A few times a week she will wake me up in middle of night to take her to pee she slepts in her crate but in my room right next to my bed so I hear her every move...

how do u get ur baby to stay in the crate my minnie crys the whole time in there n i feel really bad n take her out to put her on her doggy bed i got the crate for no reason she never use's it

The screen is a great idea! My Lexi would have chewed every thing. We even got her a good indestructible bed! We would give her a good chewy bone as well in there. And make sure and always remove her collar!

Oh I put her bed inside the crate and I put her stuffed monkey in there with her.. At first it was hard what I would do is lay in bed with her on my chest and watch TV until she'd fall asleep then I'd pick her up and say night night and in she went and quick as a mouse....

We bribed her! I never take her out when she is whinning. Then she wins! Tell her its ok. Then ignore her, As soon as she is quiet, good girl and take her out, praise and a treat. Do it again in a little while. Patience lots of patience.

oh that is a good idea i dont think my crate is big enough but when i leave to go out i have a gate so she stays in my room she takes to that pretty fine she crys but not as much i guess because she has alot of room to run around thanx im going to try to get her use to it so when i need someone to babysitte her i can tell them to put her right in there so she dont make any accidents at anyone house

I just sent you a pm but you just answered my questions so try this.

When you wake up take the pup for a walk outside for 15 min feed breakfast before you leave just bring outside for a quick pee when you place her in the crate leave her a toy and a blanket or towel (this will sound gross but put it in your hamper so it smells like you this will be comforting) remember nude baby only in the crate when you come home for lunch first thing take ouside to pee or place on pee pad depending on what you want to do eat lunch play try to get to pee one more time place back in crate when you get home remove from crate and take for walk again. When you are home with her do not give her free reign of the house either keep her on you or keep her leashed to you around your waste or in the crate I nevery realy liked to crate while I was home. She has to learn to respect her surroundings and you can only give small amounts of space at a time. Also make sure what ever toy you put in the crate has not removeable parts since she is so young you might want to use a puppy kong with a frozed treat. I hope all of this is making sense to you if not just ask questions either here or in a PM
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PS: Dad does not have to get up that early, if he lets her out later at night she will sleep later in the morning. No worries

Our crate is small. Just large enough for her to stand up and turn around. To big of an area, more room to potty. They don't like to potty where they sleep.

This is just what I do with Lexi! Yes it works great! Great plan!

Sounds good I'm gonna try this thanks for all the help and the words of encourgement..

How about a good sturdy piece of plastic? Or a shelf piece put side-to-side but high enough to not climb over? If you do use a screen, hopefully the wires will be think enough that she won't cut her little mouth on.

I guess I was concerned with your statement that you punish her. :confused: You say praise now but in your original post you said punish which concerned me. My Doodlebug ripped them apart too so I bought a frame which is what has already been suggested. It really is the age. I guess either I didn't understand your OP or I misread what you were trying to ask. :rolleyes:

Our little Jasper is already behaving himself.he uses his peepads and goes to sleep at night and doesn't whine anymore like he did when we first got him.What made a 12 wk. old do this?Persistence,I am a Stay at home Mom and I am potty training my 2yr. old boy while working with Jasper too ;-) We praise Jasper with liver snaps from the Puppy boutique where he is going to Puppy school.He also gets lots and lots of exercise so when we do put him in his crate when we eat dinner or leave the house or when we go to bed he usually goes to sleep because we have tuckered him out.We are training him with the clicker technique and he knows sit,stay and lay and come.Already at 12 wks. and is smart as a whip ;-) Be patient with her as the other said it is probably a lack of exercise,once she gets enough of that she will probably settle down a little more.
Right now we are having issues with biting but again we do this technique where we let out a yelp and stop playing with him asap.He gets the point pretty quick and stops but he still has his moments but they are pups they have many months of growing and learning.

From one training issue to another!
 

Our Bella was 3 years old when we got her and she wasn't housebroke at all. We had to train her as if she was a puppy, it was difficult considering she was already trained to go wherever. We took her outside frequently like every hour. When we weren't home and at night we crated her. It took a couple months of patience and consistency but she caught on finally. Now she goes to the door when she needs to go and hasn't had an accident in months. I don't crate her during the day when we are at work, we gate her into one room in our home with her bed and toys.

Our problem now though is that she doesn't want to be in the crate at night and yelps til we let her out. I stopped trying because it was waking up my kids and I'd rather deal with one dog then one dog and 2 kids! Now that we haven't been putting her into the crate she whines at my bed for me to get up. She sleeps next to my bed in her doggy bed for the first half of the night but gets up in the night every night wanting to go out but then afterwards does not want me to go back to bed. I usually end up crashing on the couch the rest of the night because if I try to go back to bed she just whines for me to go downstairs. She will lay back down in her bed downstairs but "insists" I stay downstairs with her. Any suggestions on how to break this habit? For the first 6 months we had her she crated at night, all night long without a problem. She whined the first night and because it was out of character for her I got up and let her out, talk about starting a bad habit! This has been going on for about 3 months now...any suggestions? I hate to crate her again, I'd just like her to sleep for the second half of the night like she does the first half. I know she is capable of holding it and sleeping all night as she did for the first 6 months we had her. I fear we have just plain spoiled her out of love! I will keep doing this if necessary, she's such a sweetie :):) but I would rather have her sleep next to me in her bed the WHOLE night! Any suggestions would be welcomed!

Its very hard. They whine and your first thought is, what if she really needs to go out! Your know tummy ache or something. But I think you really need to go back to the crate. You did it for six months and now maybe she is a little anxious about the "new" sleeping arrangements.
However, I know you are concerned about the kids. Would you be able to have someone take the kids maybe for a weekend and try a whole weekend of crate training? Just a thought.

Hello and Welcome to YT! First off, you have a great question and I am sure that there are a lot of people that would love to help and give you advice. :) But you are now buried on page 3 of someone elses thread/question. So I would like to suggest that you start a new thread all about you and your Bella. If you go up to the top of this page and look where it says "Training" click on that and it will take you to the first page of The Training forum. On the left side of that page it will say "Post New Thread"~click that and it will open a blank box. You did a great job of explaining and posing your question so I would just copy it to YOUR new thread. :) You will get lots of responses because many people have already come to this thread and posted a response and they might not come back again.

**My suggestion would be to pick up Bella's downstairs bed at night so that she doesn't try to get comfy when she comes in from a potty adventure. You need to put a stop to taking her out in the middle of the night so if she really has to go potty at 2 am :rolleyes: then cut back on her water intake later in the night. I would pick up her water bowl so the she is not allowed to drink late at night ~~~just like you did when your kids were potty training. ;) You have started a very bad habit and I can see that she has you totally wrapped around her little paw. ;)
She is doing it out of attention I think. My sister has a Dob that does this to her every night and then expects a treat to boot :eek: She gets up for work every morning and Jordan goes back to sleep :rolleyes:

House training
 

Katy is 4 months and has not had an accident in over two weeks. We are using the wee wee pads. I don't care where she is now, she goes to her pad. I can tell you it takes total devotion in working with them to train them. I am retired so I had the time. She sleeps with us and during the night if she has to go, she wakes me up and then goes back to bed. Remember, we are the ones that are trained when they are puppies. Leaving her unattended sets her up for failure. Good luck!!!!

This is exactly what I would have said too.
Please be patient. She's just a baby. Does she have any hard teething toys to chew on. Be sure she has some for when she's penned or crated. Mine always loved the rubber squeaky toys when they were teething. If you can't take jer outside to get her tired..at least give her a playtime workout.
And to repeat....if you don't have the time and patience..please give someone else a chance at giving her a happy well adjusted life, especially while she's still so young.
JMHO

Ralph maddy I think you will find the time, and sometimes patience wears on all of us with puppies. Just like children, when the going gets tough......bring them to Grandmas! :p Or take a step back, a deep breath, and look for support on YorkieTalk! Give her a hug from us today!

The first few months of having a puppy are very difficult. They're learning a lot and so are we. I think most of us have gone through or are going through these exact things. Hang in there, it will get better.

Oh I feel the pains of potty training. Trust me I went through a lot of the same feelings of frustration with SophieKate. I tried pad training and that never did work so I went directly into crate training and so far kind of good (knock on wood).

I got SophieKate when she was three months old back in September and I was clueless on how to potty train a dog. After a few days of failed attempts with the pads I went out and bought a small ICrate. This crate was just big enough for her to stand up and turn around but it had all the comforts of home (a nice lambs wool pad and her fleece blanket). The most important suggestion I got was getting the small crate and in the beginning do not put their food and water in with her. That came with a warning of making sure my puppy gets out of the crate on a regular basis for water and to eat.

Second thing I had to discover was her schedule and try to work it into my schedule. At first I took her out every hour during the day and whenever she whined at night. That was only for a very short time, I than increased it to every two hours and I tracked what she would "do".

We are now at it for 6 months and I would safely say SophieKate is 95% potty trained. The times she does have a pee accident is when I am not paying attention to her or the time - that is totally my fault.

As far as crate training, SophieKate still goes into her the crate (a bigger model) when she is home alone. She doesn't seem to mind it, in fact I leave the door open on her crate and she will go in there and take a nap when we are home. I also leave fresh water in her crate and if I am going to be gone for a while I will put food in there for her.

Potty training has given me gray hairs but the puppy kisses are so worth the gray hairs.

Hang in there, you will figure it out with a lot of good advice from fellow Yorkie Talkers.

They make washable pads that are thick and would be hard to tear up that you can use instead of the throw away ones. I would start her on the washable pads on the weekend when you are home and reward her greatly every time she uses it.

Provide soft terry cloth squeaky toys for her to chew on, and reward her with treats for chewing on them when you are home on the weekend too.

First and foremost. I just want to clarify that I DO NOT plan on giving my Roxy away I only said that because I was frustrating but I love that dog to much to give her away. That's my angel even though she really isn't an angel LOL!!!!

I made a schedule to start when I get back from vacation. Can you guys give me some insight on what you think of it. I don't know if I'm missing something or maybe have to much of something..

5:30am wake up take Roxy to pee pee outside

5:50am give her food and water

6:30am potty

6:30am-6:50am playtime

6:50am-11:30am crate (mommy goes to work)

11:30am-12:00pm potty, playtime try to feed

12:00pm-4:15pm crate

4:15pm potty

4:15pm-7:00pm crate while at studio

7:00pm-8:00pm potty, dinner

8:00pm-10:00pm playtime

10:00pm potty, crate bedtime

thank goodness for that!!!
 

I, personally, got the impression you were really considering giving her up. So happy to know different now.
I'd say you have a pretty good schedule there. I'm not letting my yorkies read it. They'll feel so neglected by me and might consider running away from home to go to your house. LOL

I agree! PetSmart washable pads are terribly expensive. My mom actually made me some and I just put them on top of the potty trays and the fabric gets clipped on the sides just like the disposable. I had two dogs that tore up the disposable ones and as soon as I put a new one in, and turn around they had it out playing tug of war with it. I went through the tearing up stage for awhile - I don't know how, but I learned to laugh about it (not the cost of getting more though-that wasn't funny! lol)

Anyway, it does get better. I feel for you though, I had two peeing and pooping on the floor. I went to Home Depot and bought a 6X9 of the vinyl flooring (about $25) and put that on our floor-we have tile on our floor but I didn't want them peeing on that. So then I put the 4X8 expen over the vinyl tile and then put their potty tray(2) in there with the washable pads. I finally had to sit down far enough away from them not to play with me but waited for them to start playing and every time they went toward the pad to chew it up, I would in a firm and louder voice than I use and tell them "NO!" and then give them a treat when they walked away. Within about a week, they quit tearing them up. But it took me awhile to actually do this... I just "put up with it" for awhile, I have no idea why. I started Friday night after work and then worked with them Friday evening, Saturday and Sunday and they got the idea. Then once or twice that next week, they tore up the pads during they day while I was at work, but I would say within that next week working with them in the evenings and that next weekend - they got the idea. You might try getting something strong while she's teething.. Like some strong denim material and tie knots in the ends, soak in water and freeze it and put that in her area while you are at work. I hope this helps. If you need any other info or ideas, feel free to PM me and I'll give you my telephone number and you can call me. I feel for you, I honestly do! Just be glad that you don't have 2 yorkies doing it! lol One is definitely hard enough.

Looks like a great schedule. Charlie's schedule was very similar to that one. Good luck. Things will get better as your baby grows older. :):):)

Thank you I really appreciate the feed back on the schedule. I worked hard on it and I was hoping that it was good for her.. Can't wait to get back from vacation to start her on it. I'm actually going this weekend to get her a new crate because the one she has now she's actually pooped n pee'd in it already and I feel like she hasn't distinguished what's what... So I'm hoping the wire one is good....

On animal planet they sometimes have specialist that show you how to train your pooch. One thing they recommend is not giving them the run of the home when your not there. They also say you might want to placing her in her crate or if you dont want to confine her that way a baby gate and leave her in a small room in your house with a little food and water and of course her pad

I appreciate the advice. Although I have mentioned she isn't left in the house all over she is actually in a pet yard that I have located in the kitchen.. But thank you I'm going to try out my schedule...