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Breeders aren't just looking at your current situation, but down the line, too. There are big changes in store for you after graduation. Internships take far more hours than school. Jobs require moves. And with moves come the possibility that you might have to give the dog up due to housing issues. A good breeder doesn't want one of their pups to be rehomed, or worse, end up in a shelter. I don't want to discourage you, just give you more to think about. |
Have you checked this out? www.yorkietalk.com/forums/yorkies-sale-wanted/210733-adorable-male-biewer-peanut.html#post3262344 he is so cute and hes over 2 so he should fit for you having all shots, neutered, etc. A yorkie is alot of work and one of the hardest breed to potty train.We have 2 and i have put thousands of $ into them from vet care, everyday needs,and beds/clothing. A yorkie will be the love of your life and becomes a kid from the first day you receive them. I am gone about 6 to 7 hours a day and mine have been fine with it. They normally go everywhere i go except work . I hope this helps you Quote:
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@ Brister ill definately look into those. Thanks! & wow that's GREAT....ill have to look around for that too. @ yorkielady....yea that's true. I guess when breeders hear me....they just hear a teenager that wants a yorkie & not serious....so if my mom is there they'll take me seriously. @ shodanusmc idk maybe you're right. But its REALLY hard to wait another 4 or more years when I waited a good 12 years already......wow this is a lot to think about. |
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I think that people of many situations can make it work. I too faced a battle when getting Khloe, and was interviewed three times with my 5 year old and 6 year old because typically the breeder won't home with small kids. We just had to show her that her baby would be taken care of, and prove to her that it would be a good decision for both her and my family. I would approach a breeder with everything that they would question upfront, and explain to them that you have taken all of these factors into consideration, and that you are capable to give it all the love and attention, and are prepared with the financial obligation of it also. I think bringing your Mom there too is an excellent idea; it will show the breeder that you have other family members that support your decision to expand your family also. With that said, I would think that a dog around a year old would be the ideal choice. My first dog that I owned alone and wasn't 'the family's dog' was my Westie, and he was around 7 months old. It was nice to have a dog that came pre-trained to a certain extent so that we didn't have any unreasonable expectations of him. But with time, devotion, and dedication, any age will work. |
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I have a 20 and an 18 year old, both in college now. There is no way either one of them could take on a dog. They come home to get their "dog" fix. All I can say, however, is you know your situation better than anyone else. Can you predict your schedule next semester? How about the one after that? When you transfer to the vet school, can you guarantee you will be able to find a place that allows dogs? If you are in a situation where you have a roommate in the future, you have to understand that at times, your dog will be at their mercy. That is, what if the dog gets out? Will they take responsibility to go get it? Will they not abuse your dog when you are not there? What about roommate friends coming and going? I know this these questions sound harsh, but you have to consider every single scenario. It is impossible for anyone to predict their future. I get that. It really becomes a question of how much are you willing to sacrifice once you have committed to the dog. If you have considered every possible conflict that "may" come along, and you have a plan to deal with that, then you can most likely handle having a dog. Best wishes in your search, and your schooling. (My scenarios are just examples of why my girls cannot even begin to think about having a dog right now even though they desperately long for thier babies who are at home with ME! :D). |
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Whatever your decision, if you do get a dog, make sure it is healthy and then get dog insurance. I use petplan which runs me around 23-24 dollars a month per dog. That means I pay a 200 deductible for anything catastrophic and then they pay the rest up to 20,000. That takes those unforeseen vet expenses due to liver problems, broken legs, etc.. off your shoulders and out of the equation. Small price to pay for peace of mind. I would check shelters and rescues, get a young adult during a long break, like your winter break, so you would have time to bond and do some training. I would pad train so that having to take it out would not be an issue. Mine are indoor trained so when I'm gone for 12hr shifts I don't have to worry about them messing where they shouldn't because they don't get outside. In your situation I would never suggest getting two, but that is why mine are okay when left, because they have each other. I'm not sure that leaving one alone would work. They are littermates and have each other to play with and keep each other company. I really can't imagine leaving one alone..that is beyond my experience. Good luck whatever you decide. Huge decision.....I understand your impatience, but I know you also want to do right by whatever dog you are considering.... |
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& I'm living with my mom while I'm goin to be in college there's no rush to leave my mommys nest anytime soon. :) (She told me I don't have to leave until I get on my own 2 feet.....but trust me I'm not goin to be a 29 year old living w/ her still. Lol.) I want to stay around the city when I transfer....so I can stay at my moms house (NYC) or dads house (New jersey). in NYC ill like to say 75-80% of houses pets are allowed...there's only a weight & size limit in some. & I don't think illl be good with roomates, I have too many peeves I like things to be in order a certain way. So that's something that I don't have to think about. AND lucky you! You get to stay w/ the yorkie babies while your girls bust their brains over Midterms & final exams!! Lol. |
I know exactly how you feel. I wanted a maltese so bad when i was in college. I was a full time student and worked full time as a hairstylist. School was from 8-12 then work from 1-9 and when i got home i did homework till midnight. I insisted on a puppy and mom said ok as long as i cared for it myself and she helped me take him out when i went to work. Well little to say my life got even more filled up once the boyfriend came into the picture. My boyfriend, who is now my husband, surprised me one day and DIED HIS PRETTY WHITE FUR PINK WITH JELLO. It was quite a cute shade on him.....But poor Pookie was locked up in my room day and night and was miserable. I started to take him to work with me as i cut hair and my boss soon did not approve of it. So Pookie was soon hating me and he would pee on my bed when i was not home!!! ugg. so i would have to strip the bed, put a plastic sheet on it and he would pee on the plastic...it was a nightmare!!! I loved him so much that after a year, it broke my heart to, but i gave him to one of my clients who had 4 maltese females. WELL... he was one happy puppy!!!! She said that she would breed him to one of her girls and give me a pup when the timing was better for me. Well 20 years later I am a stay at home mom of 2 kiddos and 3 yorkies. My two girls are pregnant right now. Felicity is due in a week and Daisey is due in three weeks. We are very excited for our expecting furbabies to come. Well Felicity had one litter before, 2 boys. One went to live with my then 16 year old babysitter...who lives on my street. I knew her well and she is a perfect fit for him. I know her mom well too.. and she cares for him when she is at school. If she goes away to college next year i would care for him while he is gone too!!! The other boy went to a stay at home mom and she treats him like a baby. I am in contact with both of the buyers and it makes me feel secure about that. You are a very honest and caring young woman. you just need to find what is best for you. I just wanted to tell you my college story and how it did not work out for me. But it does work out for my young babysitter who is a very mature, responsible young woman. Well, you can PM me and we can talk more. To get to know eachother, But my babies will not be ready till December. My babysitter, Alex, really enjoyed visiting her Toby while he was in my care, seeing him grow everyweek. I am located in Farmingdale NJ and would only place him in a home that is in travel distance of me. What part of NY are you in? |
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Oh wow really?? I've heard about pet insurance but never looked into it. Where can I get more info on petplan?? I agree with you I need to narrow my search more on older yorkies. That's what I was looking for an older trained neutered yorkie at 1st but there weren't many so I just settled for looking for a puppy & starting from basics. Plus who doesn't love that "puppy stage" lol. Its so cute......but maybe I'm not ready for that stage... |
I just wanted to give you my story, maybe it will help give you hope. =) I am nineteen and my boyfriend is twenty. We have been together for over three years and lived together for quite some time now. We have a kitten who is six months old now but I have always wanted a yorkie and he decided to get me one for my birthday/anniversary. We are both in college at the university and live eight hours from where we grew up so we are taking care of ourselves. Denali came into our lives at fifteen weeks old but we got him in the middle of the summer so we have had a lot of time to spend bonding with him. He is still really young and still needs a lot of training but i only go to school two days a week for about 5 hours each day and then have two online classes(which can be worked on while he is playing with the kitten or sleeping). My boyfriend and i are both involved in sorority/fraternity so that takes up some time too. He is with me practically all the time though, we take him to a doggy beach/park and pet stores all the time, he even comes to a lot of the events that our sorority/fraternity hold so he is never by himself too much. Both our kitten and puppy are utd on their shots and are scheduled to be spayed and neutered come the right age. Denali is on heartworm prevention monthly. We switched both to blue buffalo cat and puppy food(which is not cheap food) because after some research i decided i wanted them on something better than they were eating. They both have a ton of toys, treats, and everything else they could want or need(such as Denali has a winter jacket because the winters here are pretty cold and we wanted to be prepared for when it gets to that point and he also has a life jacket because he loves to swim but is so little that he gets tired quick). We also have pet insurance in case an emergency ever happens and Denali is in puppy classes to help with training. We pay for everything ourselves- school, books, groceries, rent and bills, everything our animals need. We give them all of the love and attention they deserve(they are actually kind of spoiled:)). Our pets are like our children and they come first. I would buy them food before i would buy it for myself if need be. I know that there will be a lot of changes that occur throughout my lifetime such as getting married and having children, but my babies will be right there with me the whole way, no matter what happens. I feel like getting a pet is a very huge commitment and shouldn't be taken lightly. It is very time consuming and you can't be selfish when it comes to caring for an animal. I have friends who have pets and i tell myself i wish they wouldn't have gotten one because they are simply so wrapped up in "college life" whereas i know my personality and i knew i was ready for a pet(actually two now) =). Good luck figuring out if you are ready for a new baby. Only you can know whether or not you are mature enough to take responsibility of an animal because it will be there for the next fifteen years of your life. I knew i was ready and if you know that you are ready then your baby will come to you eventually. :D |
Britster, The list that you put together for her was awesome. I have read the comments and can tell you that patience is so hard to have. I had to have some in getting my 2 but it was the best thing to do. There were several very sweet looking male and females in Britsters list. I wish you the absolute best in your quest. Please let us know what you end up deciding and please post a picture or two if you do get a little furr angel of your own. |
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