I NEED to vent!!!

[mizzwanned]

People just really piss me off sometimes. Especially little boys that think they are grown and have gone thru their whole life when really they are just babies. Im talking about boys my age that act so immature when they should be acting more like adults. I mean act a little more mature and watch what you say. I went to a gathering today, one of my hs friend's house. Some of my friends from HS were there because everyone is on xmas break from college. At first I didn't want to go because I didn't want to leave London with Teddy alone because he plays rough and I have to watch them in fear that he'll hurt her by mistake. She plays rough too and thinks she is big when she's not so I told my bf I didn't know if I wanted to leave her. So he told me to just take her with me and I said no I don't want to take her to someone's house w/o asking them. He was like his friend won't mind, he just talks a lot of s*** but he won't care. So I'm like fine call him to ask. So he called his friend, which I already knew he'd say no and he did. He said he didn't know if his mom would like it and she would pee everywhere. So I'm like fine I won't. So I decided to just go for my bf because most of the friends were his guy friends from school and then 3 of my close girl friends were there that I haven't seen in a while. So I put Teddy in the living room and left London in my room with her bed, food and everything. So we go to the friend's house and while we're there all they're doing is arguing about how stereotypes were true and the girls were like no and blah blah blah. Then they would say some innapropriate things and at that point we were just really annoyed. So then my girl friends get up to leave and so do I and my bf asks why are you leaving and I told him because of the puppy. So then the guy says to me "You're taking this dog thing too far. I hope your dogs die". Can you believe it???? I got VERY mad and cursed him out and didn't even say bye and I left. Then my bf said he was staying and was going to walk me down. I said don't even walk me down, there's no point, I'm going with my friends and we're together. It was 3 of us. So I was really mad at him for staying and just left. Do you think I was out of line for cursing at him? He said he hopes my dogs die and no he wasn't laughing or anything. He's almost 20 btw. And sooo immature! Srry for the long post, I'm just really mad.

[Yorkieluv]

You have every right to be mad! Not only is that inconsiderate, that's completely rude. I would have done the same thing and defended my dogs. I mean, for him to wish for your dogs' deaths is taking it way too far. That's beyond a joke, if that's what he was trying to do. What business does he have talking to you like that, and for your boyfriend not to say anything is pretty sucky. That kind of behavior is not appropriate at any age.

[BLowry]

That was just rude and uncalled for! I would have said something to him too! People don't understand us "dog people" I have people call me insane all the time...tell me that i'm obsessed with my girls...well, I am! and I'm 49 years old..my skin girls are all grown up and out of the house. My husband works...A LOT and I only have the furgirls to keep me company...I do focus alot on them and my life pretty much is the girls. I have even brought them to my parents if I am going to be gone longer than 4 hours...Lillie is still a puppy and I put her in a playpen when I leave...she still gets into trouble! It would bother me that he said that and I probably would still be pi$$ed the next time I saw him but, he probably doesn't even care about himself...I understand some people don't like animals but, they have to realize that there are alot that do...

[daisy mae06]

That was Just Wrong!! What he did and Your BF I would have said no don't bother coming home tonight. and yes cursed the guy out that said it. Men sometimes are total JERKS~~~!!!!!!

[Yano]

You had every right! You did nothing wrong, and if you were leaving for your puppy, so what! You're just a good mommy to your furbaby! What a terrible, rude boy! That is the worst thing to say! What was he thinking?I don't think I would talk to him again... Definately immature. Sorry to be so blunt!

[LittleFurbabies]

You weren't wrong. I know how you feel. I'm 19 and I don't like to deal with guys/people my age b/c I can't deal with the immaturity level. You may need to find a mature guy your age or go for something a little older to balance out the maturity difference.

[JeanieK]

Originally Posted by mizzwanned

People just really piss me off sometimes. Especially little boys that think they are grown and have gone thru their whole life when really they are just babies. Im talking about boys my age that act so immature when they should be acting more like adults. I mean act a little more mature and watch what you say. I went to a gathering today, one of my hs friend's house. Some of my friends from HS were there because everyone is on xmas break from college. At first I didn't want to go because I didn't want to leave London with Teddy alone because he plays rough and I have to watch them in fear that he'll hurt her by mistake. She plays rough too and thinks she is big when she's not so I told my bf I didn't know if I wanted to leave her. So he told me to just take her with me and I said no I don't want to take her to someone's house w/o asking them. He was like his friend won't mind, he just talks a lot of s*** but he won't care. So I'm like fine call him to ask. So he called his friend, which I already knew he'd say no and he did. He said he didn't know if his mom would like it and she would pee everywhere. So I'm like fine I won't. So I decided to just go for my bf because most of the friends were his guy friends from school and then 3 of my close girl friends were there that I haven't seen in a while. So I put Teddy in the living room and left London in my room with her bed, food and everything. So we go to the friend's house and while we're there all they're doing is arguing about how stereotypes were true and the girls were like no and blah blah blah. Then they would say some innapropriate things and at that point we were just really annoyed. So then my girl friends get up to leave and so do I and my bf asks why are you leaving and I told him because of the puppy. So then the guy says to me "You're taking this dog thing too far. I hope your dogs die". Can you believe it???? I got VERY mad and cursed him out and didn't even say bye and I left. Then my bf said he was staying and was going to walk me down. I said don't even walk me down, there's no point, I'm going with my friends and we're together. It was 3 of us. So I was really mad at him for staying and just left. Do you think I was out of line for cursing at him? He said he hopes my dogs die and no he wasn't laughing or anything. He's almost 20 btw. And sooo immature! Srry for the long post, I'm just really mad.

Cursing just put you down to his level.

If you think that's bad, a few months ago when my stepdaughter, from California, was visiting, she informed me that she hoped I was dead the next time she sees me. And she's in her 40's.

She was mad because I gave her a guilt trip about coming here to visit and giving her father ONE WHOLE HOUR of her time. I had asked her who else in town was more important than her father and said you know you only visit about every three years and your father is not in good health, he could be dead the next time you see him. She stomped out and told me she hoped that I was dead the next time she sees me. And her 20 year old daughter told me to SHUT UP.

[mizzwanned]

Originally Posted by Yano

You had every right! You did nothing wrong, and if you were leaving for your puppy, so what! You're just a good mommy to your furbaby! What a terrible, rude boy! That is the worst thing to say! What was he thinking?I don't think I would talk to him again... Definately immature. Sorry to be so blunt!

I know..thank you. And I told my bf before we left I was only going to stay for like an hr or two because I didn't want her to be by herself for too long. I don't have a playpen or anything like that. I didn't even do anything to him for him to say something like that.

[mizzwanned]

Originally Posted by LittleFurbabies

You weren't wrong. I know how you feel. I'm 19 and I don't like to deal with guys/people my age b/c I can't deal with the immaturity level. You may need to find a mature guy your age or go for something a little older to balance out the maturity difference.

Yea me too.. that is why a lot of times I don't want to hang out with them and feel like I need to make other, older friends. I mean I can be immature at times but not THAT immature to the point where I would say something like that. I would never wish death upon anyone or anyone's pet!

[mizzwanned]

Originally Posted by JeanieK

Cursing just put you down to his level.

If you think that's bad, a few months ago when my stepdaughter, from California, was visiting, she informed me that she hoped I was dead the next time she sees me. And she's in her 40's.

She was mad because I gave her a guilt trip about coming here to visit and giving her father ONE WHOLE HOUR of her time. I had asked her who else in town was more important than her father and said you know you only visit about every three years and your father is not in good health, he could be dead the next time you see him. She stomped out and told me she hoped that I was dead the next time she sees me. And her 20 year old daughter told me to SHUT UP.

I know it did..but I could not control myself. He just really got to me and he is constantly rude and immature. That was really mean what your stepdaughter said. As mad as I would be I would never say something like that.

[Desert Dogs]

It was a very rude comment and very immature.
Personally, I wouldn't have told him off. People like that are not worth the time or energy it takes to tell them off.

[Kodak]

It was a rude comment and I would've cursed him out to, because you should'nt wish death on anyone.