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"In Memory" Section I just want to say to everyone who has lost a loved one this past month that my heart goes out to all of you and you are all in my prayers. I cant go into the "In Memory section (R.I.P)" because it makes my stomach knot up and I tried just now to go in there and all I could do was read the titles and I got an overwhelming sick feeling. So I want to comfort all of you and I feel like I never know what to even say. BUt I wanted to let you all know Im sorry I cant post on your threads and I care and my heart aches for all of you that have lost a yorkie and you are all in my thoughts and prayers :love: |
me, too. I just can't go in there...it makes me too sad. |
Me, too. I cannot read any those posts without crying, but I do keep those in my prayers and thoughts. |
awww thats very sweet of you.:) i have the same problem i try not to look in that section either i just start crying :( |
I cant do it either it just makes my heart hurt..... |
I agree with you guys...but imagine if we all didn't go in there cause it hurts to read - then the people who need the support wouldn't get any....:( but I know exactly what you're saying.......I can't count how many times my eyes fill up and I can't post....and I for sure can't read the Rainbow Bridge poem even though I posted it a few times - it makes me cry no matter how many times I read it. this was so nice of you Shana....I've gone thru losing pets - but our yorkies are so much more like our real children I already know I'd fall to pieces if I faced such a loss....I even get sad with each birthday cause it means they're getting older :( But to chime in - I too am sorry for all that posted in the RIP Section. |
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I always feel really bad because I know if something ever happens to chloe that the most comforting thing will be the comforting words from fellow yorkietalkers and freinds. So I knwo I need to go into that section and post just to let the grieving knwo I care and I am thinking of them. BUt yet I get a really sickening feelign in my stomach and when I read the details of what happend to thier yorkies it makes me depressed all day, and lots of times all week as I just cant get it out of my head. I also become a completly paranoid that soemthign will happend to my girls and become entirely too overprotective. So my husband tells me to stop going into that section. I wish I could be a stronger yorkietalk member and that I could go into that section and be strong for those who need me. |
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my husband did the same thing after that weekend we lost 3 yorkies here ...he piled kleenex next to my computer then said maybe I shouldn't read those threads.... I'm the same way as you are....when something tragic happens it bothers me for days also ..to the point of me not even talking ...& I always wonder ....HOW do they cope ??? |
Every time I go there I cry and get paranoid. But if something happened to my baby I would feel better with all the support given by YT members. |
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I don't specifically go to that section, but I open and read everyone that I find in today's post and respond. I don't have a clue how those who lost their precious yorkie cope, because I am so connected to my little Sissy, I just can't imagine life without her. |
i feel the same way, i just dread going in there also, but i feel i have to, just to show my support....it kills me everytime, i cry and cant stop thinking about it either. but i still do it.. i know one day hopefully never, it will happen to me and would want the same support.... they need us, they really do... |
Thank you for posting this...I'm glad to know I'm not the only who doesn't want to go in that section. I've gone in a couple times and it's too hard. I read about Bella today and had to reply but I got sick to my stomach and the tears were flowing...such a horrible story. And they all bring back the loss of my girl Yorkie Bo. I was devistated. Thank God for my little boy Yorkie...he saved me. I send prayers out to all who have suffered a loss. |
It makes me feel better that I am not alone. I can't go there.... Winston and Maggie are my kids. The thought of someday, I will lose them just makes my heartache, just typing this makes me want to cry. |
I can say from personal experience how much support and comfort I received when I lost my Katie. It's truly devestating, you feel helpless and lost. It's especially hard when people around you (even good friends and family) can't understand the extent of your pain because they aren't animal lovers. But it's great to come here and read all the supportive posts and PMs because everyone here REALLY understands, some even cry with you. The loss is deep and heart wrenching and it never goes away. It's like a blow to your stomach and all the air is sucked out of the room at the same time. But being able to share that loss with others makes it a much easier burden to carry. |
ok jen , now your making me cry |
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