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Here is my two cents worth.. I totally agree with your husband... Eva is YOUR dog not hers and once the dog left her care it is NO LONGER her decission to make what happens to the puppies... If the lady that I bought Nicky from called me tomorrow and said that I had to breed Nicky I would just hang up on her, but if she kept at it, I would say... ( you can use this if you wanna ) I am sorry ( fill in name here ) the pup that you ( sold/ gave to me) is now in my care he/she is loved and that is all that matters in a dogs life, I am sorry that you don't agree but I wanted the dog for the enjoyment, not to see how much money I could make off her, and as far as her breed dieing out that will never happen, there are millions of yorkies out there that do not have homes and need love, till they are all adopted out and have a loving home, then we can worry about the breed dying out. If she wants the dog back, just tell her that you are very sorry but you can't do that, that you are in love with the dog and ask her to leave... Your friend doesn't really sound like a friend she sounds more like an enemy someone demanding that you do something with your dog needs to have something done to them, UGH... but when it comes to my fur babies I have become VERY outspoken I can't stand it when someone talks down to me about my children my children with fur that is lol I hope that your "friend" minds her own business!! |
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I have not noticed how greedy she is until she told me I had to breed Eva. Bella (her female, Eva's mom) is less than 3.5 lb when she was pregnant. I asked her then if it was intentional and she told me it wasn't. Now I don't think she was telling me the truth. She told me that she is going to use Bella again to make some money to recover what she lost from this first litter. She did NOT lose anything because I was the one who took the pups to the vet the first day after they were born. I was the one who paid for their deworming and their shots.one who paid to have their tails docked and dew claws removed. I was the I was the one who paid for dog food. I was the one who cleaned Bella and her poop 5+ times a day. I was never reimbursed like I was promised. I just don't understand her. I thought I did but now I'm not so sure. I really do think that she used me. My husband told me I didn't need a friend like her. Part of me wants to give up this friendship but I was friends with her since elementary and her daughter is my goddaughter. Is there any way that I can report her to SPCA anonymously? I really hate confrontations and I don't want her showing up at my house accusing me. I just have the dogs and the puppies best interest at heart and I hate to see them living in such conditions and being caged more than 23 hours a day. |
I've never heard of the SPCA saying who this source is. To me that would be very dumb, but who knows. It could be the first question you ask if you call them... I agree with yuor husband. And I've had friends for a long time as well, and it wasn't until I was an adult that I saw their true colors. Hugs to you, hope things go better. |
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And speaking of legalities...do you have a purchase agreement or contract for ownership of Eva? If not and I were you.... I would make sure to have plenty of vet visits/receipts in my name, that Eva was licensed to you through your local county dog licensing agency and was microchipped and registered to you. |
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To the OP you can be godmother to her daughter and still keep you and yours at a distance. Gifts to her child is always a good thing and you promised to be in this childs life. This does not make you responsible for her bills where her dog is conserned. She is responsible,she will pay either financially or her child will see how heartless she is. You can choose to cut off most of your time with her or you can continue to tell her that she is wrong and she may cut you out of her life. There is no good answer to this type of situation. I am sorry that you are finding that a life long friend has little consern for life. I will keep you in my prays and hope that your friends heart will be touched. |
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Just tell her NO and tell her that you don't want to have this conversation again because it's NOT going to happen. When you call to report her , you do Need to tell whoever you talk to that you absolutely do not want this person to know who you are. Not all animal control officers use the brains God gave them & will spill the beans such as the one in the small town that I live in. Good luck & Stand your ground, for your babies sake . |
1. Take you pup to the nearest vet if you don't already have one. Schedule a full exam and do fecal! if you haven't already. GET YOUR PUP MICROCHIPPED!!! 2. Take your camera take pics of your pup with your vet. Even if this is a second vet visist it's worth the cost because you need to get your pup microchipped to you immediately! 3. Schedule the time for the pre spay blood work visit etc now even if it's not until your dog is 6 months old the vet will still schedule that far out... |
Also FYI you NEVER breed a small female... unless you are absolutely trying to kill her... everyone knows that when unscrupulous 'people' are trying to create small undersized pups they use a standard size female and an undersized male... then you get undersized sickly pups.. yay just what the world needs more of sick pups by BYBs. |
Say: " We are so sure that we are not breeding her that she will be getting spayed when she is old enough for that." If she wants to discuss it, just keep making clear that you are not going to breed her, not maybe, not I don't know. We aren't going to breed her. Yes, it's shame to let the cute genes go by, but we are not going to breed her. This is your dog now, if she is such a bad friend that she would try to take the dog back, drop the friendship, keep the dog and let her pursue the arguement on her own. I think it's important to be pleasant but firm and assertive. |
I will spay her first then tell your friend No. Not like she can do anything after. It is your dog. You don't have to do it if you don't want to. |
For the poster that suggested spaying her dog-I understand your good intentions towards this poor dog but I don't think it's something that I can do and hide it from her. The moment she looks into my eyes I will just blurt out the truth. One of my neighbors are going to report her to SPCA for me. I just can't see myself doing it whether it is anonymous or not. I can't tell a lie. |
Report her for what exactly? Being immoral? A breeder? As long as her dogs are licensed, UPD and in clean well fed conditions she isn't doing anything wrong besides being immoral & repugnant. ...Unless your city requires license to breed or she has too many dogs, she'll get fined... |
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I think you missed a good chunk of this thread...the dogs are in deplorable condition walking in their own feces and urine caged all day while this GREEDER spends her day at work & school! These Yorkies are her source of a part-time job/income...she needs to have been reported to the SPCA yesterday! As for the OP, it doesn't matter who reports this GREEDER, it is anonymous as for the SPCA divulging this information to the one reported. In the matter of Eva, I think megansmomma said it perfectly! ;) |
Unless you agreed to the stipulation that you would breed her prior to taking the pup, you have no oral contract so you are free to treat your dog how you choose. No court is going to force you to breed your dog that you did not agree to breed. And sometimes life is such that as much as we would like to, we cannot avoid a confrontation - and they are far easier in the long run than fretting, worrying and avoiding them can be. A confrontation does not have to be awful - just effective. If she becomes loud or abusive, you can walk away. But settle this once and for all. Explain to her this little female dog is your baby, you have no desire to ever breed her or any dog - that breeding is best left to the true experts, and would not have taken her if you had understood before the transaction that you were expected to do that. Explain to her that conditions placed upon a gift, especially after the fact, are not appreciated or fair in any way and that you won't be a party to them now or ever. Thank her again for the lovely gift and be done with it. If she wants to take you to small claims court, go and be done with this. It will be far easier on you and your dog than breeding her. |
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