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Daisy413 · 07-30-2012, 06:43 PM

Hi,

I'm looking to get some advice from the wonderfully knowledgeable people from this site. My husband and I would like to get a dog for our small little family. We have a 3 yr old daughter who is extremely gentle with dogs. I've heard and read that yorkies are no good with children because of their small size and sometimes their temperament. My mother has an 11 year old Pom who loves my daughter and she is very careful with Shadow and gentle. She knows to give him his space when needed and doesn't even touch his face or get up closer to his face because I've taught her to respect him. Poms are notorious for being horrible with kids but Shadow has been the exception and has been wonderful with my daughter since she was a baby. We have also had experience with yorkies. My brother and sister in law had one for nearly 10 years. She was a wonderful sweet mild mannered girl that we loved and cared for when they needed a babysitter. They soon had my nephew and Miki was amazing with Conner even as a small baby and into toddler age. Thoughts and opinions on getting my daughter a yorkie? Any feedback or experience would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

Daisy

nanahas3 · 07-30-2012, 10:26 PM

I have a 3 year old grandaughter who is fantastic with ours you just have to teach them from the beginning and our dogs love her too. Good luck

and welcome to YT.

concretegurl · 07-30-2012, 10:29 PM

Both ny older children were so gentle great listeners very mellow, still waited until they were at least 5they to add pets.

We had a new skin kid after having the dogs...hmmmm how do I say this...he's not like my other kids I can't wait for him to be 5her and dog trained and neither can the dogs...

sganow · 07-31-2012, 09:21 AM

I have never had a problem. My kids were taught to treat the dogs with respect and to be careful with them. When we had babies, the dogs were introduced to the babies by laying the baby down on the floor and uncovering him, then having the dogs come and check him out from head to foot any which way they liked. They became close and protective of those babies! Our son has a yorkie that is very good with his 2 small sons too. Some of it may have to do with the dog's personality, but I haven't had any problems whatsoever. I do keep a close eye on them though.

chachi · 07-31-2012, 09:39 AM

I think it can work in the right family but unfortuately it doesnt in alot of familys and dog bites kid and gets rehomed. Its not just about teaching the toddler to e gentle around the dog its also about finding a dog that has the temperment to put up with loud noises the child makes and quick actions

GeorgiesMomma · 07-31-2012, 10:42 AM

Hi and welcome to YT! We have a 4 1/2 son and our 7 year old Yorkie Georgie. The most important thing IMO is showing both attention and love and helping them learn how to coexist. Our situation was a little different because Georgie came first so he had to realize Isaiah was going back where he came from LOL. It requires patience and love but it's doable. Isaiah is so gentle and has learned to approach Georgie in a calm way and our boys do great together

GeorgiesMomma · 07-31-2012, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by chachi

I think it can work in the right family but unfortuately it doesnt in alot of familys and dog bites kid and gets rehomed. Its not just about teaching the toddler to e gentle around the dog its also about finding a dog that has the temperment to put up with loud noises the child makes and quick actions

I agree but I do feel like it's about teaching the child to be gentle. If Isaiah approaches Georgie in a calm way he gets a totally different reaction from him then if he is loud and acts wild. Isaiah at 4 1/2 has realized that and understands Georgie is 4lbs it's a defense mechanism. He has even said "Oh look Mommy I was quietly talking to Georgie and now he is licking me and wants a belly rub." Georgie was the only boy for almost 3 years and while it hasn't always been easy I attribute a lot of it to how Isaiah treats Georgie and less about Georgie changing his personality.

IMO people are so quick to rehome because their Yorkie snapped at their child.....the child needs to learn to respect the Yorkies space and understand how to treat them as well.

yorkielover916 · 07-31-2012, 11:15 AM

I think it's both you have to teach the kids to respect the dogs and the dogs to respet the kids we can't always tip toe around the dog they have to get used to their family and how they are that's why I think a lot of breeders won't sell a small yorkie to a family with small kids but they will however sell one that will probably be more of a standard size (6-7lbs) size makes a difference I guess I love that my JoJo was a standard size he was able to keep up with my kiddos and now jasper will be around the same size so it worked out for us. Good luck finding your yorkie baby

Yorkiemom1 · 07-31-2012, 11:32 AM

I do not like to sell my babies to families that have a child under 6 years of age. It isnt so much the child being gentle with the dog, although that is VERY important, it has more to do with the fact that a toddler does not have the physical maturity to safely navagate around a small dog. They trip and fall and stumble, because they are just not developmentally mature yet. There are several threads on the forum now, that announce the Yorkie was stepped on. With a small dog, you know what that can result in. The child certainly did not mean to do it, but it happened....they simply do not possess the mental maturity or the motor skills necessary to execute avoidance tactics! I always "save" my larger Yorkies to go to homes with children 6 and up, but I know the personalities of the dogs I breed and produce, and my larger dogs have wonderful, tolerant personalities, so sweet and playful, they do well around every family I have ever placed one with. They are large enough they can romp and play with the child, and they are not nervous and fearful of the child and the boisterous play. If you get the right size Yorkie with the right personality, I think Yorkies are wonderful around children.

concretegurl · 07-31-2012, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1

I do not like to sell my babies to families that have a child under 6 years of age. It isnt so much the child being gentle with the dog, although that is VERY important, it has more to do with the fact that a toddler does not have the physical maturity to safely navagate around a small dog. They trip and fall and stumble, because they are just not developmentally mature yet. There are several threads on the forum now, that announce the Yorkie was stepped on. With a small dog, you know what that can result in. The child certainly did not mean to do it, but it happened....they simply do not possess the mental maturity or the motor skills necessary to execute avoidance tactics! I always "save" my larger Yorkies to go to homes with children 6 and up, but I know the personalities of the dogs I breed and produce, and my larger dogs have wonderful, tolerant personalities, so sweet and playful, they do well around every family I have ever placed one with. They are large enough they can romp and play with the child, and they are not nervous and fearful of the child and the boisterous play. If you get the right size Yorkie with the right personality, I think Yorkies are wonderful around children.

Before having the newest skin kid I'd have disagreed but I completely agree now.
Yes kids are easily trained but not until they are of an age that permits this if their natural personality does not.
Personally I've found screaching spontaneously excited teenaged girls are also an annoyance or cause of anxiety.
While they are gentle etc gettibg then to look dowb beyond the cwll they are texting on is fruaterating, Elvis stays with me if ny daughters friends are around.

ritapatt · 07-31-2012, 11:56 AM

My youngest son was 15 when we got Ziva- his feet were bigger than she was!
I really like that our girls are 7 & 8 pounds- with 5 people in our home these two are a little sturdier with such friendly , easygoing personalities. I would try to look for a larger Yorkie in a house with children or lots of members.

GeorgiesMomma · 07-31-2012, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by concretegurl

Before having the newest skin kid I'd have disagreed but I completely agree now.
Yes kids are easily trained but not until they are of an age that permits this if their natural personality does not.
Personally I've found screaching spontaneously excited teenaged girls are also an annoyance or cause of anxiety.While they are gentle etc gettibg then to look dowb beyond the cwll they are texting on is fruaterating, Elvis stays with me if ny daughters friends are around.

How about yelling and screaming adults when football is on? LOL Georgie doesn't spend much time in the room with us during football season. Heck he got under the covers when I watching Olympic swimming just now LOL

GeorgiesMomma · 07-31-2012, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by ritapatt

My youngest son was 15 when we got Ziva- his feet were bigger than she was!
I really like that our girls are 7 & 8 pounds- with 5 people in our home these two are a little sturdier with such friendly , easygoing personalities. I would try to look for a larger Yorkie in a house with children or lots of members.

I totally agree with you and if Georgie came after our son I would also like to a more sturdy and bigger fur boy. That's not to say it can't work but there is a little less worry when they are a little bigger.

gracielove · 07-31-2012, 12:57 PM

I guess I don't have a solid opinion on this subject. I think that a larger Yorkie is better for a family with children. Even though your daughter is very gentle with little dogs most families want and need a dog that can take part in family activities and vacations. Sure a small one can do that but you do have to have special considerations for a little dog under 8lbs. There is more danger to them from other dogs as well as visiting children. If you later have other children will you have as much time to teach them to be gentle and watch them every second around the dog?

The breed standard for a Yorkier is 7lbs and under but it seems that many people are breeding Yorkies that are much larger than that. It depends a lot on the temperament of the dog as well. Some Yorkies can be very temperamental while others are quite outgoing and stable. There are so many things that change in a family's life and often the dog ends up needing a new home. I would think long and hard about getting a Yorkie. There are many good dogs for young families. The Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is a beautiful little dog that has a wonderful personality for a family.

concretegurl · 07-31-2012, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by GeorgiesMomma

How about yelling and screaming adults when football is on? LOL Georgie doesn't spend much time in the room with us during football season. Heck he got under the covers when I watching Olympic swimming just now LOL

LoL those too Elvis sits on my lap during boxing on tv and ironically HGTV shows...that darn doorbell sets him into fits!

Because we gace kids in the home I went with large breeds or out of standard yorkies...over 10and pounds hobestly I'm too clumsy for a tiny.

07-30-2012, 06:43 PM	#1
Daisy413 YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Somerville, ma, USA Posts: 1	Yorkies & Toddlers Hi, I'm looking to get some advice from the wonderfully knowledgeable people from this site. My husband and I would like to get a dog for our small little family. We have a 3 yr old daughter who is extremely gentle with dogs. I've heard and read that yorkies are no good with children because of their small size and sometimes their temperament. My mother has an 11 year old Pom who loves my daughter and she is very careful with Shadow and gentle. She knows to give him his space when needed and doesn't even touch his face or get up closer to his face because I've taught her to respect him. Poms are notorious for being horrible with kids but Shadow has been the exception and has been wonderful with my daughter since she was a baby. We have also had experience with yorkies. My brother and sister in law had one for nearly 10 years. She was a wonderful sweet mild mannered girl that we loved and cared for when they needed a babysitter. They soon had my nephew and Miki was amazing with Conner even as a small baby and into toddler age. Thoughts and opinions on getting my daughter a yorkie? Any feedback or experience would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! Daisy

07-30-2012, 10:26 PM	#2
nanahas3 ♥Love My Snuggle Bugs♥ Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 4,290	I have a 3 year old grandaughter who is fantastic with ours you just have to teach them from the beginning and our dogs love her too. Good luck and welcome to YT. __________________ *CharleneMama to Laddy and Kyra and Always in our hearts Lolita*

07-30-2012, 10:29 PM	#3
concretegurl Between♥Suspensions Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Vaissades Posts: 7,979	Both ny older children were so gentle great listeners very mellow, still waited until they were at least 5they to add pets. We had a new skin kid after having the dogs...hmmmm how do I say this...he's not like my other kids I can't wait for him to be 5her and dog trained and neither can the dogs... __________________ Shan & 8 kids now!

07-31-2012, 09:21 AM	#4
sganow YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Van Alstyne, TX Posts: 842	I have never had a problem. My kids were taught to treat the dogs with respect and to be careful with them. When we had babies, the dogs were introduced to the babies by laying the baby down on the floor and uncovering him, then having the dogs come and check him out from head to foot any which way they liked. They became close and protective of those babies! Our son has a yorkie that is very good with his 2 small sons too. Some of it may have to do with the dog's personality, but I haven't had any problems whatsoever. I do keep a close eye on them though. __________________ Maggie (RIP), Ginger (RIP), Lilly, Bella, Saleen, Bailey, Bridget

07-31-2012, 09:39 AM	#5
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	I think it can work in the right family but unfortuately it doesnt in alot of familys and dog bites kid and gets rehomed. Its not just about teaching the toddler to e gentle around the dog its also about finding a dog that has the temperment to put up with loud noises the child makes and quick actions __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

07-31-2012, 10:42 AM	#6
GeorgiesMomma I love TBCG! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: MD Posts: 7,227	Hi and welcome to YT! We have a 4 1/2 son and our 7 year old Yorkie Georgie. The most important thing IMO is showing both attention and love and helping them learn how to coexist. Our situation was a little different because Georgie came first so he had to realize Isaiah was going back where he came from LOL. It requires patience and love but it's doable. Isaiah is so gentle and has learned to approach Georgie in a calm way and our boys do great together __________________ Morgan Mommy toGeorgie boy & Isaiah RIP sweet Coco 10/12/99-8/1/12 Read About Georgie's Experience with Atlantoaxial Instability (AAI) Here!

07-31-2012, 11:15 AM	#8
yorkielover916 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: San Antonio, TX, USA Posts: 238 Blog Entries: 1	I think it's both you have to teach the kids to respect the dogs and the dogs to respet the kids we can't always tip toe around the dog they have to get used to their family and how they are that's why I think a lot of breeders won't sell a small yorkie to a family with small kids but they will however sell one that will probably be more of a standard size (6-7lbs) size makes a difference I guess I love that my JoJo was a standard size he was able to keep up with my kiddos and now jasper will be around the same size so it worked out for us. Good luck finding your yorkie baby __________________ Carla & Jasper R.I.P. JoJo

07-31-2012, 11:32 AM	#9
Yorkiemom1 Rosehill Yorkies Donating YT Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Houston Texas Posts: 9,462	I do not like to sell my babies to families that have a child under 6 years of age. It isnt so much the child being gentle with the dog, although that is VERY important, it has more to do with the fact that a toddler does not have the physical maturity to safely navagate around a small dog. They trip and fall and stumble, because they are just not developmentally mature yet. There are several threads on the forum now, that announce the Yorkie was stepped on. With a small dog, you know what that can result in. The child certainly did not mean to do it, but it happened....they simply do not possess the mental maturity or the motor skills necessary to execute avoidance tactics! I always "save" my larger Yorkies to go to homes with children 6 and up, but I know the personalities of the dogs I breed and produce, and my larger dogs have wonderful, tolerant personalities, so sweet and playful, they do well around every family I have ever placed one with. They are large enough they can romp and play with the child, and they are not nervous and fearful of the child and the boisterous play. If you get the right size Yorkie with the right personality, I think Yorkies are wonderful around children.

07-31-2012, 11:56 AM	#11
ritapatt YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Merritt Island,FL Posts: 1,400	My youngest son was 15 when we got Ziva- his feet were bigger than she was! I really like that our girls are 7 & 8 pounds- with 5 people in our home these two are a little sturdier with such friendly , easygoing personalities. I would try to look for a larger Yorkie in a house with children or lots of members.

07-31-2012, 12:57 PM	#14
gracielove YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: NY Posts: 6,582	I guess I don't have a solid opinion on this subject. I think that a larger Yorkie is better for a family with children. Even though your daughter is very gentle with little dogs most families want and need a dog that can take part in family activities and vacations. Sure a small one can do that but you do have to have special considerations for a little dog under 8lbs. There is more danger to them from other dogs as well as visiting children. If you later have other children will you have as much time to teach them to be gentle and watch them every second around the dog? The breed standard for a Yorkier is 7lbs and under but it seems that many people are breeding Yorkies that are much larger than that. It depends a lot on the temperament of the dog as well. Some Yorkies can be very temperamental while others are quite outgoing and stable. There are so many things that change in a family's life and often the dog ends up needing a new home. I would think long and hard about getting a Yorkie. There are many good dogs for young families. The Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is a beautiful little dog that has a wonderful personality for a family.