Originally Posted by janetcerdas (Post 3193944)

As someone who is somewhat of a newbie, I find it ridiculous that one cannot ask a question without having their motives questioned. This is why I BARELY ever ask a question or comment, and someof you wonder why there's less and less people on yorkietalk.

First of all : Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but when you type something in the "search" box, recent as well as OLD threads come up right? Have any of you thought that maybe YORKYDIVA was simply researching something and came across this thread, and was genuinely interested in what the result of the necropsy was? Because I know I was ! Not to be nosy or mean, but I was simply interested in what had caused the death of this little boy and to see if it was the result of bad breeding, which I've gathered from some of the posts, if I'm not mistaken, that it was. Sure, YORKYDIVA didn't exactly word it in the best way, but :



She said it exactly as the OP worded it.

Secondly: Yes of course KYBLUE has every right to keep the results of to herself or to share with whomever she wants, but she was the one who mentioned that she was going to share it on this thread to begin with to "inform" people, which IMO I think is a very good idea



Third: KYBLUE I'm very sorry for your loss, and I'm sorry that you had to relive the pain yet again, but I find that some if not all of your accusations against YORKYDIVA are without merit. Jeeze, I wonder what kind of things some of you might have said to me had I been the one who would have asked and showed some interest!

Fourth: I understand that some of the "seniors" (I'm not sure what the term is for those that have been on yorkie talk for a long time, sorry if this offends you, I really am just clueless) like to voice their opinions on these kinds of threads, which is a good thing because I know that most of the time they're the more knowledgable ones ! BUT some of you REALLY and I mean REALLY need to go visit WILIE'S MOM's Compassion thread.

Here's the link to it : http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/gen...sion-here.html

If you've already visited it then go visit it AGAIN. I was going to stay away from this thread, read it, inform myself, and just keep moving along, but some of the comments made by a few "Seniors" really irritate me. Unless you are posting to educate someone, or to share something you feel might benefit someone, the reason why someone asks a question IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS and it is not in your place to decide whether someone's questions are "good enough" and "who" is allowed to ask questions. You're just causing more unnecessary DRAMA. The bashing that has been going on from you is just making you look like a pot stirrer. Keep in mind that these are only a select few that I'm reffering to, because i've had the pleasure of talking to some of the nicest,very knowledgeable, and patient people on this site!

I guess for a very few of you this is more than a "newbie" is allowed to voice, for the rest of you, THANK YOU for being such welcoming people and accepting people:)

Originally Posted by Beamers Mom (Post 3193955)

KYBlue
I am a recent member of this forum - still a "newbie"

But I want to say I am so sorry for your loss, and I am so sorry old wounds have obviously been opened for you.

All I can see is that you said you would share how Blu behaved and signs and symptoms so others can learn something from your tragic loss. I don't see anywhere that you said you would share the necropsy results.

I believe in Rainbow Bridge and I am sure that Blu is frolicking around there, free from pain and happy. - you may have "lost" him, but I am sure he will always be there in your heart.

Beamer sends you doggie kisses :animal36:animal36:animal36:aimeeyork:aimeeyork:ai meeyork

Originally Posted by YorkyDiva (Post 3193968)

And I hope that Bama is not trying to insinuate that I am a pot stirrer. I have been on here a very long time and 500 plus posts does not a pot stirrer make.

Originally Posted by BamaFan121s (Post 3193992)

I was not referring to you specifically. (Although even with only 500 posts you too have participated in rather heated discussions.) Honestly thought, I was just making a general observation. That sometimes there is more to a situation than meets the eye--issues may be deep rooted and may have started long before a newbie joined and got confused by what was being said.

In any event, don't read too much into my statement. I wasn't trying to insinuate anything about you or anyone else in particular. Just making a general observation.