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Did you get butters back yet???! I hope you reunion with your baby soon!! |
Family or not, they still have no right to keep you dog if you want it back especially if you were under the impression at the very beginning that this was a temporary situation. You never made the permanent agreement with them you mom did which was totally wrong on her part. I am very sorry this has happened to you. I would march over there and demand my dog back. If they did not work call the police and ask them for help. Sometimes you have to just get ugly with family. In my experiences with family, they are the ones that will stab you in back first before a total stranger will. Good Luck and I hope Butters comes home soon. |
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I believe you should really think this through and look at it at both perspectives. i wouldn't want someone to still my baby when they told me i can have them. even if it was for free and it was a mistake. still they had her (female right?:D ) for a few months and may be attached. They also may not realized they are doing something wrong. everyone thinks differently. I'm not saying to not get her back (please do) but go at it in a way that can help both of you......Just my 7cents and a quarter;) |
If you have seen inappropriate pictures online and feel that Butters is being mistreated, you should print those pictures out before they get removed by the relatives. Try to work something out with them first to get her back. If they won't let you have her back, then you have the pictures as proof that she isn't being treated right, and you can take them to court if you have to. I know you want to try to avoid that, but it's for you baby's own protection! I'm sorry your mom did that to you. As a mother, I can't understand how she could do it, but I don't know the whole story. I do hope you get Butters back! |
---update!!--- I just want to let everyone that has so kindly posted, The relatives said they will not give her back because she's gotten to be really close to their 12 yr old daughter. I'm not sure what to do now? Should I just let her go and stop trying? I don't know what to say to that. Gosh this is hard. I know that if I was the little girl, I wouldn't want my dog taken away. :( |
Maybe you could try talking to your mum, tell her how you feel about what she did and that you hate how the situation is. Hopefully she will come to her senses and understand, she may then help you get Butters back, if she spoke to the relatives. |
I think you should get a new yorkie. Butters has been with them for three months and I am sure they are attached to her by now |
maybe if you spent some time with Butters and the little girl you would get a better feel for their relationship and you would feel better about her having the baby..... just a thought, I truly am sorry you are in this predicament.... d |
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If the dog is being mistreated I would simply go and take her back. I wouldn't care HOW they felt. If I knew my dog, was being mistreated in a second she would be out of that situation. If the parents of the little girl aren't responsible enough to care for the dog, then it's just too bad. She can come visit the dog at your house. |
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I completely agree ^ GO GET YOUR BABY! Get the police or whomever involved. Gather your evidence, including the innapropriate pictures and all your vet records, and MOST IMPORTANTLY the contract where you bought her. If the little girl is that attached to her then she can come and visit. THAT IS YOUR DOG!! You bought her, you brought her home, and you cared for her until she was forcefully taken from you! You have to stand up for your baby! Obviously you have suspicions (and possibly proof) that they're not taking good care of her, that's for a reason. Not taking care of a dog well after basically "stealing" her from you is not teaching that little girl good morals anyways. They have no written proof that you ever gave the dog to them, YOU have all the proof that she's yours! GO GET HER ASAP!! |
A yorkie is not an ideal pet for small children. Contact your local human society or rescue group if they can offer you any advice. Disclaimer:What I am about to say next may sound mean. Who cares if the girl is attached, she was your dog FIRST! You have been festering about this for a while now, you unwillingly gave her into their care. I could care less if its a "family" affiliation, you aren't talking to your mother and you aren't close to them so who cares if there is tension. If they offered you money for your dog, tell them they can use that money and adopt or buy another one. I'm sure their kids will get over it once they get a new dog. Also you should of went back to get her once you settled into a new place, instead of waiting this long to act on it. All you can do now is be persistent, or even help them find another dog. |
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This sounds so silly, you are willing to alienate yourself from your mother but you do not want to make a fuss with "The" relatives to whom you are not even close? You need to get yourself over there and \'save\' your baby ... even a birth mother has up to 6 months to reconsider the adoption process .... |
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