| nvnvgirl | 02-29-2008 08:39 AM |
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Originally Posted by koolbreeze
(Post 1809072)
ok i'm expecting puppies in the very near future. hubby is not supporting me!! i'm trying to prepare and get set up and he is bumping my head on some many things. like all my whelping supplies. he says i don't need all that stuff. i just let him talk. and ignore him. he says i should leave her alone and let her do it by herself. i have researched and i KNOW this is a big no no. he told me that i don't need to research. i guess he thought i was just gonna do it without knowing what i'm doing. he claims to have been around dogs giving birth while growing up.... whatever. he said i don't need a x-ray. just because it is $75. he said the vet told me that i should get one to get more money. i need one so i will know if all the babies are out and i don't have to take her to the hospital to get any out. HEs the one that wanted to breed in the first place. before i wanted to. but he wanted to for the money. i want to cause i love these little babies. but hes not supporting me in the way i wanna do it. i should have known this was how it was gonna be cause its like this on everything. and i always wind up doing everything by myself. i'm just praying everything goes right and nothing comes up to where i have to use my "research" to prove him wrong... though it would be great to show him the research pays off but i really don't want anything to go wrong!!! ok i'm done venting!:mad:
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Well, I doubt that it helps, but maybe it would help to know that I've got one just like yours:cool: . Some guys just think they KNOW EVERYTHING and that EVERYONE is out to screw them over:rolleyes: . I used to get really upset, but now I just ignore whatever mine says and go ahead and do what I want. Luckily, mine's gone all week most of the time, so I don't have to hear it constantly. But I totally empathize with you. The funny thing is, that for as brilliant as they think they are, when everything's over and done and they think you did such a stellar job (with no help from them), they never LEARN that you know what you're doing and repeat the process over and over:mad: . I def. get ya! | 