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will this have an affect on my puppy? My brother just shouts at my dog so he rans away and get scared, he keeps saying if it's up to him he'll kill my dog and mean stuff like that, he would tell my dog no one loves him and put my pup in a bucket of dirt. I don't know if my dog can understand but ever since my brother did that my dog barely eats or play and is scared and looks so down, i have to feed my dog with hand to make him eat a little. I don't know what to do, my brother is* 21. I wish he could grow up |
To answer very simply, YES, this will (and is already) most definitely negatively affect this poor little dog. Is the brother ever at home alone w/ the dog? If so, I'd be severely concerned for this poor baby's safety :(. If it were me, my dog would never, ever be in the hands of someone like this. |
:eek: Oh my goodness...yes of course it will REALLY harm your little one - my heart bleeds for him. Can you imagine being a teensy little baby, and a great big 21 year old man comes looming over you, shouting and shoving you into a bucket of dirt? Absolutely DISGUSTING. Your brother is a bully :mad: Are your parents around? Is there a responsible adult about at all times, when you're not there? |
Your brother's behavior is deplorable and inexcusable. I'm sorry, but by permitting your brother to act this way around your pup, I think you're both guilty of animal abuse. You know it's affecting your puppy---head down, won't eat...What? You think for one minute this puppy is in any way happy or secure? No! He's miserable and terrified! Perhaps, if you want the best for your dog, you should think about finding him a home where he is loved and treasured by all family members...that would be the kindest and most unselfish act on your part. Poor, poor tiny innocent baby. |
Your puppy is in a very bad environment. Get him out of the home. He deserves to be loved and happy. |
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There is no way I would stand for this. So, do you live at home with your parents??? If so, he (your brother) needs to have talking to about his actions. I am very concerned this baby. This baby needs to be loved. |
Your brother is a real man. Picking on a 5 pound dog. Bully is not the word I would use to describe him. PLEASE protect your baby from him. |
this makes me want to cry...your poor puppy, your brother sounds like an animal abuser.... |
You need to get the dog out of there. Now. If you can't do that and keep him, then he needs a new home. His life is at risk here. He is obviously miserable and very frightened already and may have suffered permanent trauma. |
Your pup does not understand the words "no one loves you" but he certainly understands that someone hates him based on actions and emotions emitted. If you or your parents cannot fix your brother's behaviour, then sadly you need to get that dog to safety at another home. It may break your heart, but it will not break your heart now nearly as much as it will when your brother does injure/kill that pup because the warning signs were ignored and the pup was not made safe. |
I'm hoping that this is just someone playing a mean trick on us. One of those bogus posts that People put up to wind us up. Just imagining this is making me angry. You need to move out, or give your Dog away to someone who will love that Baby. Why do you let your Brother do this? You definitely need to intervene, right now! |
Puts your puppy in a bucket of DIRT, says, if it's up to him he'll kill the dog, as Mayzoo wrote, puppy does not understands words like "no body loves you" but the puppy fells the hatred your brother gives off, as Wylie's Mom wrote this HAS already affected your puppy. If you don't want to wake up one day, or come home one day to find a DEAD PUPPY. place that puppy with ppl that will love him and not harm him, you are putting your puppy at risk living in a home where someone does harmful things to him. This babies life is YOUR HANDS, if you really love this baby get him out of a place where someone is looking to kill him, harm him, this puppy deserves to be safe. When you can live in a place where your brother does not share the home with you, then get another baby. GET THAT PUPPY OUT OF THERE AND FIND HIM A SAFE AND LOVING HOME NOW. |
This is not fair! I LOVE MY DOG!! f he comes near my dog i take my dog away. I can't leave I'm 15!! I cry every time my brother does that to my dog because i know what it does to my pup. If i could i would leave this house with my dog or evem kick my brother out to the streets. I thought you people would have understood a lil CLEARLY I WAS WRONG. Maxdog i intend on doing that, WITH MY LIFE. Harrysmum my parents are here, my mom hears what he does she tells him to stop but he is a jackass, dsnt care. Wylie's mom i don't want my brother here and i don't want my dog NEAR my brother, but he got a job now so he'll travel a lot maybe it will get better |
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Bunnyghourl It in not your fault this is happening you can not control your brother you are 15. The more you show him it bothers you the more he will do it I think he is trying to get a rise out of you and from his stand point it's working if this happens again pick up your dog kiss and love on him go give him treats play with him in the yard. Try not to show him you are upset. If your dog knows you are upset he will be also and if your brother isn't getting you upset he may stop. I don't think you are a bad doggy mom and I dont think you need to rehome him. Let us know how things get on so we can help you more. |
why the hell is that degenerate still living at home at 21? why don't your parents tell him that if he lives under their roof that behavior isnt tolerated or he can leave? Maybe file a restraining order. is that possible? |
Okay, so we've established that you're 15 and can't move out just yet. But you definitely need to do something here. If you can't stop your Brother and your Parents don't do anything. I think you should let someone else adopt that poor Baby. If you love him as much as you say you do. Surely you want what's best for him? We Yorkie Mum's protect our Babies, no matter what. You're not there to watch him. You're at School. You don't know what terrible things your Brother is doing to that Pup when you're not around. That is worrying. That Puppy deserves better than the life he is having to cope with. This is animal cruelty. That is not acceptable! |
Do you have a friend nearby who's parents know about the way your brother torments you? Someone who could maybe puppysit for you when your at school in exchange for you doing some kind of service for them as payment? like washing their car each weekend or something? You could walk her on your way to school and pick her up on your way home... Someone you trust that you know would be better company than your brother? |
There's no one to puppysit. I tried calling child services and told grow ups about everything he does, not just to my dog but there's no one who actually cares about me to help here. He found out he has a job now so he'll be gone a lot, but until then I'll keep my puppy with me. I do home school so the only time im away is when i go to the mall... sorry for sounding rude to some, i know that giving him away would've been best but i can't not only wouldn't my parents allow it i wouldn't be able to handle it and people here don't have much respect to dogs |
I think your brother is abusing you and your dog. His teasing is mean and threatening. Since you are only 15, I understand that you don't have the ability to stop him. I understand that your parents aren't taking his behavior seriously. Can you and the dog at least get out of the house when he is around and awake? I am sorry that you have to put up with your brother. Handle your dog gently and love him. he will love you too. |
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So I just realized that you're in Africa. I'd imagine things to be quite different there than here. from how authorities deal with children to how much worth is placed on an animals life... heavy... Well one thing that doesn't change is human nature, and if he's doing these things it's most likely just to get a rise out of you. Is he like this towards any//all other animals or just yours? Is there a certain underlying reason for his animosity towards you? Is he jealous? Does he feel second best? Does he have his own friends or is he not very popular? Does he get picked on and then takes it out on you? What does this behavior stem from? If you know that, then you can figure a way to counteract it, and possibly change his behavior...think about it and let me know. |
I really think you need to talk to a councelor at your school about the very abusive and scary situation you are in at home. I know you may think your situation is common but believe me its not please seek some outside help you dont deserve to live like this |
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Ok, I would like to tell you about our lodger, Anne. She is a South African lady, who now lives in our country. She moved over here many years ago, basically to get away from the troubles over there. If we go away and are unable to take Harry with us, she is one of the very few people that I would trust to look after him...they have an amazing rapport and love for one another. If you would like me to talk to her about your situation and the horrible difficulties you are going through with your brother - then please, you only have to tell me and I will. I was thinking that maybe she could give some advice, as to who you could turn to - she knows 'the system' over there. We truly all are trying to help :) Big hugs from the UK! :) |
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