Said "is you waggen your tail ?" Then I said MOM she said what then she remembered and she was crying too. She came on my bed and snuggled me
It was so real.
But even in my dream she was dead
I sobbed when I woke up I'm sobbing now
I have no friends anymore
She was my only real friend and she died
We got a new puppy yesterday
I like her and don't feel as empty but I feel like I did a bad job she was like my baby it's like findin your first born dead on the road the worst thing is is I know if I would have went outside 10 minutes earlier she would be here to today

I'm so sorry for you. Your story made me cry. Please know that she is looking over you still and running and playing with others who have passed before her. Don't be too hard on yourself, accidents happen. Just know that in the short time you had her she knew she was loved.

Thank you but even now I go to the bathroom and leave the door open I expect her to run in and want me to pet her or go out of my room at night ad see her standing in my parents doorway or walk around the house and hear her happy little footsteps I don't cry much over people but I just wish whoever ran her over would have pulled her off the road or apologized about it I attempted suicide last spring after being molested and I had a dog (mutt ) that we saved off the road and she got ran over and I was pretty upset then and I had always wanted a yorkie so we got Tashi and now she's gone and all it was was a routine potty break...

I'm so sorry for your struggles. I know it is very hard to loose such a precious baby. I feel bad for you also that you attempted suicide, however am happy that you didn't succeed. I had a son who committed suicide 3 weeks before his 18th birthday and believe me, the pain I bear in my heart for the rest of my life has to be as bad as the pain he felt before he left.
I know they say "time" heals everything, but don't feel bad to grieve. Take as long as you need and then try to focus on the happy times you had with your little one when you are ready.

I'm sorry to hear about your son but believe it or not when you do something like that at that point you don't care you're numb but I'm really sorry <3 and I hope I will love Yumi just as much as I did Tashi

Yumi looks very sweet. I am sure the little one will steal your heart as well. I know that one can never replace the other but in time, when Yumi begins to bond with you and share love, your pain will lesson. Enjoy your new little on and all the love you will receive from the precious baby.

Thank you she has already started fallowing me around and I have started teaching her to play

I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear Tashi. :lovewings

My baby is a bolter, and for that reason is never outside without being on a harness and leash attached to me. Makes it really I convenient at 3am when it's in the low 20's, but at least that way I'm sure he's safe.

So sorry for your loss Wallee has given some good advice Take care of you

very sorry for your loss.

Thank you all

I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Little One.

My advice would be to put a fence up between the door and the road, or to keep her on a leash and harness and take her for a quick walk to go potty. Pups/dogs bond with their owners on a walk.

:thumbup::thumbup:

We will be putting up a fence for our back yard but for now our new little one Yumi is too little and it's too cold for her to go out really

are you going to potty pad train yumi?? please be sure never to let her out without a leash on and you or a parent out with her.....not only the road is a danger to her but also wild animals or other dogs could hurt her. just in case you didnt know that...just want your yumi to be safe from danger. :)

Or use peepads in the house... two of mine stay in mostly so the pads are a big convenience...

For now yes I am potty pad training her ( more like crate training) She's small and a wee bit standoffish but she follows me I think she's only started eating solids so I have to hold the kibble she's tiny I think she's smaller than Tashi was ( my aunt is a vet Been around all different breeds since I was little)

Tears are falling as I read this. My heart breaks for you and your, little Tashi! I know how you feel as I lost my Tameka, to illness a few months ago. You will have good days and bad, where it is ok to cry. Memories and pictures of Tashi will help on those rough days. Even though, I now have a new little girl, named Teeka, I miss my Tameka so much. Those first loves are so hard to loose! Time will help heal the loss. Enjoy your new little girl. Give her lots of hug, kisses and spoil her rotten!

Yes <3 I'm gonna go out to her grave soon and tell her good morning with Yumi thank you for the support I'm sorry for your loss <3

As am I thank you for your thoughts

So sorry for your loss

I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how you feel.

Something you may want to consider. I have 6 little dogs. The 2 oldest, one is 10 and one is 7, go out on a leash to potty. Even if I had a fenced yard, I would only let them out if I were out there with them.

My 4 youngest and smallest ONLY use peepee pads inside. They do NOT go out to potty ever. We enclosed our porch so they can't run out the door and off the porch. If they DO go out, to the vet is all, they are leashed.

I know that no dog can take the place of one that has gone to Rainbow Bridge. But this new baby will work it's place into your heart.

God bless you.

Louise

So sorry to hear about your son. You will be in my prayers.

Louise

Well see we only recently moved to the outsides of a small town before that we lived in the country really Tashi had never chased cars or went in the road and scratched on the door to be let back in immediately so it was odd we thought maybe she followed our outside dog across the road or a neibor dog

I just wanted to say how very sorry I am for the loss of your Tashi and for the ordeals and trials you have been thru in your life. I'm praying that Yumi will help heal your heart. Just remember that Tashi knew how much you loved her..she's watching over you and Yumi now.

Thank you

I am very sorry for your loss, but I am confused you said your Dad let her out to wee, then later you saw her in the road, may I ask how she got in the road.

If you did not take her out to go potty on a leash do yourself a favor and try that with the new one, I do that with my dog and it works great and is very quick.

Country or city, you should not let the dog run loose to potty, anything could happen especially since it sounds like your Dad did not stay out there with her. There have been lots of stories here about hawks, another where a dog picked up an owl dropping and had to be hospitalized. You said the person did not stop that hit her, they might not have even known they hit something. Small dogs especially yorkies since they are dark are often not spotted by drivers so they can get hit much more easily. Small dogs also can get much sicker if they pick up and eat something off the ground like a dead bird, wild life droppings, bones from peoples garbage. Also yorkies are hunters or ratters from way back and I have hardly seen a yorkie that will not chase after a squirrel if given the chance, I know all of mine would have ran right out into the street in pursuit if given the chance, so something like that is probably what happened. Good luck with the puppy and now is the time to start training her by leash, it's much harder to change them once their habit is established. Good luck

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I trained one of mine to go in a litter box. She wanted to eat the doggie litter so I just put her pads inside the litter box and whenever she goes she comes running to us for us to go look. Rest in peace sweet little Tashi.