Wylie's Mom | 08-26-2012 07:14 AM | Quote:
Originally Posted by JaxsonsMommy12
(Post 4001610)
Hey y'all, I've been on this site for a few months now & have gotten some great advice from many of you but one thing that irks me/ rubs me the wrong way is that while y'all are very passionate about yorkies you tend to forget that some of us are new owners & do not like getting a lashing over the computer because of a brand of food we chose to feed our pet. What if that's the only food someone could afford? Yes I did feed my yorkie Jaxson Purina when I first got him because that's what the vet recommended to me but after further research I found that it wasn't the food for us. Along with that research I saw that lots of foods many yorkie owners talk about on also on the FDA recall list for whatever reason. People come on here to seek communicate with other owners & if you have an opinion give it but remember some of us are new to this & don't deserve to be chewed out basically because we bought the wrong food. So before telling me shame on you for feeding your pet purina and supporting that company maybe you should think back on when you first got your yorkie or any pet & if you made a mistake? How about what you eat? Most of these yorkies probably eat healthier then their owners do but yet I'm getting bashed with private messages. Sorry had to vent....I'm an Army wife whose husband got her a yorkie a few months ago & found this site to get info & talk to other owners but instead I find myself getting chewed out. ....End vent... | First, I'm so glad you felt comfortable enough to post this - bc what you're saying is important :). If someone is harassing you via PM -- you can hit the "report button" and we can help you. Or, you can send us a PM. People will and do get suspended and banned if they harass someone via PM in such a way that it breaks YT rules. Please let me know if you need more help with the PM situation.
I love the passion here, but I hate seeing that passion evolve into righteousness - that's when people are hurt, opinions suddenly become fact, and everyone is right...what a sorry battle, ya know? I do think it's important and valid for members to share their opinion about foods, ingredients or whatnot - but I think we'd all hope that it'd be done in a manner that doesn't push others away. If Purina is your choice and your kiddo does great on it - then there ya go. Sure, people might post their thoughts/opinions on that food (this being a forum) - but you're 100% correct when you say above that you shouldn't "get a lashing" over it.
When I was a new yorkie Mama...geez...I was such an ignoramus - and I'm an animal person :eek:! But I hadn't had a dog in years...I'd had cats for some years prior to getting my Wylie. I didn't know what the heck I was doing, and probably asked the dumbest questions...but I was lucky, most people were very kind to me. When people weren't kind to me (I too had PM attacks), it hurt. We were all "new" to yorkies at one time...I don't know how we forget that, but it seems to happen here sometimes.
Anyway, please know that the good far outweighs the bad here. There are so many members who *will* treat you w/ respect and kindness, and offer the kind of support you're hoping for. If someone offers you the opposite of what you're hoping for...don't let them reel you in, don't let them get under your skin -- just let it roll off and move on to the people you feel right with :).
Thanks for sharing this! |