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Awww Hun Iam so sorry for you, Praying things will be ok and work out for you, He is a coward of a man for sure, he does not deserve you;) hugs |
oh Nicki, am just now reading this am I truly sorry for what has happened. Can you not continue staying where you are right now and just have him move out or is it his house :( I hope you will be able to get it resolved . . . :( in the long run you will realize it is better that it happened now than after you are married. :( |
I'm so sorry! Good luck finding a place.. Yahoo real estate has some great listings.. foreclosures too |
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thank you guys for your support...it really means a lot at a time like this...I know that I don't know any of you personally, but just hearing kind words can help regardless...thank you so much... |
Honey, take it ONE step at a time. I am so sorry your boyfriend chose such a horrid way to break up with you. Set up an area in your garage with a safe space heater and plenty of beds and toys and they should be fine. THEN look for something you can call your own. Good luck!!! |
Well pack up the lot and come visit us for the Holidays!!! |
I know you've probably heard this a million times..but, things always work out the way they're supposed too, and your prince charming is out there..I met mine 31 years ago, and we've been married 31 years today!! As hard as it is, try and cheer up..the right one for you is out there! |
OMG... I'm sooooo sorry about what you're going through Nicki. I really don't have any advice for you at this time because I'm already in a mess myself. I really wish I could help. Your boyfriend took a coward way out. I'm pretty sure there are other options that don't involve rehoming your babies. Please, be safe and let us know if there is anything that can do to help. Please keep us updated! *hugs and kisses* KEEP YOUR HEAD UP |
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I can't think of how you feel but im helping a friend of mine go through with pretty much the same thing.. Except they were married.. They were 2wks frm makein 1yr married and he texted while he was out of town on his job he wanted a divorce!!! Now she is tring to get in a smaller home for her and her 2 boxers and a great dane.. She refuses to get rid of them or throw them out side for they have always been inside dogs in there bigger house.. I see her pain and Like i told her.. Everything will work out and you will be stronger in the long run!! |
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sometimes You know ... w/ men... sometimes they have panic attacks at the thought of commitment...even when the commitment was thier idea... Don't get in too big a rush... take the mom's house route...space heaters are dangerous but heating lamps work wonders. Put up wood to block any wind. You never know if things may work out and you are in another commitment w/ property! Take a deep breath... show no needyness to him... brave through it... but at the same time let him know you care.... give him a couple of weeks w/o you... he'll want you back! Especially when you move on w/ no problems! I am so sorry... I have been there...even w/ the man I eventually married... who broke up w/ me for time being... when he asked to come back... I made sure that it was on my terms... I still dated.... he couldn't...lol... showing him that I can go on w/o him... even if I hated every minute of it and didn't want to breath w/o him! |
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Thanks...I didn't know that about space heaters...I'll look into that. If we had something built in the garage it would be enclosed, so no wind. She has a huge garage with windows that stays cool in the summer and fairly warm in the winter. We're looking into EVERYTHING right now...I'm fortunate to have such a wonderful mom who will allow me into her home with that many dogs...and she's willing to front me the money for anything I need to buy for them to keep them safe and warm. |
Oh Sweetie, this must be so hard for you. Take time to think things through, and things will work out for the best, which ever way they turn out. There are so many Christmas miracles out there, I'm hoping one will come your way. Hugs, |
I hope all works out for you the way you want it to. |
I am so sorry you are going through this. :( Break ups are hard enough on their own without the added issues you are dealing with. It may hurt really bad now but you are going to look back on this and be proud of how strong you were. I think your best bet is to move in with mom until you can clear your head and really figure out what is best for you and your babies. Good luck with everything |
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This is good advice, because even if he broke it off, I'm sure you both still have very strong feelings for each other, and you still have a relationship with him, even if it has changed terms. I dumped my current BF a few years ago around the holidays, and it took me a couple of months to realize what a stupid mistake I made, and he was kind enough to take me back. Man was that a hard time. You will get through, just take one day at a time! |
I think you are very lucky to have had this happen in one way..and the way it will count, is in the long run. You are learning how important is it to be able to go to plan B when Plan A doesn't work..and many Plan A's do not work. Emotionally, we can not always protect ourselves and those things tend to mature us..but fianacially woman need to always have a plan B...you sound very level headed and I am sure the future is going to be outstanding for you...best wishes.. |
i'm sorry you have to experience this it is always hard to go thru a break up especially a long term one and for him to do it the way he did shows he is not a responsible person to handle his business in an adult manner. Honestly this may be a blessing in disquise for you that you do not understand now but maybe at a later date....With regard to the wonderful tips for possible housing..also consider a good realtor who has leased properties with the option to buy..usually you can lease for a year or two and some of that money will be alloted to go towards the purchase of the home..it works for some folks and maybe a thought for you!!! Just take your time in what ever you do and know that God has your back on this and I am praying for you as well!!! Please keep us posted and if I can help you with real estate questions pm me and i will be more than glad to help you or find out the answer for you !! ( i am a realtor here in Ga!) I want to make sure you and those furbabies are not taken advantage of !!!! All realtors aren't members of YT who look out for their own!! LOL |
Everything does have a way of working out for the best.I wish you the best of luck! Sending you hugs!:hearts-en :excited: :excited: :excited: |
I am so sorry for what has happened to you, especially before the holidays. What a totally inconsiderate jerk! Hmmmmmm......... makes me wonder if he did it NOW to save the cost of Christmas presents etc? ( 'Scuse me but my "bitchy" side comes out when I see a Sweetie Pie like you being treated this way). Be proud of yourself Hon, you sound like you totally have your head together, even in the devastated frame of mind you are in. And just think what you have accomplished if you are only a short time from Graduation. And a big Bravo to you for wanting to hold your little doggie family together! (I see a wonderfully dedicated "skin-mama" in the future).:thumbup::thumbup::thumbup: You have been given excellent Real Estate advice here from some very knowledgeable ladies. I have nothing more to offer but please feel free to PM me any time you are having a bad day and just wanna talk/get advice from a long-time Mom. Big hugs to you. Your family must be so proud of you! Lauren:ghug: Note: Please allow yourself time to grieve. It's something we all go through after the loss of an important relationship. Heal on your own time table; don't let anyone tell you to "just get over it":) |
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:aimeeyork I am so sorry to hear you are having a rough time !!! I hope you feel better soon !!! I know this sounds stupid right now but things could always be worse. Trust me on that one, when you think you can't sink any lower, you will (personal experience). At least you have all your Furbabys with you to love you and cheer you up. |
So sorry to hear about your break up...you and your pups are in our prayers. |
Oh, hun..I'm just reading this and so sorry to hear you're going thru this. I wish I was in NC, I live alone with my 2 sons,the 2 yorkies plus Diva's baby Duchess, a cat and would offer you and your babies some space..the house is more than big enough since my fiance passed away as soon as we had it built(3 yrs ago)!!! I think if you and your mom are able to find a rental home somewhere, that would be perfect...It's so nice of your mom to be willing to do that for you and your babies....my mom would do the same...aren't they the best!;) Wishing you the best of luck and praying that something will work out for you soon! Please keep us updated! |
MEN!!!!! My common law and I are having a terrible time right now too!!!! I worry everyday how I would take care of two dogs without him lol...of course its because I dont have a job atm...so its a worry when things are going so wrong. Maybe its a holiday thing..men get so weird at this time of the year IMO. You are soooooooooooooooooo lucky you dont have kids together..believe me it would make things that much harder...SOMETHING will work out for you I just KNOW it!!!! I think the roomate thing would be FUN!! Good luck!! Dawn |
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