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I think the some of the breeders on here seem to think that just because agree and make up a majority they can make the rules and play yt gods. And i think they need to take feelings into consideration and not only that but consider the fact that people and breeders have different views and opinions and should not be judged for their opinions no matter how differnt from yours they may be. i posted this in another thread to about the lady who runs priceless yorkies and was breeding the teacups i also dont see the problem with the term teacup their are alot of people who want the smaller yorkies and their should be a term to describe them. I have head these puppies have more health problems and they should be taught about those instead of chased away. But i dont think all these smaller yorkies have problems mine is smaller and she is fine. and i know that just one out of how many but people dont seem to mind the extra care for these little ones if thats what they want. |
Shaking my head. I agree with most of these post, a few I dont. If we cant even agree on this thread then I dont see much help for the others. And I still think staying on topic on each thread will help most of the problems. but others dont see that so they are going to keep bring trouble to these threads. I know I wouldnt want to start a thread on My Yorkies say eye problem only to see people bring up some thing other then my Question about my dogs eye. Its just noones bussiness. There are enough threads on YT saying what people should and shouldnt do. so why keep bashing their other threads about it. come on people. Think. |
I have only been on YT for a few months and do not post very often and am very selective about what I post b/c I have been chewed out a few times for stating my oppinion (not on the breeding but other parts). Also I originally signed on here to learn from experienced breeders right after I bought my pup. I have considered getting into breeding in a few yrs if my girl is big enough and a few other things work out right. I have not asked very many questions b/c I don't want to be chewd out for asking questions. I read the posts daily and have seen how people get attacked. I just don't want to be one of them. So thank you admin for this post. For the beginners like me I am hoping it helps. |
You are 100% right, I was new here once and got offended at a response at a question I had posted as a new breeder...How do we learn if we don't ask...It's not that we're bad or anything we honestly don't know...Some now might get upset @ me for posting this and not being here in a while but U know things happen in life that we might not always be able to be here but let me tell U I COME back I LOVE this board and the answers here and questions have helped me so very very much!! Hugs and Keep up the good work U guys!! Lee, Tiffanie, Teddy and Sir. Galahad :aimeeyork Quote:
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I was attacked on this board. And, I was shocked. Someone posted a pic of a pup, I viewed the pic WITH MY EYES (um, not hers) and she posted in the thread that I WAS WRONG. I then PMd her and it turned into the nastiest experience I have ever had on a forum. She simply just refused the fact that I could have an opinion about WHAT I SAW. No matter what I said about "having an opinion", she just came back with "you're wrong". I hope people read their posts before they hit submit. Opinions are fine, mine is my own. You can respectfully disagree. When you disrespectfully disagree, you alienate and instigate. The potential for an educational experience disintegrates. I wonder what that particular breeder thread (w/ all the attacks) could've turned into had she not been crucified? I wonder if she'd been more gently treated if it could've resulted in an informative, reflective exchange of ideas for all - isn't that the intent of this board? (attacking a breeder essentially sends them into defend mode, not learn mode; this doesn't achieve the original intent - which was to protect the pups and the breeding females) |
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Someone posted a pic of a pup, I viewed the pic WITH MY EYES (um, not hers), stated my opinion of what I saw and she posted in the thread that I WAS WRONG. |
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:bravo: EXCELLENT post Kim and thank you! :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: Sometimes I think the members here forget that some people really just DO NOT know some things...and how else are they supposed to learn IF THEY DON'T ASK? A question that may seem silly to those who know alot about Yorkies may seem like a perfectly reasonable question to someone who knows hardly anything at all. Not EVERYONE is completely "educated" on everything. People DO have to learn. :rolleyes: Thanks for such a great post Kim! :thumbup: |
I personally don't post in "certain" threads because I can tell from the O.P.'s "?" that it may get ugly...I like the different responses the poster gets from people who have "been there-done that"...it's great that there is this varied wealth of knowledge available on here....I like the fact that there is no "cookie cutter" answers at times...every one has their own value system & their own comfort level... what works for one won't work for another...it's for that very reason that some of these threads get heated, how ironic is that...sometimes in a post the tone sounds accusatory, that just sets up the defenses & nothing productive is accomplished... too bad for that...I don't have a problem w/ a poster asking something that deviates from the original "?", if it's an important point & is asked w/ out the attitude.....Assumptions are another large reason for nasty threads, a "?" should be asked first if there's some concern about an issue, it might avoid some unnecessary hurt feeling & anger..... |
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There is a big difference between educating and trying to ruin someone's reputation. Sometimes the mean spiritedness goes a bit too far and people really get hurt. Anyone can get on here and say anything about someone and they are not held accountable for it. No proof is required to back up the accusations that are made and no moderation is available to resolve issues. Because of one spiteful person a lifelong dream can be shattered. Please be careful before you hit that submit button, real lives with real feelings are behind every post. Because someone I respect has been deeply hurt by the lies that have been posted about her on this forum I no longer wish to be a member. Thank you to those who have taught me and supported me such as Mardelin and others, I hope to someday meet you in the showring. There are many roses among the thorns and I shall miss you. |
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