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i bought a yorkie female yesterday from a breeder and i paid 1500 well peanut hates her..so i am selling her for 900 i have her akc papers and the breeder check "limited" She is too small to breed she is 6months and 3 lbs.
I dont really know what i am suppose to do when i sell her should i not give the people her papers? if they buy her and breed her then will i get in trouble? i am confused on what to do
I told the breeder to take her back and she wont..

Are you sure you dont want to wait and see how they do after some time? Peanut is going to have to adjust, it has only been one day. It does take some time but in that time they will come to get along. Roxie was not happy when we brought Ryder home but now she cant live without him, but she was our only pooch for almost 3 years, so it took a while.

If you are set on getting rid of her, I would sell her for the $900 and make a contract with who ever you sell her to to spay her immediately, or you should do it so as not to be in violation of your own agreement with the breeder.

I am so sorry that this has not been a good experience for you. I know I keep saying this, but I thought Ryder was the worst decision because Roxie wasnt acting like herself and I felt like she was miserable, but after time she was fine- her separation anxiety went way down, she is back to her normal self, and she is much more social with other dogs than she ever was (I think she thought she was a human), but I would give it time, maybe limit yourself to a month and see what the times brings to you guys, one day is not going to be enough to make a good decision, Peanut has to adjust to her. Best of luck.

Please give more time 1 day is not enough time....... It is a jealous sibling issue your other furbaby will adjust!!!!!! Hugs and keep trying!!!!!:aimeeyork:animal-pa

More time and Patience!
 

It took Baxter nearly two months to accept these two girls. Bear is a pushover and loves everyone. Baxter would snarl and bare his teeth everytime they came around, even snapped a couple of times. I made sure Baxter always felt he was in no way being pushed aside. When they got attention he got double, etc... finally.. now Baxter rolls over on his back and lets those babies crawl all over him and hang off his face. It took time. Almost two months is a long time, but you may be selling Peanut's future bestest friend!!!!

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I would really try and give it more time for your two babies to adjust . they have not even had a chance to get to know each other yet. When Peanut starts reacting negative, take the new puppy into a separate room , and try again later .give both yorkies equal attention, and only well supervised visits with each other. If you do not have one already, an expen is ideal for the new puppy. Peanut will come around, and these two will come to emjoy each others company. It does not happen overnight. But it will happen. Try not to give up so easily . I think it will be a decision you would later regret.
I brought home a tiny 7 week old Shih tzu , she was so little she fit in my hands . Suzi was not all that pleased either. Now, My puppy is 4 months old, and Suzi , plays with her all the time, they are the best of friends. It is so much fun watching them together. they make me laugh at their antics. It is so funny to watch them both have the zoomies :D Miely my little pup is still smaller then Suzi , but she ought to eventually grow bigger then Suzi. Not yet though . I have never regreted bringing home Miely with Suzi. At first I was nervous because Miely was sooo little , I kept a very close watch on her all the time, and when the play became too rough , for me, I separated them, just to protect the puppy. You always have to be much more cautious having the puppy in the home , and protective over her needs , to me that was my number one goal. I stay home all the time, which allowed me to always be near these guys.
Give this more time, Peanut will come around.

dont get rid of the puppy.. give it time.. Marley hated Colt when we first brought him home. She started sleeping under the couch or behind it .. she had never done that.. she even wouldnt let us touch her, and since I was the one holding him when we brought him home she was more pissed at me, and took more to my husband those first couple weeks.. he thought it was funny.. she would just glare at me like how could you do this to us? LoL it took about 2 weeks for her to warm up to him . Now she will bring toys to him so he will play with her, they play "tag" where they will switch off chasing each other, and they even share a bully stick at times, where they each will take an end and chew on it laying down , at the same time LoL! They even sleep cuddled up sometimes. I thought I had made a horrible mistake when I first brought him home, but it just takes time. We let Marley sleep in our bed with us and tripled her affection and attention.. to let her know she was still top dog and what-not. They will be best friends in no time. Now Marley and Colt are inseperable.. it will happen.. watch!

Here's a thread I started when Kalina met her new sister, Matty Lu. Please give it more time. http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/gen...-like-her.html

OK Guys I will give her more time..I just feel bad for peanut he isnt even acting like himself.. He looked really sad bc I left him at home..(ususally he comes to work with me) she doesnt even KNOW what a pee pad is!! I am so frustrated and upset at myself...my dh is upset with me bc i spent 1500 on her..everything is just screwed up right now :(

isnt she a doll , i had to get her shaved bc she was matted and with pee and in her feet hair..and her peep hair was like 6 inches!! I am so upset at myself..the breeder wouldnt take her back, (some breeder) I probably saved the babies life!

plus everyone that wants her doesnt want to pay 900 lol they think 900 is too much for a female yorkie.uhh I paid 1200 for peanut! and they want her papers..and i tell them no bc you just want to breed her and she is TOO SMALL!!!

She is so darling.....

I am glad you are giving it some time. In my experience it takes about 2 weeks for the "Yorkies" to except one another. So don't throw in the towel just yet...

Keep things simple, keep her contained until she gets the potty down.

I use Peanut Butter Chips from the baking isle to do potty training (Treat Reward & Positive Praise) ;)

She is absolutely adoreable! Even shaved! :) I'm with everyone else, just give it some time. I'm sure its hard on your as well as Peanut, but they will become friends before you know it! Good luck. Keep us posted of their progress.

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Im glad your giving it more time. One day isnt enough to tell you if they are going to get along. I would at least give it a month

I agree with the others, you need to give it some time. They arent going to love each on first site. My toy poodle is the diva of the house and when we got Tucker she hated him it took a few weeks for her to get use to him and now they are the best of friends. As far as the potty pads, give her time she is little, in a new house and needs to adjust. DId you honestly think that she would run to the pad as soon as you got her??? She is a beauty and if I lived closer I would buy her in a heartbeat!! :)

Awww she is a real doll :) It took me a least 2-3 weeks everytime i introduced a new baby to the crew, My karleigh is my oldest and rules the
roost :p They do adjust after a while ;) Now there all best buds & gals :p
congrats :)

i agree that you need to give him more time. one day isn't enough.

she is a real cutie tho and she will learn where to potty. you just need to treat her like the baby that she is and start from the beginning. confine her to an expen with a pee pad when you aren't watching her. she'll learn.

i'm surprised the breeder won't take her back after a day. did you get her from someone on YT?

No some breeder I found.Most good breeders would have taken her back.. but it's ok- she doesn't need to go back..If I do end up selling her I will take a loss to make sure she gets a good home!
Makes me mad too bc she has tapeworms and the breeder said she gave her her shots and stuff.. I already took her to my vet and he said she looks great..I am starting over on her shots..bc I do not trust the breeder!

What a horrible breeder! So glad you rescued this baby from her. We just brought home a rescue pup on Friday and what I did to make sure Barley is loving of her is we overly baby him too. Not too much though but enough so he knows he's still loved very much and no one is ever taking his place. I sit on the floor with them and play with them together too. Barley loves to play tug of war with his toys, so I'd play with him then give baby Bijou an end and we'd all play tug. It help my guys a lot and is worth a try. remember to always let him be first and it will help him be secure in his relationship with you and maybe become friends with the new doll baby! She is sooo sweet.

Sorry, your DH is upset. Did you do it without talking to him first? Mine wasn't thrilled either, but I told him before I got Bijou that I was getting her and he knew I wouldn't change my mind on it so he didn't even try. But my DH would have been p***d if I did it and didn't tell him first, as I would have been if he did it too. (((((((Hugs)))))))) to you for saving her. Please, try and work it out with Peanut and her. She looks like she's already loving whoever is holding her on their lap in that one picture.

Don't make a rash decision
 

I concur with everyone else so far, you have to give it more time. My older ones didn't like the "new" guy either. So far I've got five and it was "hate at first sight", with each new one. Now they are getting along well, it's only been one week since I brought the 2 new boys home, and already I've seen improvements in attitudes. My oldest, Harley, he's eight, has just started to join in games of chase in the last day or so. Scooter is now their "personal trainer", he grabs a stick and takes them for a few laps around the backyard, loving every minute of it! Rita doesn't play with them but she has stopped growling and threathing to eat them for lunch, when they jump on her.:p

It's great that you've decided to give him more time to adjust. My niece had a girl before she brought the boy yorkie and they did fine. But l guess with the boy yorkie its more of a dominence thing. He will eventually develop a good relationship with her. l would show him he still has your love with and spend more time with him. l'm sure you can divide your attention and it will work itself out.

How do you know she has tapeworms? Did you have her poo tested or see a segment around her anus? Shots don't protect from tapeworms. She has to be given a wormer specifically for tapeworms.

Also, don't have her get shots again if she already had them. Did the breeder give you a record of her shots?

The fact that she was sold to you "limited" means she cannot be bred - but you can still sell her to someone. However, after one day I would give it much more time. Why are you willing to take a $600 loss after one day? I'm just curious. I wish you the best of luck.

i feel bad that you got trapped into spending so much money on a dog with tapeworms, mattes, and pee all over her, did you not get to go check out the dog before you put money on her? i'm sure you've just rescued her from a horrible life!!

as for the problem with peanut not getting along with her, i agree to give it more time and to let them adapt and adjust to each other. it takes dogs awhile to learn to adjust their "pack" to include a new member. they will most likely become good friends due to them both having to get used to living together and being around each other more often.

after about a month or so, if they still really can't seem to bond and you wanted to sell her, i would definitely make sure you have a spay listed in the purchasing contract. or spay her yourself if you had time to keep her that long. how old is she btw??

also, i can't believe the breeder would charge 1500 for a dog that isn't healthy and perfect for one thing and i also can't believe that person wouldn't take the dog back from you if you decided it wasn't going to work out. a responsible breeder would never let a dog go to a home without allowing the new owner to give the dog back. most breeders who are responsible care so much about the health and well being of the puppy that they would rather take it back than see it sold to another person they haven't checked out themselves. i'm sorry that you didn't seem to get the dog from a responsible breeder, but just give her time so she can adjust to your new life with her and to peanut, because it seems like you have rescued this baby and re homing her twice in such a short time would be a little traumatic for the baby...

good luck and i wish you the best in your new baby and your big decisions! hope it all works out and i really hope they become friends.

She is so cute! It took Roxie about 2 months to completely come back to herself, I felt so bad. But she got lots of attention- she could sleep with us, and each of them gotta momma love time when we would brush them separately and they both got used to each other. Your new girl just has to find her place in the pack and Peanut will show her. Training is never easy and you know that but you have experience with yorkies and know it is only a matter of time. She is just a baby and all good things come with time. I wouldnt be rash just see what time brings!

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update
 

Well...Lets see where can I start things got worse.
The baby starting attacking peanut..peanut attacked her.. I put them in different rooms and peanut would just bark and bark then he started to chew up things!! and that is not peanut..He isn't eating..he is acting tottaly distant from me..I can't take this. I know in my heart that it is not going to work I can see that, my dh can see that..it's not fair for peanut or the new baby.

I sold her yesterday with a no breeding contract. She has a new home with a Mommy and Daddy, I can tell that these people will love her and spoil her, she emailed me this morning here is her email.

(Thank you very much for the encouraging words, i truely appreciate it. We had a great night! She slept the whole way home and also slept through the night. She is using the wee wee pads and has not had an accident yet. I think she is a great fit for our small family. Speaking of "fit" she didn't fit in anything I bought her lol I am going to have to return them because she is smaller than I anticipated. Everthing else is going great so far. I was going to ask you about the harness you showed me last night, I forgot what it was called. )

Tiffany said that she will keep in contact with me and send me pictures.. I feel horribe about this!! I think of it as I saved her from that breeder either way at least she didn't have to go back to the breeder and be sold again for 1500!! Live with knotts and pee all in her hair! I lost alot of money, but MONEY COMES AND GOES, at least I feel I did the right thing and found her a great home.

I wish I could have tried longer..maybe I dont have the patinece for it, maybe I am too conserned with Peanut. I have had him for 2 years and when I see him that stressed and not eating I feel like I have to do what is best for him. I know a lot of you would have tried longer and a lot of you wanted me to try but I just couldn't.

My DH isn't mad at me...he knew that I wanted a puppy he wasn't mad about that he was mad about how much I spent on her. He isn't mad at me anymore..he is over the whole money thing.

So that is the end of this story.. Things that I have learned
--Peanut is the kind of dog that likes to be the ONLY dog.
--Research the breeder
--Tell DH you are buying a 1500 yorkie before you buy her :rolleyes:
--Just bc I want a girl yorkie, doesnt mean that it is going to work out for the rest of my family.

Now I have to start to get Peanut back to being Peanut..He is laying in his bed at work with me right now...I can tell he is still stressed but he is doing better..

I hope you guys don't chew me a new a$$hole for this. I had to do what was right. Anyways that's the end of that!

Well - wishing her all the best - I was going to post that my oldest Chanel who is my heart was jealous for 2 freakin months when we got Cheri...She would pout - not kiss me - you name it.

My way around it was to hold them both on either side while giving them equal attention - and MORE attention to my oldest than the puppy and eventually they became the best of buddies. Alot of it had to do with Cheri growing up a little and Chanel finally realized it was fun to have a sister in the house.

If you don't believe me about how much they love each other - check out my album - they kiss each other ALL the time. It's hilarous. They're known in my apartment complex as the 2 cute little gay girls lol

I think maybe this could have worked..yeah peanut would get over it..but would he be as happy as he is alone? I don't think so. I also think it is me more than him. I think I just want to give all my attention to him and I dont to share it .

I firmly believe that you know Peanut and what's best for him better than anyone else, as is the case of most mothers. You wanted your boy to be happy, but you weren't irresponsible about the new baby - you found a wonderful home for her. Whether you handled it differently than others would have doesn't matter. You did what you felt was right for you and your family. Now, go give Peanut lots of lovins and he'll be back to his cute self in no time!

Thank you very much!! Just to see how excited he was when he found out he was going to work with me today..made my day start out great! Plus Dh called me just to tell me he loves me and have a great day!! That helped too. knowing I found her a great home where she will be spoiled and loved..is worth loosing $1000 to me :rolleyes: