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Darlene68 01-11-2011 06:00 PM
Oh Cathy I am so sorry, my heart breaks for you, Mia was a beautiful little girl, Rest in peace precious baby :(

DamSweet 01-11-2011 06:15 PM
I am so sorry for your loss

fufufashions 01-11-2011 06:19 PM
So sad!! RIP Mia!! Your mommy loved you so much!!
You are in my prayers Cathy! :hands:

enchilila 01-11-2011 06:31 PM
I'm sorry for your loss of sweet, beautiful little Mia. She truly was a beautiful little girl. Rest in peace, Mia.

cathys 01-11-2011 06:36 PM
Your support here means so much to me. It's nice to know that others understand our pain. I know I made the right choice for her, but my heart is still broken for our loss.

elemtchr99 01-11-2011 06:40 PM
I am so sorry to hear this. Praying for you.

Armani Alexis 01-11-2011 08:01 PM
Terribly sorry to hear about your heartbreaking loss...

rhondah 01-11-2011 08:41 PM
We are so sorry! Sending prayers your way:(

2Morkies 01-11-2011 09:34 PM
I'm so sorry, I can't imagine losing one that was so young. She was so beautiful.
I do know how it feels as I had to put my old dog down in 09. :(

Wylie's Mom 01-12-2011 05:21 AM
I am so sorry about Mia. What a precious girl. Please know I'll be thinking of you.

Maximo 01-12-2011 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted by cathys (Post 3390095)
Thank you everyone for your support today and always. This has been a very hard week and today has been very difficult. Every where I look there is something, a toy, a blanket, they move into every room of your house and your heart. Sofia is waiting for us to bring her home, she keeps walking around looking for her. It's the saddest thing to watch. I got her to be a friend for Sofia and they bonded so fast, I feel so bad for her.
I am deeply sorry for your loss of precious baby Mia. My heart goes out to you, Sofia, and your family. Mia knew she was loved; it was evident in your beautiful pictures. You made the most difficult decision of all, letting her go so that she could be at peace. You and Sofia will be in my thoughts.

cathys 01-12-2011 08:38 AM
Thank you all so much. Can someone tell me if there is something I could do to help Sofia with this loss. She is so sad, walking around searching for Mia. She seems very agitated and has been whining in Mia's kennel. Should I wash everything and try to remove Mia's sent or is it better to leave it? I'm not sure what to do. I think this is as hard on her as it is on me. When I did not bring Mia in to have breakfast this morning, Sofia went to get her, and has been pacing around and in and out of Mia's kennel. What should I do? I am going to get out of the house today and take her with me I thought some distraction might help? What do you think?

dogbert 01-12-2011 08:44 AM
As long as the stuff is there she will look for her. I'd take it all away then leave the house with her awhile. When you both come back it will be like it used to. It will be easier for both of you to move on.

Maximo 01-12-2011 08:49 AM
I don't have any experience to draw from, but it does seem like the best plan to put away all of Mia's belongings and to take Sofia for special outings as much as possible to distract her, and you.

TammyJM 01-12-2011 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted by cathys (Post 3390856)
Thank you all so much. Can someone tell me if there is something I could do to help Sofia with this loss. She is so sad, walking around searching for Mia. She seems very agitated and has been whining in Mia's kennel. Should I wash everything and try to remove Mia's sent or is it better to leave it? I'm not sure what to do. I think this is as hard on her as it is on me. When I did not bring Mia in to have breakfast this morning, Sofia went to get her, and has been pacing around and in and out of Mia's kennel. What should I do? I am going to get out of the house today and take her with me I thought some distraction might help? What do you think?
I don't have the answers for you, but I do know how it feels to lose a family member. As hard as it is to see and smell their things, it would be sadder to have it all taken away....but each person grieves differently. What do you want to do about putting her things away? Would you prefer to do this or leave them for awhile? As for Sofia, I would just give her a ton of extra snuggles (I'm sure you are) and I would give her time to grieve as well. :(

Sending many hugs your way!! I\'m so sorry for your loss.

Tammy

PandaGirl 01-12-2011 09:18 AM
I am very sorry for your loss. :(

143julz 01-12-2011 09:21 AM
My heart just breaks for you and Sofia during this difficult time.
I have no words, just know you are in my thoughs.
I wish you strength during this time and may your heart find comfort in the memories you shared with Mia

linz06 01-12-2011 09:23 AM
I am so sorry for your loss.

cathys 01-12-2011 09:36 AM
I don\'t know what the right thing to do is, so I have decided to remove Mia\'s things from my bedroom and clean everything there, just so that we can maybe get a little break and some calm for sleeping, but I will leave the rest as a wonderful reminder of our friend. It\'s to hard for pictures yet, but someday I know I will want them back up. Thank you to everyone for your support. Sofia and I are off to run errands and stop to visit some friends.

lisaly 01-12-2011 09:54 AM
I honestly think you need to do what you feel most comfortable with. Whether the scent or Mia\'s things are there or not, Sofia won\'t forget about her. I personally am comforted having things around of my girls. You don\'t ever forget the loss, and it makes me happy to have their things around. When we lost Kiwi, it was a big loss for Ashley and Gracie. We all needed a lot of extra cuddling together, and I tried to get them out of the house as much as possible. When Gracie died shortly thereafter, I brought Ashley over to her. I thought it would help her understand more why she was gone, but I don\'t know if it really helped. I think our babies mourn like we do, and just like us, they need love and support. When I lost our first Yorkie, my best friend\'s dog searched my house and our property whenever they visited for at least six months. I\'m sure the scent was there, but I don\'t think Mishna ever forgot about Jolie when she visited. Just like with us, they need time to accept and cope with the loss. I definitely know you need to consider Sofia, but I don\'t know if it will make it easier for her; I suspect if you remove things, it will be more confusing for her. Just do what feels right for you and your baby. I am so heartbroken for you, and I wish there was something that I could say to make this easier for you. You and both of your little ones are in my prayers and my heart, and you have my deepest sympathy.

shodanusmc 01-12-2011 10:23 AM
I am very sorry for your loss.

jrsygal37 01-12-2011 11:17 AM
I\'m sorry for your loss. We lost our Jersey at 17 months to what I believe now was hydrocephalous. At the time were were told a brain abnormalty, but through research I did I do believe this is what she had. Elaine

Buster Brown 01-12-2011 11:32 AM
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your sweet Mia. She was loved during her short time with you. You gave her a great life while she was with you and made the hard decision to do what was best for her. Blessings to you sweet Mia, now an angel baby. Watch over your family they miss you. Sending prayers to your family to ease the sorrow.

lexi43 01-12-2011 02:45 PM
I was so sorry to hear about Mia. RIP Mia and have fun at the Rainbow Bridge.

kjc 01-12-2011 03:02 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.. RIP Little Mia....

AprilLove 01-13-2011 05:32 PM
I am so very sorry for your loss :( It is so heartbreaking to let our babies go. Hugs to you, and may your heart be filled with the smiles/laughter/love and sweet memories of your little Mia

Rest in Peace, Mia

Alemany 01-13-2011 05:46 PM
Sorry for your loss. Someone told me once... "instead of getting sad for what you have lost, be happy that at least you had it. It is just another way of seeing things. May God bless you all...

marcie 01-13-2011 07:50 PM
sending hugs and prayers to you.

saphire 01-13-2011 10:46 PM
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and Sofia.
RIP little Mia.

MauiGirl 01-14-2011 12:05 AM
I am so sorry for your sad loss. It must have been really hard to see Mia suffering, and at least now she can rest in peace.


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