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lost my babys So within this past week, I've lost my family, my two babys(haylee and killer) and my home. My moms had a nervous break down, and in the process kicked all of her family out, and took my babys with her. I Just got into an apartment, and now have nothing left. :confused: I just don't know what to do. I've lost my whole life. and it sucks. I'm not asking for sympathy but only advice. anything anyone has to say will be helpfull. |
Wow..do you think you will be able to go back??? Sounds like she made some split decisions and maybe she regrets them now?? Dawn |
I don't know what to tell you but to Pray and leave it in God's hands... We can do nothing to change things but prayer works... I know I have answered prayers all the time.. I feel your pain and loss... Hopefully you can get your kids back... :) |
OK, this is not sympathy but I will remember you in my prayers. |
Maybe give her some time to calm down and see how things go then. Sending you some hugs. |
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And sorry about your troubles. |
Sending you lots of prayers right now... I hate that you have to deal with something like this, but I wish you nothing but the best. Just remember that the Lord never gives us anything we cant handle. So...Though it may seem like your in the eye of the storm...the sun always shines in the end :) Be sure to focus on priorities... employment, food...the essentials. Thats what you should remain focused on...and everything else will work itself out. |
Honey if you can prove they are yours go get them. I'm sorry you moms is having some issues but go get them. On what grounds is she keeping them? |
Sending warm thoughts and prayers to you... |
are they your dogs? or hers? did you pay for them? just wondering! sorry all this is happening to you! |
I will say a prayer for you. God helps those who help themselves - so be proactive. Don't wallow in this mess. Figure out a plan of action and follow thorugh. |
o wow im so sorry! Why did she take YOUR babies? I hope you get them back..:( |
Sending Prayers Your Way ,am If They Are Your Pups And You Can Prove It I Would Go And Gget Them From Her. |
Hugs and prayers on their way to you. I'm so sorry you have so much heartache to deal with right now. I hope it all works out. |
Oh, I'm so sorry (think of that as compassion, not sympathy). Are you working? Until your mom calms down, or things change from where they are now, do you have enough for the necessities of life - those have to be your first priorities. You need to get your feet under you. You can't take care of your babies if you can't take care of yourself. Will your mom care well for them for right now? Sending strength, wisdom, and prayers your way. |
I'm sorry to hear your troubles, I went through something very similar except it involved the death of my nana (mother figure) and I ended up sleeping in my car... but it was late summer and I had my dog. I can honestly tell you that things do get better, if you want to chat please feel free to pm me. A few sayings that helped me: Whatever doesn't kill you, only makes you stronger. The best revenge is my happiness and being kind to others. Alana |
If they're your dogs, I'd get a police escort to the house and go collect all your things. She cannot keep your belongings and the yorkies if they're yours. I'd then give her space and wait until she calms down and comes to you to apologize. No sense stressing yourself for her issues. Live you life and enjoy your independence. I haven't spoken to my mom is six years and you know I'm much happier and stress free without all the drama that went with that relationship. Sometimes you just have to look after yourself and do what's best for you. |
I didn't pay for the dogs, but the boy was a birthday present, and haylee she bought for me 3 years ago. She always says they're my dogs, around everyone, don't know if that helps in getting them back. I got all the papers for them, under my name. Thank you for all your advice. Guess the only thing i can do is try to wait it out, and see if tings get any better. |
If all the papers are in your name then I would say that legally they are yours. My girls are both registered in my name only and I consider that final. Period. I let other members of my family fuss over them, but the girls are MINE!! Good luck. I hope you get them back soon. Keep us posted. |
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good luck and prayers coming your way...pooh's mum |
Will she take good care of them?? Hopefully they are safe with her until you can work something out with her. Good Luck with your situation. I know it seems bad, but hang in there. I always try to remind myself that it could always be worse. Hope thinks work out for the best. |
I agree with Felina, I would have a police escort take you to the house to get your things and your babies--the paperwork in your name should be proof enough and let your mom know that it's nothing personal and you will leave her be until she's calmed down and ready to talk things over with you (maybe write her a short note, without being confrontational?). So sorry you're going through this, but be strong and you will overcome it and be a better/stronger person because of it. D- |
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Sorry for all the heartache you are having. Hugs your way! Be strong. Things usually have a way of working out. |
so i went over with the police, and pretty much they can't do anything about it . we asked for haylee and killer. she said NO. she gave killer to my brother, and now wont give haylee to me. im heartbroken, and shes moving in 3 days. :confused: i dont know what to do. i dont have money for a new baby, and i can't have my old one. im heartbroken i cant stop crying.=[ i even sat outside and begged her, she pretty miuch laughed in my face. |
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oh my gosh, that's brutal! I'm so sorry...did something happen recently or has she just kind of snapped (sorry, couldn't think of a better word). Maybe you need to take further action legally? Like get some kind of injunction against her for getting rid of the dogs until you can settle it? Do you think your brother would give you back Killer? I'm sorry I don't know what to say other than I'm so sorry this is happening but keep strong, you will get through this and it will work out in the end, k? Have faith... D- |
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does your new apartment allow pets? |
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