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Rhetts_mama 12-10-2011 01:30 PM

I drove 3 hours one way to get Scarlett from a rescue in another state. She was worth every mile. Rescues often have pure bred as well as mixed in their care. The vast majority are NOT dogs with special needs, but rather perfectly healthy dogs who had irresponsible owners who couldnt be bothered to train or spend time with the dogs. Some of the dogs are luckier and have come from homes that had true difficulties and surrendering the dog was the last thing they wanted to ever have to do. Of course it's going to be more difficult to adopt from one. That's kind of a no-brainer in my opinion. After all, they are in the business of making sure their dogs are going in to homes with proven track records and that the dog isnt going to get bounced from home to home again or dumped at the pound when the "cute" wears off. I would hope that the rescues would make things more difficult than the BYB's whose main concern is whether or not your check will clear.

SophieandZiggy 12-10-2011 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by TraciG (Post 3755061)
I have a mixed baby and was open and honest to the forum up front. I have never felt that my baby was "lesser" than anyone elses due to his heritage. I have received excellent advice and opinions from this board - I joined after getting my guy.

I don't think anyone can say Kendra's baby will not be very loved, she is obviously a great dog parent.

:thumbup:

KendraE 12-10-2011 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Teresa Ford (Post 3754912)
Kendra, from the get go, you knew some would express disagreement. Some people on YT think breeding dogs that were not chosen to improve the breed is wrong. Some do not see animals as a commodity to be raised and sold for profit, like cattle, sheep or pigs. Some people have very strong opinions about what we should do to stop puppy mills and private breeders (called back yard breeders often on here). Some people will defend your right to adopt a mixed breed but, hate the fact you bought a puppy from a private breeder.

I choose not to get up on the soap box this time. My personal ideas seem to have already been expressed by others.

I wonder if what happens here, is a local phenomenon ? Both the local shelters do not have a problem placing small dogs. By small, I mean under 15 pounds. Most small dogs are adopted within 3 days ! The majority of dogs picked up as strays are medium to large size mixed breeds. Also the majority of dogs surrendered by owners are medium to large sized. Larger Black dogs are the least adopted and hardest to place. Awhile ago I wrote a thread about why rescue, or shelter dogs were not right for everyone. My reason for the thread was, that every dogs needs a loving forever home. Just because a 50 pound boxer mix is cute, doesn't mean it is the right dog for you and your family. Some posters thought I was putting down rescue, or shelter dogs. ME ? I was shocked. I was just saying why some people should not adopt a dog with issues they weren't able to handle. Anyway, I have no doubt you will provide a loving forever home for this new puppy.
On another recent thread one of the younger YT members was expressing concern about 'over breeding' and the many health problems pure bred dogs have, especially the ones bred with extreme features. When a look was the 1st goal and not health. I have seen GS breeders try to reverse this trend. And new breeds evolve like the Shiloh Shepherds, and Beiwer Terriers. The dog species is not locked into a certain number of breeds. When humans choose a mate for their animal and keep careful records and have the goal to breed a physically, mentally healthy dog that is is beautiful, can we automatically judge them as unethical ? Should only wealthy, professional show people, be allowed to legally breed dogs ? UM.... ?
Now Kendra, I could bla, bla, on and on, but really just wanted to say congratulations on the pup and I would like to see Mack's new brother.

Thank you for your reply. I really am sorry I began this thread. I never once thought that Yt members would be rude or mean for someone owning a mixed breed. Several people have commented that they haven't been treated badly here because they own one. That's not at all what I was implying. I knew no one would treat me unkindly for OWNING a mix, but I did know that where I am getting him from would be frowned upon. I could have lied or not said anything at all I suppose, but I wanted to be honest. I respect the members here a great deal. I love reading threads and looking at pics. I have learned so much since I joined. I do get the point.... I'm not missing it. But in the end, this decision has been made. I'm glad we will be able to give this little man a forever home. I am sorry that I have made several of you think less of me for where I am acquiring him. But, this too shall pass.... I will post pics of jaxon later in my albums If you would like to see him. Thank you to all for your opinions. You have really made me think. Now, I'm going to go find some happy threads to read... I could really use a smile.

TeddyGrahams 12-10-2011 02:00 PM

i was writing this at the same time kendra was posting. We essentially said the same thing so i'll retract my statement. oops!

SophieandZiggy 12-10-2011 02:12 PM

can't wait to see pics!

gemy 12-10-2011 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by DJDB (Post 3754970)
I can't help myself....

If breeders are ONLY interested in bettering the breed then they would give their superior dogs away to ensure the betterment continues. But no, they charge $3000 for a dog that they can't even guarantee will be the "epitome" of yorkie-dom.

Sorry, but ALL breeders do it for CASH. Your arguments are invalid.

You have got to be kidding me? You want me to "give away" a superior dog, to who? To be mated with whom? You can ruin a line that you have spent years developing, in about 5-7 yrs of indiscriminate breeding.

You are sadly mistaken.

Ringo1 12-10-2011 05:08 PM

I think it's one thing to be open and honest and another thing to be 'in your face' with it.

I think the title of the post "I'm getting a mixed breed . . . AND I'M PROUD' was very 'in your face' when you must be quite familiar with the position of the vast majority of YT on mixed breeds regarding the need to adopt/rescue vs. purchase.

I think YT'ers have been very supportive of KendraE in the past. I'm sure that will not change.

I have seen some of the cutest little mixed breed puppies and I have seen some experimentation go wrong.

I can't advocate the purchase of a mixed breed but I can celebrate one that has arrived despite my initial feelings on the subject.

ladyjane 12-10-2011 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Ringo1 (Post 3755414)
I think it's one thing to be open and honest and another thing to be 'in your face' with it.

I think the title of the post "I'm getting a mixed breed . . . AND I'M PROUD' was very 'in your face' when you must be quite familiar with the position of the vast majority of YT on mixed breeds regarding the need to adopt/rescue vs. purchase.

I think YT'ers have been very supportive of KendraE in the past. I'm sure that will not change.

I have seen some of the cutest little mixed breed puppies and I have seen some experimentation go wrong.

I can't advocate the purchase of a mixed breed but I can celebrate one that has arrived despite my initial feelings on the subject.

I agree. Maybe the intent was not there, but it sure did seem that way. I was quite frankly shocked at the thread.

No one would have said much of anything if only a thread had been started celebrating the new pup. They would have all been supportive and shared her happiness. I am sure they will anyway. This was all SO unnecessary imho. Just get your new pup and tell everyone...all of the jargon about your wonderful breeder and how you don't care what anyone thinks is highly offensive. Hard for me to comprehend how she did not know people would react that way.

Kendra, my suggestion is to close this thread and simply share your good news in another thread. This thread has seen it's day if you ask me...of course you did not ask me. :) But, I am just like any other person and do have my opinion. :D

capt_noonie 12-10-2011 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyjane (Post 3755431)
I agree. Maybe the intent was not there, but it sure did seem that way. I was quite frankly shocked at the thread.

No one would have said much of anything if only a thread had been started celebrating the new pup. They would have all been supportive and shared her happiness. I am sure they will anyway. This was all SO unnecessary imho. Just get your new pup and tell everyone...all of the jargon about your wonderful breeder and how you don't care what anyone thinks is highly offensive. Hard for me to comprehend how she did not know people would react that way.

Kendra, my suggestion is to close this thread and simply share your good news in another thread. This thread has seen it's day if you ask me...of course you did not ask me. :) But, I am just like any other person and do have my opinion. :D

This has happened many times in the past. There was one thread in particular I remember that someone introduced their yorkie mix, and everyone was very welcoming. One member posted, something along the lines of "Cute mutt, did you get it from the pound?" and a lot of members called out that person saying she was rude. No one said anything about buying/adopting to that OP. This thread was just an in your face thread.

KendraE 12-10-2011 06:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ladyjane (Post 3755431)
I agree. Maybe the intent was not there, but it sure did seem that way. I was quite frankly shocked at the thread.

No one would have said much of anything if only a thread had been started celebrating the new pup. They would have all been supportive and shared her happiness. I am sure they will anyway. This was all SO unnecessary imho. Just get your new pup and tell everyone...all of the jargon about your wonderful breeder and how you don't care what anyone thinks is highly offensive. Hard for me to comprehend how she did not know people would react that way.

Kendra, my suggestion is to close this thread and simply share your good news in another thread. This thread has seen it's day if you ask me...of course you did not ask me. :) But, I am just like any other person and do have my opinion. :D

I would love for this thread to end!! Please admin close it!!

Again, this was NOT MEANT to be an in your face thread!!! Of course I knew what reactions I may get!!! I honesty wanted to get the negative things over and done with so when I do introduce him, I wouldn't have to! please don't think I was trying to be absolutely rude and disrespectful. Im NOT!! You all have given me support and been a friend when I really needed one. I honestly feel my precious Mack is still with us due to ALL of your prayers!! I love you all....

ladyjane 12-10-2011 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by KendraE (Post 3755485)
I would love for this thread to end!! Please admin close it!!

Again, this was NOT MEANT to be an in your face thread!!! Of course I knew what reactions I may get!!! I honesty wanted to get the negative things over and done with so when I do introduce him, I wouldn't have to! please don't think I was trying to be absolutely rude and disrespectful. Im NOT!! You all have given me support and been a friend when I really needed one. I honestly feel my precious Mack is still with us due to ALL of your prayers!! I love you all....

Just hit the exclamation point to the bottom left and ask for it to be closed. :)

CouversMom 12-10-2011 06:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KendraE (Post 3755485)
I would love for this thread to end!! Please admin close it!!

Again, this was NOT MEANT to be an in your face thread!!! Of course I knew what reactions I may get!!! I honesty wanted to get the negative things over and done with so when I do introduce him, I wouldn't have to! please don't think I was trying to be absolutely rude and disrespectful. Im NOT!! You all have given me support and been a friend when I really needed one. I honestly feel my precious Mack is still with us due to ALL of your prayers!! I love you all....

Kendra, people on here have been nothing but supportive of you... Especially when it came to Mack (the results of uneducated breeding). You also have your little girl, and no one has had anything negative to say about her. I actually remember commenting on a thread you posted with all three of your dogs about how adorable they all were.

I think you definitely meant this thread to be in your face to the people who do not believe in breeding mixes. It makes me really sad to see how you are treating the people on this forum when they have done nothing but be supportive :thumbdown

KendraE 12-10-2011 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by CouversMom (Post 3755499)
Kendra, people on here have been nothing but supportive of you... Especially when it came to Mack (the results of uneducated breeding). You also have your little girl, and no one has had anything negative to say about her. I actually remember commenting on a thread you posted with all three of your dogs about how adorable they all were.

I think you definitely meant this thread to be in your face to the people who do not believe in breeding mixes. It makes me really sad to see how you are treating the people on this forum when they have done nothing but be supportive :thumbdown

And obviously is doesn't matter what I say.... I'm sorry you feel this way.

I have asked that this thread be closed.

JMuedog 12-10-2011 07:29 PM

Closed at OP's request


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