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OHmy you just do not get it, do you? Do you really believe that peoples' dogs will die without you and your advice? Seriously. No one should be sitting her 24/7 for fear that someone might need help. YIKES This is not a place to save dogs...it is a place to share information so that people can consult with their vets. And...why do people leave because someone disagrees??? That makes no sense to me. There is plenty of room here for everyone and their opinions. Instead of constantly taking them so personal, my suggestion to everyone is to simply offer your opinion and move along. Don't keep tabes on how many you helped or someone else's mistakes. Just do what is in your heart and be done with it. |
What it all comes down to is some people need to quit trying to control what others say. If you dont agree say you dont agree and move on its that simple. All this bickering back and forth is very tiring and its causing good members to leave this forum because they are sick of it as well and I know that for a fact |
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LJ we are not stupid we see how you gang up on people here it is obvious so to say it is not really insults our intelligence Go back to original thread where i was helping randi and told her to go to neurologist and you were no where on that thread so I tried in a nice way to help randi |
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So while I approached you and came to you for help before visiting my vet, the diagnosis was close, but not quite right (so we think at this point). Your recommendation was to change his food, and if a new person came here with the identical symptom as my Cooper, you would possibly recommend the same thing, not really knowing if that's the true solution or problem. And that new person may take that recommendation, not visit the vet and see no change in the dog's condition. With that being said, I will probably approach you again for your knowledge because I feel it is very valuable and then take that information to my vet. I was able to say "hmm, do you think it could be a food issue?" and after looking at my chart and my dog she sure didn't think so. So I thank you for your help & advice but hope that you heed what i'm saying. And I think you are a very valuable asset to YT, as anyone who offers ADVICE is. |
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I much prefer going natural than to drugs but unfortunately have had to do the drug route with my allergy dog as well but I did start out ruling out food as all dermatologists suggest. Just curious how did your vet rule out food allergy? Does your vet specialize in skin and allergies like a dermatologist does? |
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If you do not believe me Ann has a dog with allergies and I am sure her derm ruled out food first as well. You can pm her next time as she will help you. Do you know how many years of school a vet vs a specialist go to school? There is a difference and they pass board exams in that specialty as well to become a specialist but I see the light why this was all started now so thanks |
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NOT ALL VETS ARE WRONG. You are forcing me to accept your opinion. I just don't think that is ok. You are calling my vet incompetent. You don't know her. I'm not sure why you feel the need to do that. Ok, I hear what you are saying but please don't force that on me. I'm not 100% sure Cooper has a food allergy or a season allergy. But please don't make me feel stupid for listening to the doctor who takes care of my dog. And heaven forbid my vet happens to be wrong, which could be possible, I sure as heck won't share it here. |
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My suggestion is if you want to get to the bottom of the problem quickly go to a dermatologist bc if your dog is 2 and they have not figured it out then something is wrong but then again there really is no cure for allergies if environmental. I guess it is a prime example of an owner not giving all the facts here so by all means trust the vet and do not ask others for help if you are going to start a thread to bash them for trying to help. I really do not care if you accept my opinion or not this is not my dog and the ultimate decision is yours. |
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Especially since our pets cannot speak - we are their voice. As owners, I feel we have a responsibility to seek out knowledge and educate ourselves. No one knows everything - but with forums such as this - we have the ability to read and learn. Once you are aware of the potential issues out there, I feel you have an obligation to these precious little ones to question, question, question - especially when pets are not getting better. Always trust your gut. If it is telling you something is wrong, LISTEN! And many vets do not run blood work routinely either. This is something we should ALL be doing at annual exams, but most never do because of the cost. There are so many issues that can be caught early if only this were done. I have never said all vets are bad - but you should also do your research on every single medication given. And there are many times the dosage is given inaccurately, either by the vet or if filled at a pharmacy - so if something doesn't seem right - question it. Not to continue stirring up debate, but I have seen many of you posting on this thread specifically tell an OP to do only exactly what their vet has told them. I don't think anyone who is trying to help an OP is meaning to scare with suggested tests/results. If that is how it comes across, perhaps it is the passion of the person posting who has been through this and trying to save the OP heartache? I can tell you all that when my Sissy was diagnosed with PLE, it was a year after her first pancreatitis-like attack. It was through a repeat Chem 27 panel that lipase levels and immune system markers were going through the roof depsite a very regimented low fat diet. And only because of my knowledge of the Spec cPL test and my request that it was run by my vet as my gut was telling me something was wrong. Had we not done that and gotten the correct diagnosis, Sissy would very likely "have been dead in 6 months" - those were the words of my vet - not my own interpretation. And all this is with a vet I feel very confident in. So, again the bottom line is do your homework, know your pet, listen to your gut and question. It is the same thing you would do for your child or another family member - why not your beloved furkid? |
I wanted to post but had to go back and read the OP to see what the thread is about LOL. I am now on my third vet in 7 years and will say that I still wish I could find a better one. I think the quality of veterinary care care varies widely from vet to vet. IMO, for every truly great vet there are 10 jackasses out there. Most vets are what you might think of as a General Practitioner and are not qualified for the truly tough cases. They should, however, be able to recognize when a dog needs more care than they can offer and refer the owner to the appropriate doctor. My experiences with vets leave me feeling that many are not qualified for much more than doing vaccinations, fecals and dispensing preventatives. Sadly, when we need a truly great vet is when we find out our own are lacking. As for the advice offered here at YT, I think it is valuable, especially for those people that have a not so great vet. Internet advice must be tempered, however, as none of us are seeing the dog in person and also we are depending on the poster's ability to accurately describe what's going on. I only post in the sick and injured sporadically and then only with some things I've had personal experience with but with all advice I'm very careful in what I say. Maybe we could use a sticky in the S&I forum with a listing of recommended vets by state and why they are recommended. I know there is a place for vet reviews elsewhere, but maybe something could be posted. This may be helpful for those who have a vet that isn't all he/she should be. |
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and guess who was my support during it all - A YAHOO GROUP as everyone else told me to put him to sleep |
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It's wonderful when someone wants to offer information and suggestions to help others. But it is wrong to presume that you know more than a vet about a pup's condition. All we know here on YT is what we're told in an online forum - we never see these dogs, never know their full history or even know if what the op's say is accurate. To tell a member that her vet is wrong, that you know more because of what you've read on other forums or from one of the many specialists you call is insulting and rude. Members should offer advice, be supportive and leave it at that. They shouldn't beat members over the head with repeated posts trying to force opinions on them. Doing so is a cry for attention and a need for praise - not a true, compassionate desire to help. Most of the members who post in the S&I forum truly love their pets and want the very best for them, yet they're made to feel incompetent, less than intelligent or incapable of taking care of their own animals if they don't follow a particular member's instructions to a tee and ignore the contradictory advice others try to offer. They're criticized for trusting their chosen medical professional and led to distrust anything their vets tell them. This is dangerous behavior and I truly fear it will cause serious harm to someone's pup one day. The internet is not the place for the diagnosing and vet second-guessing that goes on here regularly. Someone is going to listen to a member who knows nothing about their pet over listening to their own vet and it will be a catastraphe. In a perfect world members would simply and kindly offer concise, relevant, pertinent information. They would not insult others members vets or needlessly instill fear as I often see done here. Nor would they tell members seeking help "if you don't listen to me, whatever happens to your pup will be on your head." That is cruel and harrassing behavior that is way out of line, yet it gets said here. Again, thanks for letting me share my opinion. |
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I mostly deal with specialists now as burned out |
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ETA oh and i went to him only because he had a digital xray machine so he was better equipped alright |
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Some of us have had the great fortune of finding a great vet and other's have had difficulty in doing so. In my opinion advice should be offerred on how to find a good vet. Given advice on how to recognize a good vet. Bottom line is that we the owners of our dogs are the first line of defense for anything medical that our dogs may require. So, many of us go in blindly, not knowing that most vets are General Practitioners.....not knowing a good GP vet is not so entrenched with their ego and will inform you when a Specialist is needed and send you there. A good vet understands we know our dogs better than they do and will listen to what we have to say. And I mean listen, not just to the symptons we are giving them, but our dog's behavior. |
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Please list all the dogs that have died from us helping them as I surely can name one on here you all helped and who is doing the harrassing behavior? Who is attacking people trying to help people? who provides back up links to vet websites not just heresay |
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It's much better to do your homework first in finding a good vet and knowing who the specialists are in your area rather than scrambling around once you have the real need. |
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I like competent vets |
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[QUOTE=dwerten;3175774]lol yep you have us all figured out we come here to stroke our egos as we do not get that in our careers we are successful at lollllllll Please Please list all the dogs that have died from us helping them as I surely can name one on here you all helped Is that all you read of my post? Seriously, nothing else registered with you? |
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My problem is: What do you do when you know something more needs to be done, but it's like the OP doesn't even hear you, and you know the dog is in danger of dying? Do you just post what you know nicely and walk away, even when you see your advice has had no effect? Some people need a wake-up call... the goal is that everybody wants to see these dogs survive and thrive. Do you let it drop because the owner may just not 'get it', knowing their dog has been handed a death sentence? Saying I told them but they didn't listen doesn't feel good at all, neither does losing your dog and then learning something could have been done to save them, after the fact. Or do you push and push and push until they can understand and make the choices that will save their dog's life? |
Many of us on here have had sicker dogs longer than others and know just as much and sometimes more than others about certain illnesses. I've had a sick dog for 10 years. Specialists have saved not only saved her life, but they have improved the quality of her life to the point that you would never know she is as sickly as she is. It is a DAILY challenge to keep her well. The bottom line is that all of us are LAY PEOPLE. I've intervened with members who were given poor and incorrect MVD advice. I have led them down the road I believe to be correct, but whether they walked down that road is for them to decide. I also think it is important to keep in mind that in different parts of the country, different thigns may be warranted. For example, Lyme Disease is ROUTINELY treated all day long in this part of the country. I can count five people and two dogs I know at this very moment who have lyme disease. Vets here prescribe Doxycycline all day long for dogs. And just so we are all clear: No one here is indispensible. |
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