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I agree with Sawyers Mom, this was an act of petty jealously. She knew full well what she was doing - spoiling your chances of showing because she couldn't show her dogs. It was a really nasty thing to do - she can't be a very nice person if she has to ruin things for you, her friend, just because she doesn't have the same opportunity to show her dogs. All you can do is try and see her for the unhappy person she must be and try to let it go, for your own sake. It will eat away at you if you don't do this. You don't want to stoop to her level by taking any form of revenge. She is a sad person and probably doesn't have many friends, as a result of this nasty streak. She is really the loser - she has lost your friendship. Tucker is adorable! Luv Franceen xxx |
Nicki, I am so shocked about this, I am practically speechless :eek: Abigail's hair grows painfully slowly, too; and, I would just be heartsick if someone (especially a 'friend') took it upon themselves to chop it all off! Y'know what? I'm just going to believe that this thing that was done in spite and meant for evil is going to turn around. Praying that Tucker's coat will grow more quickly than it ever has, and it will come in even more silky and beautiful than you could dream! I'm so sorry for this. Hugs. |
Yeah, I sort of feel the same way about suing...I think it's used too frequently. Although I do feel that I'm justified in being very angry and upset. I have decided to just let it go, but not speak to her anymore. She'll get what's coming to her...karma comes full circle...and it's a b**** :p |
Wow !!!! I knew it!!!! She is jealous, I am so sorry for you. But that is ok, You still have the prettiest little fellow, it is a shame she did not want you to show him. You will have you chance, and luckily she won't have any part of it with you. You have every right to be upset. No it isn't just hair. |
I am sorry that happened to you. Ryder is still as cute and handsome as ever.;) :aimeeyork Hugs, Mary |
Oh my God, Nicki. When I saw this my jaw dropped. I think that whole thing about feeling a mat was BS...she's jelous. I'm so, so sorry. Maddie wasn't ever a show dog or anything, but I loved her long hair. One time my mom was talking about getting her cut short and I almost died (which I why she didn't actually have it done). So even though its no where near your situation, I understand a little bit how special their hair is. |
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OMG!!!! :eek: I have to tell you girl, just READING this is making smoke shoot out of my ears!!! :mad: How DARE her!!!! :mad: Omg, I honestly do not know what to say for once. I am just speechless! :eek: :mad: What in the H3LL was she thinking!?!?!! :mad: Girl...oh Lord...I seriously don't know what to say here. I mean I honestly do not!! I can only IMAGINE how PO'd you are as I remember how upset I was when Stedman's hair got cut WAY too short (long ago, he was only 5 months old) - I swear to you I almost lost it. True it's only hair...but that really doesn't matter and that isn't the point!!! :mad: You didn't want his hair cut like that and she didn't even ASK you before she did it! She didn't have permission, she had NO right!!! :mad: Oh goodness gracious...I seriously think I would have blown a fuse!!!!! :mad: I am soooo SORRY girl!!! :( |
oh my poor baby!!! I didn't read anyone's reply... but I completely understand your pain.. Jakub's mom does this with Kayah's top knot every single freakin time!!!:mad: :mad: I just want to rip her freakin hair out:mad: .. and you know what she said to me last week?! "oh.. the people I works for just had their dogs groomed.. so you should get Kayah groomed.. if you don't.. I'll cut her hair myself"........ the hell you will!!!.. you touch HER hair.. I will cut yours off while you're sleeping.... :mad: :mad: :mad: |
I would be mad, too; but I'm so desparate for a decent groomer, I wish I had a friend that could cut. I trimmed Maxwell myself and he looks like he was in a blender. This situation happened to me, but with my child. His father had him every Sunday, and his father's new wife gave my 2 year old son a haircut!!!!! When I picked him up I was livid. But the hair grew back and the 2nd wife is history. |
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I believe suing is necessary sometimes.its a way to say what you did was wrong,not legally right and I am sooo mad. It teaches them through their pockets to have a better conscience and what more effective way to teach a lesson than taking their money,especially the really rich (but not limited to)who answer to no one. |
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It's not just about the hair, it is about crossing the line. If she is such a professional, than she should know that people are very particular about their babies. The suing route may be an option, but is it worth spending more energy on someone who doesn't understand boundaries anyway? At least you got to tell her off. It's up to you whether you wish to forgive her or not, but it sounds as though she didn't think much of the friendship to start with. I would always wonder what other liberties she would take advantage of down the road. |
Woo, you have more control of yourself than I do! I would have let loose on her!!! Isn't it common knowledge that if they don't like it, DO IT ANYWAY! They get over it, jeebus! Oooh, that pisses me off to no end! |
She was clearly in the wrong. You never ever do something like that even if you are friends, unless you are asked. What makes it worse is as a professional she doubly should have known better. There's no excuse she could ever offer to ever excuse her behavior. I'd never trust her with my dog again if I were you. Personally she'd be off my Christmas list. |
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Tucker is still beautiful but I know how pissed you must have been. We can never really understand another persons mind but I think she is jealous and, not a, " true friend", would be and so inconsiderate. This thread got a lot of attention and I found so many YT's personalities to be humerous, have to find something positive!!!! |
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After the initial anger subsides, then it's about how we react to this type of nastiness that counts. You are doing the noble thing by deciding to let it go and get on with your life and this makes you the nice person you obviously are. It is much more satisfying to get revenge in some way, but we mustn't fall into that trap or we start to sink to their level. I am hoping that Tucker wins all the rosettes and prizes when he is finally ready to be shown. Luv Franceen xx |
I would have gone berserk! |
Tucker is still soooooo adorable! At least she left some hair on the face!!! |
Suing I agree and my husband the JAG, Georgetown lawyer also agrees people sue for way to many stupid reasons these days. However, loss of a potentially lot of money isn't one of them. And as friends go... I don't think she is one. If she had stepped up and said...wow... you are right... I did a stupid thing.... or how about even saying... I'm sorry I didn't realize you would be so upset... or the always simple but meaningful "i'm sorry", then if you sued her... it might seem a little extreme. As it is, this lady is not and was not being a friend. Someone else asked if you could sue... I asked my husband and he said it is a pretty cut and dry case... and not far reaching at all if she truly was planning to show him and he has pups on the way. I had a pappaw and his brother sued him... over inherited land... it is horrible when this happens. But this friendship is obviously (from Emerald's posts) a loss cause regardless, why shouldn't she recover the money the lady costs her. I mean if it was just a few dollars to make a point...no... but from what Emerald was saying it could be much more than that! I don't know... the anger is probably going to eat at her and that way she might have resolution. I probably wouldn't do it either.... as a matter of fact I know I wouldn't but the option is there. |
Excuse me in advance:D .. I feel life is to short to be fighting... But:D There a certain things that I dont get down with, 1. Dont mess with my Man, Kids or Family 2. Dont mess with my Dogs 3. Dont mess with my $$$ 4. Dont mess with my Food Tread on any of those things and You got/have problems..:thumbup: She did that $hit on PURPOSE!! She knew exactly what she was doing and a Matt?? Come on.. You were a phone call away, She could not of called to get your permission?? She should be HAPPY that Cute little Tucker doesn't belong to me. So she asked YOU if he could stay the night right? She did that $hit on PURPOSE!! Ok Im done, All I will say now is KARMA's a ITCH:D |
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I"m just catching up on this thread. OMG I would be P***ed!!! she had NO right. it would be different if you asked her to...but when she is just babysitting???? oye. i do have to say...he looks ADORABLE!!!! but I do know how it would p* me off if my doggie lost that beautiful full coat. |
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Nooooooooooooooooooo!!!! Ok now that I have cried my way thru all of these post and gotten past the hurt part... Its official....... I AM MAJOR TICKED OFF... and not at you Dear Nicki... but at this so called friend... who in the Samhell does this person think she is? What does she thinks gives her this power over you and one of your babies? Yes Tuckers hair will grow back without a doubt and everyone is right that he is still a babie doll and a real heart breaker... (I'm alittle bias...) I was so proud of his coat, and when he went to live with you and you told me you were going to show him I was in heaven and now because of one IDIOTS jealousy his show carrer is being put on hold. If this person were within driving distance for me I can promise that she wouldn't hang up on me nor would she be very happy to meet me. In my eyes what she has done is only pointing out the envy that she has for you because you have something that she doesn't. I'm sorry this happened, well no really I'm PO'd in a big way but don't worry yourself about it too much. Tucker is a very loving little man and I know he knows how much you love him and the lack of hair won't change that. Congradulations on the new babies I'm looking forward to seeing pictures soon. I had a little of 4 on the 17th and I'm waiting on a litter anyday now out of Johnny and my Show girl Paris. |
Man I can't imagine just cutting somebody esles dog's fur without consulting them, unless it was a serious emergency. That is really rude. I think I would have to call her (once I calmed down) and explain how it made me feel, and that in the future her grooming habits of MY dogs should be left to when I ASK for them. I am so baffled by that! |
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Oh god I know...I should let her talk to YOU...the person who spent 7 months growing that coat and keeping it maintained...:rolleyes: I still can't believe it myself, I'm just trying to concentrate on the new litter, but every once in awhile I just start crying. I thought it was interesting because didn't something like that happen to poor Johnny too? Even though she was helping you out, still I bet you cried for weeks. I will never forget the moment that I saw him...my jaw dropped to the floor. Well, it has certainly taught me something...I will NEVER EVER leave my babies with ANYONE except family anymore....and even then they will have STRICT instructions. The ridiculous thing is that SHE asked to keep him for the night...:mad: Ok I need to stop talking about it because I'm getting pissed again... Aww you're in puppy heaven too right now! :D I can't wait to see pictures of the Paris babies...they're going to be gorgeous I'm sure! :D |
I think that Tucker is so cute in his new puppy cut hair but she still does not have the right to do whatever she wants as Tucker is not her baby :( Wow, that is just sooo wrong :( |
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